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afraid of the dark? as in ghosties and the like? :eek:

if so, why and if not, why not?

mods - can you change/add to a poll?

Ghosties... 87 votes

I believe and am afraid
17% 15 votes
I believe and am not afraid
35% 31 votes
I do not believe in this sort of rubbish!
47% 41 votes
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  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I am not afraid of the dark - I like the dark! it gets quiet and on nights like this when there are thunderstorms predicted I like it even more! Natures firework show!
    as for ghosts - I have seen, sensed and felt some. mostly they are harmless. people who wouldnt hurt you in life wouldnt hurt you after they die!
  • jjblondie
    jjblondie Posts: 340 Forumite
    I'd like the option of don't believe but still terrified of the dark :-). I don't think ghosts exist but I still HATE walking around the house after about 11pm alone or in the dark. At 10 that was probably acceptable but I'm 19 now...I didn't put the bins out last night because it was scary and dark!
  • muckybutt
    muckybutt Posts: 3,761 Forumite
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    Not at all afraid of the dark of ghosties, our house is in the country so is as black as the ace of spades at night, that combined with our resident spirit friends make for some interesting nights sometimes.
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    jjblondie wrote: »
    I'd like the option of don't believe but still terrified of the dark :-). I don't think ghosts exist .......I didn't put the bins out last night because it was scary and dark!

    what were you scared of?
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Its strange - people who have seen or lived with ghosts tend NOT to be afraid of them. People who havent - Are! is that bizarre or what!
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    I dont believe in ghosts, but I am scared of the dark. Massively scared. Leaving a light on at night type of scared. I'm 36 years old. :)
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
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    ska_lover wrote: »
    I dont believe in ghosts, but I am scared of the dark. Massively scared. Leaving a light on at night type of scared. I'm 36 years old. :)

    it feels like scardies anonymous!

    what are you scared of in the dark then if not ghosties?
  • jakes-mum
    jakes-mum Posts: 4,642 Forumite
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    Yes I believe and no im not scared :) My parents live in an old farm house and we often hear heavy footsteps on the landing, and when my husband and I lived there between houses, he came home one night from the pub to see the old lady who died in the house come out of the dining room (it was her bedroom at the end) and walk across the kitchen and into the downstairs loo. I also woke up to findthe duvet pinned down either side of me by something I couldnt see. Whatever it was didnt hurt me and my parents have never had anything scary happen so I just accept that ghosts exist and they wont hurt us :)
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  • rachbc
    rachbc Posts: 4,461 Forumite
    Not scared o the dark cos I know there's no such thing as a ghostie
    People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • koalamummy
    koalamummy Posts: 1,577 Forumite
    I haven't voted yet as am not really sure how to answer! I am certainly not afraid of the dark in fact during stressful periods I find the peace and tranquility that it brings reassuring. I am certainly not afraid of the dead as dead people don't harm you....the living are far more prone to doing that. I have no experience of ghosts so don't think they exist but maybe strangely I wouldn't at all mind if they did as it would be lovely to believe that those who have gone before us are watching over us and trying to keep us safe.
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