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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    What, did everyone get them?:shocked:
    Nope, I got money from almost everyone, which we used for our honeymoon :D
    Don't think my parents gave us money as a gift though, other than to pay for the actual elements of the wedding - which we'd never asked for, or discussed them paying previous :D:A
    scarly wrote: »
    I've 'unfollowed' my ex on FB so that I can't see anything in my news feed to hit me again at a later date. It was just a real kick in the gut when I saw the scan pic he'd posted and his comments on it being his 'beautiful baby'.:(
    There are many I've "unfollowed"/hidden on FB atm :o
    When I get my forever baby I think I'm going to keep it completely off FB. You just have no idea of the pain you might be causing other people with those kinds of posts - particularly with old friends you haven't seen/spoken to in ages and you've no real idea of their personal circumstances.
    You can also create friends lists, so that only certain people see the news - like your closest rellies/friends that you know you aren't upsetting and are happy for you. :)
    tinkwings wrote: »
    UPDATE - Sorry if TMI :o:o:o

    Just been toilet and Brown/Red thick sticky CM and nothing more :o

    Fingers crossed it is the start of AF and we can get operation CC on the road :D:D:D:D:D:D:D
    Hope you're not messed about too much longer Tinks. I know it's frustrating :o

    :wave: to all. Thanks for the thoughts (re my pain). I'm used to it now really, and didn't mean to go on about it, sorry :o

    I'm sure there were other things I meant to reply to, but forgotten now! :o

    Anyway, I really should get up now and get dressed! :p DH's friend is coming for a brew tonight, the house is a state, I'm not dressed, tea's not sorted, etc etc...!118260b52a43fdaf187d070ee76820b5bef57cc7.jpgbbf266852944bd3a1d3db60a4e486c94b75a1936.jpg
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Fed up..... Fed up of not being pg anymore, fed up of waiting for our forever baby. It feels like its never going to happen for us.
    I'm desperate to get pg again but I'm also so scared that I will and something will go wrong again.

    Sorry for the moan, this cold's making me feel mopey

    Right where has my PMA gone to?! searching-019.gif

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Emsbet - huge hugs honey, you will get your forever baby and don't forget about operation Christmas conception.
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Primmer wrote: »
    Emsbet - huge hugs honey, you will get your forever baby and don't forget about operation Christmas conception.

    Thanks :o just feeling sorry for myself and over thinking reasons why we may have lost two babies in a row. I think I need to stop thinking about it and go with the flow.

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    emsbet wrote: »
    Thanks :o just feeling sorry for myself and over thinking reasons why we may have lost two babies in a row. I think I need to stop thinking about it and go with the flow.

    xx

    I am sure how you are feeling is completely normal given your losses but you will get there x
  • tinkwings wrote: »

    Anyone know why AF could be late and it not be + ???? Very confussed as only ever been late 4 times and I was PG each time.........................

    Having the same issues here - I'm currently on CD 37 and never been this late but I'm not pg :(
    I'm not even sure if I Ov'd this month but would be odd if I didnt as I have had a regular cycle every month since coming off the pill earlier this year so not sure whats going on with my body at the moment! If I did OV I'd be about 14 dpo now so Id assume a test would show a bfp - I have taken one today and completely neg, not even a hint of a line.

    Dont recall being overly stressed or anything this month - just hoping AF comes along in a few days so I can see if next month is a bit more normal!! :p
  • maire1
    maire1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    Emsbet what you posted is exactly how I'm feeling too. It just feels so unfair doesn't it?

    It will happen though. And when it does it will be so so worth the wait!

    It's hard to have pma but remember you're entitled to your feelings and it's natural to feel like life's a bit !!!! at times!

    I'm having a particularly carp day after hearing another friend is pg. cheering myself up with heat mag! I know tomorrow will be cd 1. Not been trying this cycle but it still sucks!
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    maire1 wrote: »
    Emsbet what you posted is exactly how I'm feeling too. It just feels so unfair doesn't it?

    It will happen though. And when it does it will be so so worth the wait!

    It's hard to have pma but remember you're entitled to your feelings and it's natural to feel like life's a bit !!!! at times!

    I'm having a particularly carp day after hearing another friend is pg. cheering myself up with heat mag! I know tomorrow will be cd 1. Not been trying this cycle but it still sucks!

    Thanks :o Big ((hugs)) to you. How long until you have your blood tests now?

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • QQuaver - can you put me down as CD1 please :(

    On the plus side I've got the day off work tomorrow :)
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    QQuaver - can you put me down as CD1 please :(

    On the plus side I've got the day off work tomorrow :)

    ((hugs)) want to join operation Christmas/new year conception?

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
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