Partner hit me...

rachel6188

my aunty ended up with 40 metal plates rebuilding her face both lungs punctured and was nearly stangled and drowned after my uncle tried to kill her. it started out as slap many years before. shed left him and he knew she was never going back. hed tried it before. please huni...protect yourself huni xxx

DUTR

rachel6188 wrote: »

my aunty ended up with 40 metal plates rebuilding her face both lungs punctured and was nearly stangled and drowned after my uncle tried to kill her. it started out as slap many years before. shed left him and he knew she was never going back. hed tried it before. please huni...protect yourself huni xxx

A woman shot her husband in the living room, submerged his head in fluid for 15 minutes and hung him in the back bedroom, yet later that evening they were out enjoying a meal together :eek:

Lotus-eater

DUTR wrote: »

What do you expect me to type, that I am more innocent than the angels?
Well for the record, no I am not, but not here to impress you all
The OP could leave the OP could stay, as said I'm sure there are many women who have had a slap and stayed with their partners and lived happily ever after

I find your attitude disturbing and worrying.

From your post, I am presuming you have hit a partner before?

DUTR

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I find your attitude disturbing and worrying.

From your post, I am presuming you have hit a partner before?

See post 24, 29 and 92, I find the whole thread disturbing, but the thread is not what you think about me, the spotlight is in the OP and their situation :cool:

shelle2

DUTR Do you actually have nothing better to do?

Lotus-eater

DUTR wrote: »

See post 24, 29 and 92, I find the whole thread disturbing, but the thread is not what you think about me, the spotlight is in the OP and their situation :cool:

It doesn't matter to you what I think about you.

I was trying to clarify a point. You insinuated you have hit a partner before, obviously you've changed your mind about admitting it now.

DUTR

Lotus-eater wrote: »

It doesn't matter to you what I think about you.

I was trying to clarify a point. You insinuated you have hit a partner before, obviously you've changed your mind about admitting it now.

If it does not matter what you think of me, then why are you trying to clarify a point? Obviously nothing , that is a controlling phrase I have heard before when a woman wants an answer, I have not changed my mind about anything

DUTR

shelle2 wrote: »

DUTR Do you actually have nothing better to do?

Well if you mean replying to your pointless post , then no I do not, do you?

Lotus-eater

DUTR wrote: »

If it does not matter what you think of me, then why are you trying to clarify a point? Obviously nothing , that is a controlling phrase I have heard before when a woman wants an answer, I have not changed my mind about anything

I said it doesn't matter to you, it matters to me.
If you are someone who would hit a woman, then it matters, because it will influence your posts.

Clarifying a point, means that as part of a healthy debate, someone asks someone else to explain something better.

As I was asking you to explain a post of yours, it's well within this threads limits. If you don't want to answer, but you are happy to post ambiguous words, where it may be perceived that you have "slapped" a woman before, then it shows the kind of man you are.

DUTR

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I said it doesn't matter to you, it matters to me.
If you are someone who would hit a woman, then it matters, because it will influence your posts.

Clarifying a point, means that as part of a healthy debate, someone asks someone else to explain something better.

As I was asking you to explain a post of yours, it's well within this threads limits. If you don't want to answer, but you are happy to post ambiguous words, where it may be perceived that you have "slapped" a woman before, then it shows the kind of man you are.

I don't see a healthy debate to be honest, 'everyone' wants the Op to leave that is clear from the responses, however the OP's Mum is ill (if she is still alive) and is an only child yet has a brother and a sister (or have they passed away?) and has children to think about too, so it seems the whole thread is based upon supposition.
Now back to your concern, if someone hits another (does not matter of the gender really does it?) then it does not mean they will do it again or that it makes them some kind of maniac, by that logic, someone who breaks any driving violation should have their license revoked for good as they may break another one in their lifetime.
and as in your footnote "Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes."