Trying for a Baby Part 7

Kitten_Pie

gizmodo wrote: »

I've failed this month. We haven't even BD'd yet. It's hard enough at the best of times due to lack of libido, but with a daughter it's just so much harder! I prefer to BD in the morning but we can't now. And at night I'm too scared of waking her up I value my sleep too much. :o:o I think I'm CD 11 or 12 so still time. If things go back to how they were before then I should ov day 14/15.

Sounds like you still have time.

Primmer

Morning all, af is due Friday and I think it's on it's way as I started to get a migraine last night on drive home from work which was horrible. Made it home and went straight to bed but still have it this morning and it is right accross my right eye which is really unpleasant. It is quite common for me to get a migraine a few days before af and they normally last a few days so think I am out this month just feel like it is never going to happen for me but will go to doctors once af starts as we have been trying for over two years now

Hugs to all who need them x

emsbet

Primmer wrote: »

just feel like it is never going to happen for me but will go to doctors once af starts as we have been trying for over two years now

((hugs)) I hope AF doesn't arrive but if she does maybe a visit to the doctors is a good idea. Sometimes just getting the ball rolling for investigations can help people relax enough to concieve.

I hope your migraine goes soon.


Where was everyone last night? I log on this morning expecting ss and plans for world domination and there was nothing!

I've got the day off today and my mum, two sisters and one nephew are meeting me in Manchester to do some shopping :j On the downside I've woken up with DH's cold this morning.

xx

BB1984

Morning all,

Just in response to the how many weeks thing...

It's basically 280 days (40 weeks) from CD1, based on a 28 day cycle, and ovulating on CD14. Because I didn't ov until CD36 on my BFP cycle, I counted forwards 38 weeks from ovulation day. I explained this to my midwife, and she agreed with me.

Besides, she said that they don't take an awful lot of notice of dates calculated from LMP anymore, they work on the basis of the dating scan at 12 weeks.

BB x

QQuaver

Testing list

Wed 16th Nov - Tigerlilly
Wed 30th Nov - claire16c
Thu 1st Dec - Twigglet35
Fri 2nd Dec - Primmer
Sat 3rd Dec - TeamLowe
Fri 9th Dec - Secretdebts
Sat 17th Dec - walby1993

November graduates- Winners of Oct BFP predictions (11) robyn297:T

esio trot TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 07/11/11:j
pot8o (27) TTC#1 since 04/11 (mc 06/11) BFP 12/11/11:j
RebekahR (30) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 13/11/11:j
robyn297 (27) TTC#1 since 06/10 (had a few months off) BFP 15/11/11:j
Europa TTC#2 since 07/11 BFP 15/11/11:j
colli (30) TTC#1 since 12/10 (mc 06/11) BFP 16/11/11:j
Aless02 TTC#2 since 07/11 (mc 08/11) BFP 25/11/11:j
divrocingjack (30) TTC#1 since 03/11 BFP 27/11/11:j




November BFP predictions

mrsrobertson - 6
Trixietoes - 7
GemmaE - 8
Twigglet35 - 8
Squirrels - 8
ikkle87 - 9
QQuaver - 9
Secretdebts - 9
Flee - 9
sexymouse - 9
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 10
Rebekah - 10
Birdie85 - 10
Tinkwings - 10
MrsHappy - 10
vesper - 11
teaandcakeordeath - 11
TTC40 - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD67 i luv freebies - ?DPO :cool:
CD63 teaandcakeordeath - 41DPO :cool:
CD55 Tryingforathird - 37DPO :cool:
CD53 T-sil - ?DPO :cool:
CD39 trixietoes - 25DPO :cool:
CD? Tigerlilly - 24DPO :cool:
CD28 Bezzyk - 16DPO :cool:
CD34 TeamLowe - 14DPO :cool:
CD41 claire16c - 13DPO :cool:
CD26 Primmer* - 12DPO :cool:
CD34 GemmaE - 11DPO :cool:
CD26 Birdie85 - 10DPO :cool:
CD21 twigglet35 - 9DPO :cool:
CD18 The Next Verse - 8DPO :cool:
CD18 time2deal - 8DPO :cool:
CD24 mrsj28 - 7DPO :cool:
CD27 Bigzippy* - 7DPO :cool:
CD21 emsbet - 6DPO :cool:
CD26 Jen77 - 5DPO :cool:
CD37 Secretdebts - 4DPO :cool:
CD23 QQuaver* - 4DPO :cool:
CD16 mrshappy - 4DPO :cool:
CD28 walby1993 - 4DPO :cool:
CD19 skintchick - 3DPO :cool:
CD16 tinkwings - 1DPO :cool:
CD23 Squ1rrel5 - 0DPO? :cool:
CD8 nicki - High CBFM :cool:
CD8 TTC40 - High CBFM :cool:

CD71 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD59 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD55 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD52 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD46 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD40 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD33 Elelyn - Awaiting ov
CD33 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD29 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD26 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD24 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD24 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD21 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD21 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD20 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD20 kittycat1977 - Awaiting ov
CD19 2 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD18 lucyloo77 - Awaiting ov
CD16 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD16 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD15 mrsrobertson - Awaiting ov
CD15 isla_red - Awaiting ov
CD14 Whattodonow - Awaiting ov
CD13 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD13 Student_Mrs - Awaiting ov
CD13 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD11 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD10 Sa-ra-ra-ra - Awaiting ov
CD9 ikkle87 - Awaiting ov
CD8 DibDabb - Awaiting ov
CD8 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD8 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD8 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD8 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD7 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov
CD7 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov
CD7 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD6 Scottishchick27 - Awaiting ov
CD4 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD3 sexymouse* - Awaiting ov
CD2 Nephthys - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

Good morning, last day of November:wave:
Have briefly reminded DH about IVF this morning, and told him to think about it (obviously he's forgotten until now:mad:).

TTC40, :eek: re opening conceive plus at work! Did anyone see you?
Time2deal, (((hugs))) re muscle pains. Are you working towards something?
Snowy, My baby stopped at around 10 weeks, so it was about the same (((hugs))).
Skintchick, fingers crossed you caught the eggy, and it's a sticky one:)
Kitten_pie, sticky baby dust looks like this:cool:

Littlezee, I had HSG, didn't hurt at all, easier than a smear, but you may need to move from one side to the other. But I know it is not the case with everyone. I've read lots of horror stories:shocked:
Good thing is, one will be more fertile after HSG:cool:
(((Hugs))) for insensitive people who make assumptions.
Primmer, (((hugs))). Hope AF doesn't come:)
emsbet, have a great time in Manchester:wave:
BB1984, how are you!:wave:

squ1rrel5

QQ - you might want to put me down at 0DPO today - but I'm not entirely sure...:o

1. I've had two positive opks for the last two days - today, there isnt even a hint of a line so I think if ov is occurring this month it's today.

2. According to FF, I havent ov'ed at all but then can I rely on my temps that much this month when its my first month and I've not been that reliable with testing?

3. If my temps ARE to be believed then I might not have even ov'ed this month which makes me think I might NOT have ov'ed over the last few months when I've just been using opkson their own.

I'm sorry if I always seem a bit moany and confused when I post on here - I just feel really frustrated with myself that I am 32 years old and I totally dont understand the way my body works and even though I've been studying it for over the last 6 months I am still struggling!!

I always knew that it might take a while once we started but I never thought I would get so frustrated as I do. I dont think it helps that my OH put it off for a bit longer than me convincing himself that we could get pg the first month of trying - because he thought it was that easy!!
And then every month when it doesnt happen he looks seems so disappointed!!


I've always tried to be realistic and try and keep his feet on the ground by saying 'yes I would love a baby but you know it doesnt happen for everyone' - and he always says 'it will happen for us, dont worry'. I know he's only trying to make me feel better but it makes me feel worse knowing that if it never happened for us, then he would be so sad.

It doesnt help that I am going to see an old friend of mine tonight who always told me (from the age of 21...), that "I want a baby when I'm 28"... She got married at 26 or 27 and then 1 day after her 28th birthday, she gave birth to her 1st daughter!! Well executed plan or what!
I'm off round to see the 2nd baby tonight. She's always been the friend that I've told everything and although I've not seen her for a while, I'm worried that the situation is just going to make me cry at her!!!

Sorry for the epic post.... just needed to get it out of my system before I get to work - hope you dont mind.

Hope everyone else is full of PMA today - might help me boost myself up by the end of the day!!!

Nicki

Sorry you are feeling low today squirrel

CD8 for me today and my first CBFM high. I am cautiously hopeful I may get my peak before DH decamps for his week away.

sexymouse

Morning all,

Hugs for squirrel and others who are feeling low.

I'm off today too (supply teachers aren't allowed to cover the strike action, so no work for me). Moon is also off today, so we're going shopping in Southampton today. I think we're going to leave it until mid afternoon, so hopefully the shops won't be quite so crowded (I imagine that the shops will do well today).

AF still here, so no BDing for us for another week.

Last night I met a family who answered my ad for a babysitter on gumtree, so I start working there this Saturday. They seem really nice, and it'll be another bit of income for me that'll go towards baby things. They want me to occasionally pick up their children from school a couple of days a week too, as the mother isn't able to get home from work in time (she's a consultant at a clinic - unfortunately not gynae though). They have a gorgeous Bengal cat too, who absolutely loved me and sat on my lap (he never sits on people's laps normally, so it was a little bit embarassing).

Anyway, enough of my waffling on.

Successful babydancing to all at that stage, hugs to those who've just been visited by AF or the blues, and patience to those in the 2ww.

sexymouse xx