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Moving on from a break up...Part Deux!

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  • lufcgirl
    lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    Well yes, her behaviour stems from her childhood. I know that only too well. And did a good job of throwing it back at her yesterday, most likely exactly what she wanted me to do.

    I do read, but it tends to me more textbooks than novels. If that makes sense?
  • Prawny
    Prawny Posts: 61 Forumite
    Just wanted to wish you good luck with not answering the calls. You're sounding a lot stronger now, so I'm sure you can do it.
  • Welshwoofs
    Welshwoofs Posts: 11,146 Forumite
    lufcgirl wrote: »
    Completely agree with you!
    I think the dating thing was to just see what was out there. I'm not 'sceney' at all and hate the concept of just going out to pull someone. I am having a break, I've had nearly six weeks of having a break and my head is in a much better place now, compared to what it was.

    Thank you for being so honest...it has helped me realise things a lot. Seriously!


    I'm sure you'll be fine - you just need to give yourself a bit of a break from her emotional whirlpools sucking you in. If the late night calls are making you tired I'd simply turn your phone come your normal bedtime.

    You're obviously a thoughtful and concerned person so I've no doubt that the 'right one' will come along in good time :)
    “Don't do it! Stay away from your potential. You'll mess it up, it's potential, leave it. Anyway, it's like your bank balance - you always have a lot less than you think.”
    Dylan Moran
  • lufcgirl wrote: »
    Well yes, her behaviour stems from her childhood. I know that only too well. And did a good job of throwing it back at her yesterday, most likely exactly what she wanted me to do.

    I do read, but it tends to me more textbooks than novels. If that makes sense?

    Have a look at ''I can mend your broken heart'' by Paul McKenna. It's a book. You will be over her and your next step will be to delate this thread and start a new one, for your new life. ;)

    JCG

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  • Well? Hows the head today? :D

    JCG

    xx
    :smileyheaMarried on 20/07/2012! :smileyhea
    :DBought my new car 11/08/12:D
    :cool: Save £12k In 2013 Num 009! £5502/£5000 :cool:
    Save £12k in 2014 Num 22! £2131/£3000
    Emergency Fund £0
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