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Moving on from a break up...Part Deux!
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Well yes, her behaviour stems from her childhood. I know that only too well. And did a good job of throwing it back at her yesterday, most likely exactly what she wanted me to do.
I do read, but it tends to me more textbooks than novels. If that makes sense?0 -
Just wanted to wish you good luck with not answering the calls. You're sounding a lot stronger now, so I'm sure you can do it.0
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Completely agree with you!
I think the dating thing was to just see what was out there. I'm not 'sceney' at all and hate the concept of just going out to pull someone. I am having a break, I've had nearly six weeks of having a break and my head is in a much better place now, compared to what it was.
Thank you for being so honest...it has helped me realise things a lot. Seriously!
I'm sure you'll be fine - you just need to give yourself a bit of a break from her emotional whirlpools sucking you in. If the late night calls are making you tired I'd simply turn your phone come your normal bedtime.
You're obviously a thoughtful and concerned person so I've no doubt that the 'right one' will come along in good time
“Don't do it! Stay away from your potential. You'll mess it up, it's potential, leave it. Anyway, it's like your bank balance - you always have a lot less than you think.”
― Dylan Moran0 -
Well yes, her behaviour stems from her childhood. I know that only too well. And did a good job of throwing it back at her yesterday, most likely exactly what she wanted me to do.
I do read, but it tends to me more textbooks than novels. If that makes sense?
Have a look at ''I can mend your broken heart'' by Paul McKenna. It's a book. You will be over her and your next step will be to delate this thread and start a new one, for your new life.
JCG
xx:smileyheaMarried on 20/07/2012! :smileyhea
:DBought my new car 11/08/12:D:cool: Save £12k In 2013 Num 009! £5502/£5000 :cool:
Save £12k in 2014 Num 22! £2131/£3000
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Well? Hows the head today?

JCG
xx:smileyheaMarried on 20/07/2012! :smileyhea
:DBought my new car 11/08/12:D:cool: Save £12k In 2013 Num 009! £5502/£5000 :cool:
Save £12k in 2014 Num 22! £2131/£3000
Emergency Fund £00
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