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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • emsbet wrote: »
    CD1 for me please QQ :o

    I'm feeling actually quite optimistic. Going to follow SD's example and list the reasons to have PMA:
    1) my first cycle after mc is normal looking - 14 day LP
    2) At least I know my body has got itself back to "normal"
    3) DH is right and it's a good thing I'm giving my body a bit of a rest after two pregnancies in six months.
    4) I get to have a drink over Christmas :)
    5) I get to have a few drinks this weekend at my annual Christmas girly night out :)
    6) I can get pate, seafood, naughty cheeses and cured meats for another month
    7) I have an excuse to eat chocolate :)
    8) I can go play in the AF room ;)

    xx

    ETA three posts in a row?! I look like a crazy lady talking to myself! th_smiley-crazy.gif

    Found it Emsbet.

    Sending it back with huge hugs
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    Total debt exc mortgage - [STRIKE]£11857[/STRIKE]] £10092.37 . :wall: Savings Pot - £22.50. :o
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Found it Emsbet.

    Sending it back with huge hugs

    :D thanks

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    (( HUGS)) Emsbet, you will get your baby, you will!

    Being sick and down is not good, I really feel for you. But Xmas is ahead of us and although it will be sad for many of us because of our losses, it will give us hope as well, OCC is ahead of us! Be gentle to yourself and take it easy, go with the flow.
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    maire1 wrote: »
    Emsbet what you posted is exactly how I'm feeling too. It just feels so unfair doesn't it?

    It will happen though. And when it does it will be so so worth the wait!

    It's hard to have pma but remember you're entitled to your feelings and it's natural to feel like life's a bit !!!! at times!

    I'm having a particularly carp day after hearing another friend is pg. cheering myself up with heat mag! I know tomorrow will be cd 1. Not been trying this cycle but it still sucks!


    I'm feeling really scared, friend of mine is pregnant and started to bleed today, she is at A&E at the moment and just hoping that baby is fine and still sticking. She must be so worried, I remember holding up at EPU till they said I was miscarrying:(. Keep your fingers cross, pls!
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Fingers crossed for your friend kavics.
    Halifax CC £1029/£2490, Tesco CC [STRIKE]£0/£3203[/STRIKE], Tesco loan £15431/£15808, Carloan1 £6743/£8241, Carloan2[STRIKE] £0/£3813[/STRIKE]

    Pay all your debt off by Xmas 18 =22% £6661/£29865
  • mrshappy
    mrshappy Posts: 982 Forumite
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    :) Hugs Ems, you're perfectly entitled to have a moan, it's normal to be up and down, we all are at some point and we are all here to support each other through the downs and cheer for each other on the ups. That doesn't really make sense, but I hope you get what I mean!

    mrhappy finally phoned for his 2nd SA results today, and they aren't much different from the 1st one. I haven't had the chance to talk to him properly about it as I was on dayshift and he is on backshift and I have had my family round tonight as it is my sons birthday. Everyone has now gone home and I'm left with my thoughts-not a good place place to be! Will talk to him more when he gets in, he will make another appointment with the GP as "not much difference" might mean a slight improvement as the last result was a big fat zero. I'm not feeling very proud of myself at all as after he texted me this result I ended up blurting it out to my line manager, she could see I wasn't quite right this afternoon so she sent me home early :o

    So I'm feeling a bit pants and weepy tonight, think I might have a wee glass of wine and a big piece of chocolate cake ;)
  • mrshappy
    mrshappy Posts: 982 Forumite
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    kavics17 wrote: »
    I'm feeling really scared, friend of mine is pregnant and started to bleed today, she is at A&E at the moment and just hoping that baby is fine and still sticking. She must be so worried, I remember holding up at EPU till they said I was miscarrying:(. Keep your fingers cross, pls!


    Fingers well and truly crossed for your friend x
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    ((hugs)) mrshappy

    Fingers crossed for your friend Kavics

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    Fed up..... Fed up of not being pg anymore, fed up of waiting for our forever baby. It feels like its never going to happen for us.
    I'm desperate to get pg again but I'm also so scared that I will and something will go wrong again.

    Sorry for the moan, this cold's making me feel mopey

    Right where has my PMA gone to?! searching-019.gif

    xx

    ME TOO :o:(
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    ME TOO :o:(

    th_Hug_emoticon_by_smiekie.gif

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
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