Just received this - please help

blue_monkey_2

I think you need to tell him and show him what you have on him, he might then leave because of just what you have on him.

At the moment, all he knows is that you said it for a reaction and he thinks he can still go on pushing you around. I think there is not be such a hard fight if he knew that those pictures were going to be published and shown to all.

Copy them first though.

Plans_all_plans

I don't think that's a fair request really. This person shouldn't have to justify themselves to anyone. If you don't believe them, fair enough, but I don't think you should be asking posters to 'prove' what they say.

Doorstep_horror

Kay_Peel wrote: »

PM me with your real user name, please.

Can I ask why?

piglet74

Kay_Peel wrote: »

PM me with your real user name, please.

whats ur problem!!! dont she have enuf on her plate! if ur not on her side...butt out

blue_monkey_2

Kay_Peel wrote: »

PM me with your real user name, please.

What difference would that make? What are you going to do, go round the house and check?

euronorris

Plans_all_plans wrote: »

I don't think that's a fair request really. This person shouldn't have to justify themselves to anyone. If you don't believe them, fair enough, but I don't think you should be asking posters to 'prove' what they say.

I agree entirely with that.

If you don't believe the OP, just step away from the thread and leave them to it.

sassyblue

Kay_Peel wrote: »

PM me with your real user name, please.

Who made you forum police? :rotfl:

You know where the 'door' is if you don't like the thread.

lizzielondon

Doorstep_horror wrote: »

I have advised the solicitors that he is planning a remortgage but they said it's ok to wait to see them until Monday as he (husband)won't be able to do too much between now and then.

He is hoping to remortgage this property, and also he has asked his father for a loan incase he can't raise enough.

apologies if i haven't understood but it seems like you are going to let him remortgage the house? I don't really understand, half the equity is yours

Doorstep_horror

I am really sorry to have caused this, I came here hoping for some advice, and somewhere to off load.

Doorstep_horror

lizzielondon wrote: »

apologies if i haven't understood but it seems like you are going to let him remortgage the house? I don't really understand, half the equity is yours

Yes but the mortgage is in his name only so he thinks he can do as he pleases.