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well, 2 more nasty messages today from girls on POF.
1- I'm not desperate enough to even want to know you, and if I was you'd have to be the only breed able man in the world left
2- f##k off you glasses wearing freak, get a life and meet some one the proper way
Such a wonderful pair I'm sorry I missed those chances0 -
well,what a funny way to spend an evening! enjoyable actually,especially after i'd found the "filter out the weirdos" button.
i have to say,theres a lot of normal,chatty,not-bad looking blokes on POF,
if you are thinking about joining up,i'd say give it a go!0 -
well, 2 more nasty messages today from girls on POF.
1- I'm not desperate enough to even want to know you, and if I was you'd have to be the only breed able man in the world left
2- f##k off you glasses wearing freak, get a life and meet some one the proper way
Such a wonderful pair I'm sorry I missed those chances
horrid women,not the sort you'd want to meet anyway!0 -
Well I've just got back from a second date. Met him for a quick drink last week and we got on really well and arranged to meet for dinner tonight. He's a lovely guy but there just wasn't a spark between us.
Oh well.....back to the drawing board! Only been doing this for almost two weeks but I'm getting tired of it already0 -
well, 2 more nasty messages today from girls on POF.
1- I'm not desperate enough to even want to know you, and if I was you'd have to be the only breed able man in the world left
2- f##k off you glasses wearing freak, get a life and meet some one the proper way
Such a wonderful pair I'm sorry I missed those chanceslovely replies there! Sounds like they aren't even worth the time you spent messaging them in the first place. Onwards and upwards!
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well,what a funny way to spend an evening! enjoyable actually,especially after i'd found the "filter out the weirdos" button.
i have to say,theres a lot of normal,chatty,not-bad looking blokes on POF,
if you are thinking about joining up,i'd say give it a go!
Its early days, In my first 2 weeks I could have had a date every night. You will find it slows down and you will see the same faces so enjoy it in the early stages x0 -
Just go for it
it is scary but I did the whole waiting longer before meeting and each time I was disappointed I think we both built up an illusion of what would happen.
The best outcomes have been where I have met within a week of chatting.
I have also found that if you wait too long they will move on to someone else.
My rule is (If I was looking) if a man drags his heels about meeting I'll move on.
lisaB85- i've PM'd you,would you mind looking at my profile for me please,
give me any tips etc,i can take advice!0 -
THANKYOU>
big thank you to lisaB85,she had a look at my profile and gave me some good tips.
maybe she should start charging us for the approval service!0 -
I cant believe I've missed this thread before I could write a book on it!
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POF, BeNaughty, Smooch and was on girlsdateforfree
now tend to just use pof. I also recently dated that guy who talked about himself all evening! geese he gets about!
I find it doesn't matter what their profile is like, how well you've got on in written word, how much you've got in common, how long you've been chatting etc - basically if the chemistry is there, it's there and I always like to decide after a second date. I'm set to hide atm, due to having a few dates with a gorgeous guy, way too young for me, he's 31, I'm 44, but I'm sticking with it. Pof tells me I've been there for 3 years, but I've only been seriously looking for over a year; had a tonne of meets though, I tend to reply to most well mannered people and have meet some lovely people who I still see as friends and we often do the groupon meals; my profile also says friends are welcome
my user name is the same as on here - oooopppps back in the days of using the same user name but i've given up caring tbh. It's been a month with this guy and he came up to see me on boxing day, our anniversary :rotfl::rotfl:
I'm taking it one day at a time but always been determined never to give up.
nettie: single parent with no support network - only my internet buddies0
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