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dipsy · 2011-08-22 23:05:33

Finally met someone i really like still early days three months anyway bomb shell dropped ex of 5 months is threatening to commit suicide saying she has nowhere to live after 1st september he feels so guilty he is talking about letting her move in as a friend until she sorts herself out meanwhile he suggests we go on hold…

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yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite

26 August 2011 at 8:51PM

Her talk of suicide is emotional blackmail.

Your best of out of it. If you ask him not to take her in and she does harm herself or whatever he will blame you and if she does get her own way and move back in with him you will still get the blame if and when she get's under his skin.

I'm sorry but it looks like your going to lose out no matter what.

It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
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