Trying for a Baby Part 7

emsbet

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Emsbet,

I know it doesn't change anything but I think of you and Alex often.

Thank you

I think of you and your boys too. I have to say that I think you are coping amazingly and I think Nathan and Lincoln would be proud of you.

xx

skintchick

QQuaver wrote: »

Skintchick, sorry to see you back:o
Hope you caught the eggy, and won't come back anytime next year in the nicest possible way:o

Thanks. I did actually have some more EWCM today so maybe we might catch it after all. Ther swimmers are in there and if they are good ones they'll live for, what? 5 or 7 days? So if the egg is just coming then there is hope.

How I make it a sticky one I have no idea but I really don;t think I have any control over that bit.

Kitten_Pie

emsbet wrote: »

I think of you and your boys too. I have to say that I think you are coping amazingly and I think Nathan and Lincoln would be proud of you.

xx

Thank you I hope they don't think I am forgetting them by trying again so soon.

skintchick

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Thank you I hope they don't think I am forgetting them by trying again so soon.

They'd want their mummy to be happy. :A You won;t ever forget them, they know that.

emsbet

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Thank you I hope they don't think I am forgetting them by trying again so soon.

No way would they think that. They know how very much you love them and how you will always carry their memory around with you. They know how much love you have inside you and they would want you to have a brother or sister to them that you can share your love with everyday.

xx

Primmer

Welcome to all the newbies and returners

Emsbet - sorry to hear colleagues so inconsiderate, hugs. You know that what you have been through is important to all of us on here who care

Kitten - your boys know you love them and will never forget them and they want you to be happy x

Hugs to all who need them and sticky baby dust to all x

Kitten_Pie

Primmer wrote: »

Hugs to all who need them and sticky baby dust to all x

Thank you all for the kind words.

OH just read over my shoulder and commented on the baby dust. His feeling is if it is dust we are all in trouble. either that or there is something wrong with him....

gizmodo_2

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

When they were still born we put up a link to our just giving page:
http://www.justgiving.com/Lincoln-and-Nathan-Boyd
(don't read if easily upset) this meant we had a place to share it with everyone without having to keep going over what had happened.

(hugs) I didn't know your story and didn't feel comfortable asking. That is a lovely thing to do.

ikkle87 wrote: »

im fine, had a bit of an accident earlier, oh leant forward to pick laptop up off floor, i saw my chance to steal remote so as i reached over and as he sat back his elbow bashed my face. My nose bled everywhere and my cheek swelled up so had to go to the big hospital as the local minor injuries unit thought i had fractured my cheek bone, luckily its just tissue damage and the swelling/bruising should go down in a day or two. x

Ouch. Hope you're getting better now

Bufger wrote: »

Well we are officially now trying for our second. DS #1 is 1 year old now and we want them close together. I'm not regular enough to be a posting every day kind of guy but i'll lurk here for a while

Hello, I recognise you and Nephys (only I can't spell your name from memory!)

I've failed this month. We haven't even BD'd yet. It's hard enough at the best of times due to lack of libido, but with a daughter it's just so much harder! I prefer to BD in the morning but we can't now. And at night I'm too scared of waking her up I value my sleep too much. :o:o I think I'm CD 11 or 12 so still time. If things go back to how they were before then I should ov day 14/15.

zorro10

shiny new thread

bigzippy

time2deal wrote: »

Bigz and sa-ra-ra congrats on coping (and thriving!) With all life throws at you. I can imagine people being very insensitive about ttc - as I said above many people are just so thoughtless.

Aw thanks

i_love_holidays wrote: »

i first started my tests in may - blood test and SA for OH both came back fine altho oh mobility and morphology wasnt great but brilliant count. had appointment for HSG the one when they put the dye in and xray you.

second appointment checked results said no problems altho oh sa was still the same they have referred him to a urologist. gave me clomid for 3 months and then booked me in for another appointment in jan which will be 4 months since i last went. not sure what the next step is altho they mentioned ivf

How was the HSG? I've got one that I'm waiting for that appt for, which I'm dreading tbh

My lady said that they'd refer me on to the "assisted conception" clinic/waiting list if clomid didn't work. That apparently incorporates the IUI type things and the IVFs. The waiting list she said for that was 18wks. Apparently there's a pretty strict thing you have to pass to be helped by that clinic, including past convictions and stuff, from what she said! Sounded similar to passing for adoption to me!

Has DH seen the urologist yet?

dont worry how people judge you what do they know.....most people me included are insensitive when we dont have a clue whats going on we just make presumptions but so what you do what you want to

It's not so much people that know us that I'm concerned about - cos I can chose whether to have them around iyswim. It's "professionals" that "should" know better, but oftentimes don't. :cool: But thank you.:) I know I used to make assumptions previously too. Being ill, and dealing with my incapacitated MIL, has educated me a lot too

emsbet wrote: »

No way would they think that. They know how very much you love them and how you will always carry their memory around with you. They know how much love you have inside you and they would want you to have a brother or sister to them that you can share your love with everyday.

xx

Agreed.

DH said similar yesterday/day before - "[he] wants [his] family now... not just one, we've got too much [love] for just one..." :A:o