MSE Pregnancy Club 23

missymoo81

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

My Doctor told me I wasn’t to have my smear because I was pregnant and that I needed to book in after the baby was born but he’s marked it on my medical file so I will automatically get reminded.

Had a pants afternoon – I’ve broken up with the fella, was me who ended it but I’m still heartbroken. Keep crying every time flump kicks, sat at work, can’t go home. Hurry up 4pm I need to go curl up in bed

oooooh mimi hugs hun xxxxxx

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Lirin wrote: »

Mimi- so sorry for you, anything I can do?

If you have a time machine can you just pop back to last December and tell past me to stop being a cow and causing problems?

It's not something i wanted to do - i REALLY want to tell him ive made a mistake, still love him etc (Because i do) but i just dont make him happy and ultimatley, he deserves to be. So as much as it hurts me, I need to let him go. I really wanted him to fight for me, but i just got "fine, goodbye" so i think he's relieved in a way

I'm hoping he will still have something to do with my DD even though he isnt her biological dad because he's been there for her so much - much more than her "real" dad - But obviously if he doesnt want to there's not much I can do about it

Aimless

Thanks everyone, I know really it is a good idea to have it, just had a minor panic when they said tomorrow (even though they've had tomorrow's date on every wall in the surgery for weeks! ).

I've had my bloods done today ready for next week's 28 week appointment, booked my flu jab, found some more lovely baby clothes in my local charity shop (4 for a pound, excellent!) then been tearing around frantically cleaning cos the other half is coming tonight. I have to drive 15 miles to the Mothercare evening, drive 35 miles or so from there to the station to collect him, then 25 miles home again. So I have to be ready to leave soon, just been washing up in my dressing gown straight out of the bath. Arrghh, just remembered another job I missed.....

Lirin

Mimi- It's hard when you realise that- even harder to act on it.

Big hug for you, though.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

I've took it hard because to me - he was the one for me. We was friends for a long time before we got together so I've lost both my fella, and one of my best friends at the same time - But hopefully I've done it for the right reasons and he'll be happier

Gillyx

Mimi takes a lot of courage to do what you've done. It's ultimately putting someone elses happiness before your own. Big hugs xxx

mancbird

Hi everyone,

Just a very quick post from me....Flump stayed put and we are now officially married :j :j :j

Rung round all the family and told them the news...they all took it well and are really pleased for us

Thanks everyone for your well wishes, I will be back here tomorrow and will catch up properly then

Mrs D xxx

Lirin

I had to do that before- it'll take a while to get over, but ultimately will maybe work out the best. Can your friendship be salvaged?

Lirin

Congratulations Mrs Mancbird D!

mancbird

Mimi, so very sorry to hear about you and your OH (((hugs))) take care xxx