what are the best value dating sites?

VestanPance

nfollows1982 wrote: »

I haven't had time to read the 101 pages of this thread, but if we are still on topic then I'd recommend Plenty of Fish.

Met my wife on there in March 2011, we married in March 2012 and our first child together is due in January 2013.

Internet dating has it's critics, but it does work for some!!

Congratulations.

Although I have to admit it always freaks me out a bit to see people get married after knowing each other for such a short period of time.

JustKeepSwimming_2

A guy has been messaging me for the past few days &, long story short, has requested a date :eek:. But he appears to have taken offence when I said I'd only meet him in a coffee shop or pub & I'd meet him there rather than him collect me from my house. He has ranted on about how I'm treating like a nutter & how it is very disrespectful & untrusting of me not to tell him where I live.

I've pointed out, politely, that I don't know him so I'd feel more comfortable in a public place, but he doesn't seem to get it & thinks I'm being odd/rude by not giving him my address.

What do you all think?

And no, I shant be meeting him. Looks like I've attracted another nutter :rotfl:

xcarlyx

okcupid. I met my other half on there we been together 6 month next month. its free too

VestanPance

JustKeepSwimming wrote: »

A guy has been messaging me for the past few days &, long story short, has requested a date :eek:. But he appears to have taken offence when I said I'd only meet him in a coffee shop or pub & I'd meet him there rather than him collect me from my house. He has ranted on about how I'm treating like a nutter & how it is very disrespectful & untrusting of me not to tell him where I live.

I've pointed out, politely, that I don't know him so I'd feel more comfortable in a public place, but he doesn't seem to get it & thinks I'm being odd/rude by not giving him my address.

What do you all think?

And no, I shant be meeting him. Looks like I've attracted another nutter :rotfl:

He's a nutter. Meeting at an arranged public venue for a first date sounds about as normal and expected as you could get.

ShAnE

VestanPance wrote: »

He's a nutter. Meeting at an arranged public venue for a first date sounds about as normal and expected as you could get.

x2 he's a nutter. Any normal guy would insist on meeting in a public place, for his own safety as well as yours.

asparagus1968

prudent_princess wrote: »

Yes I got charged £100 even though I had cancelled!

Sent a complaint and never heard from them again! No refund either!

theres a site,think its something like "be2 complaints" what a horrid crew they are!

On_My_Lonesome

ShAnE wrote: »

x2 he's a nutter. Any normal guy would insist on meeting in a public place, for his own safety as well as yours.

x3 that he's a nutter. He must be mad for even thinking anyone in their right mind would give someone they have only spoken to online their addresss.

JustKeepSwimming_2

VestanPance wrote: »

He's a nutter. Meeting at an arranged public venue for a first date sounds about as normal and expected as you could get.

ShAnE wrote: »

x2 he's a nutter. Any normal guy would insist on meeting in a public place, for his own safety as well as yours.

On_My_Lonesome wrote: »

x3 that he's a nutter. He must be mad for even thinking anyone in their right mind would give someone they have only spoken to online their addresss.

Thanks all - glad to have some reassurance that it isn't me that is mad, it's them :rotfl:

ali-t

JustKeepSwimming wrote: »

Thanks all - glad to have some reassurance that it isn't me that is mad, it's them :rotfl:

Definitely a nutter. Avoid!

tenke

JustKeepSwimming wrote: »

A guy has been messaging me for the past few days &, long story short, has requested a date :eek:. But he appears to have taken offence when I said I'd only meet him in a coffee shop or pub & I'd meet him there rather than him collect me from my house. He has ranted on about how I'm treating like a nutter & how it is very disrespectful & untrusting of me not to tell him where I live.

I've pointed out, politely, that I don't know him so I'd feel more comfortable in a public place, but he doesn't seem to get it & thinks I'm being odd/rude by not giving him my address.

What do you all think?

And no, I shant be meeting him. Looks like I've attracted another nutter :rotfl:

Oh dear... :eek:

Alarm bells ringing until deafness !!! :rotfl:

Red flags until you see no more than red !!!:D

Next thing you know, if things didtn work out, you have a stalker coming to your house asking : Why not? why not? why not? :rotfl::D

If he is ranting pre-meet, imagine afterwards LOL :rotfl::rotfl: