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_sleepless_

ceecee1 wrote: »

Can I just ask you all for your advice please.

We left it that if I wanted to get in touch that he would leave it to me - have had one text since just saying to have a nice day.

My cowardly side of me just wants to leave things but my polite side tells me that I should at least send an e-mail to say 'No thanks'

What do people usually do?

If he left 'the ball' in your court and you didn't contact him, then he sent you a little prompt message and you still didn't reply then i'd think he's probably got the hint that your not interested. However if he messages again just put the poor guy out of his misery.

As for me....think i should figure out how to multi quote in the same message (or just quote properly at all)

sleepless

sarah_ace1

i didnt fancy him at all and have no interest in seeing him again. i think the feeling was mutual

zoesmummy_2006

ok so i have a date with the guy i shoulda met a few weeks back TONIGHT!!!!! im trying not to think about it at the min as I dont wanna get too nervous lol. He's been texting me all day every day for the last couple weeks, and he makes me laugh and smile and we talk about anything and everything. Hope that stays the case tonight, we're just gonna go for a couple of drinks and see how the night takes us!! Fingers crossed he's as nice in person as he seems

Im slightly excited-can you tell lol

smudger1964

ceecee1 wrote: »

Can I just ask you all for your advice please.

I met a man off a site last week. He was a nice man but seemed intent on getting me to stay the night with him (at my own pace of course !!) but although we chatted OK there was absolutly nothing about him that I fancied - or could ever fancy..

We left it that if I wanted to get in touch that he would leave it to me - have had one text since just saying to have a nice day.

My cowardly side of me just wants to leave things but my polite side tells me that I should at least send an e-mail to say 'No thanks'

I'm just not sure what would be the best - if someone did it to me would I be more upset at the 'No thanks - your not my type'

What do people usually do?

In my experience of dates if you both dont fancy each other you just dont text..A few ladies I have met who I didnt fancy or her me ,just generally say when you leave thanks for a nice evening and then dont text each other again..If I get a text from a lady who wants to see me again but I dont her I just normally send a thanks but no thanks type of text,but in a nice way theres no point in being hurtfull or nasty as there is someone for everyone in this big world

The other way round if I send a text love to see you again and dont get a reply I move on

ceecee1

smudger1964 wrote: »

If I get a text from a lady who wants to see me again but I dont her I just normally send a thanks but no thanks type of text,but in a nice way theres no point in being hurtfull or nasty as there is someone for everyone in this big world

The other way round if I send a text love to see you again and dont get a reply I move on

Thank you. I think I just wanted someone to confirm what I was already thinking:T

samuelthomson240

hi i may be going to a pof night in glasgow any advice for anyone who has been before ? thanks john

sunny_d_2

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

hi i may be going to a pof night in glasgow any advice for anyone who has been before ? thanks john

I asked this question last week but no one replied I haven't long re-joined, so might just leave it until I know more about them. Have a good time if you decide to go, it's in Madness isn't it?

Barny1979

I may regret posting this, but this is my profile

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=36648071

girlybags

Barny1979 wrote: »

I may regret posting this, but this is my profile

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=36648071

Nothing wrong with you as far as I can tell

zoesmummy_2006 wrote: »

ok so i have a date with the guy i shoulda met a few weeks back TONIGHT!!!!! im trying not to think about it at the min as I dont wanna get too nervous lol. He's been texting me all day every day for the last couple weeks, and he makes me laugh and smile and we talk about anything and everything. Hope that stays the case tonight, we're just gonna go for a couple of drinks and see how the night takes us!! Fingers crossed he's as nice in person as he seems

Im slightly excited-can you tell lol

Hope you have a great time tonight

DirtyDick

lara_412 wrote: »

Hi, yes he does sound quite controlling/scary. I haven't give him any personal info at all. He only knows my name & the town I live in.

I did end communication with him thankfully.

Your full name as well as the town?

So hopefully he won't look on the electoral roll, or in the phone book, or on 192.com.

Not so bad if you're called Anne Smith, but not so good if you're called Clarabel Fitzgibbons-Rothschild.