Trying for a Baby Part 7

euronorris

sexymouse wrote: »

Don't go emsbet - we know why you're upset, and we're here to help you. You're not making the thread all about you. I felt I was doing that the other night by making my BD confessions. In any friendship group, there will be times when some people need supporting more than others, and you've done a fair bit of supporting over the time you've been here too - even though you are going through a tough time yourself.

I agree with Sexymouse. Part of the reason behind this thread is so that you ladies can all support each other - especially through the bad times! H'll, these even lurkers like me who want to be here and support you!

So I say you should take advantage of the support on offer, and say as little or as much as you want darling. I cannot see how anyone would begrudge you that.

That goes for everyone who's having a hard time, for whatever reason.

Big ((HUGS)), chocolates, flowers and all things nice. Hey, have some chocolate cake that the OH and I made on Sunday evening. It's very calorific and very tasty! And....it has Smarties on top! Cos, you know, only Smarties have the answer!

tinkwings

OK so just looked at my OV stick this AM and still have a so does that mean we have not missed out yet??? and that I need to pin DH down and extract his swimmers by any means neccessary :eek::D:o;):eek:

colli

emsbet wrote: »

Thanks ladies.

I'm just not coping very well at the minute and I don't know how to make it all better.

I should probably not post for a while as I'm bringing the whole PMA of the thread down and making it all about me and I'm not the only one on here who's suffering.

xx

Aww hun, post if you need to. There's always enough PMA on here somewhere to keep us up, even if we have to take it in turns . Before you lost Alex you more than did your share for helping us all keep positive

Have you had any counseling? Talking to someone may help. How about the miscarriage association?

I'll start with the PMA.....

[STRIKE]Made OH bd[/STRIKE] seduced OH last night so we're on track for SMEP this month :T. I had the smiley face on opk (I love that guy!) on Sun so think I ov'd yesterday. I think this is the first time for MONTHS we've actually managed to bd on ov day itself:j. Usually we start off with good intentions and get a few "goes" in the days before but just run out of steam by ov day itself, we're not as young as we used to be . Now just need to figure out how to get him to do one more tonight, any ideas??!

sexymouse

Yes I would DTD today tinkwings - QQ posted the other day to say that 1/3 of people ovulate on day one of smiley, and 2/3 on day two, so go for it!

colli

tinkwings wrote: »

OK so just looked at my OV stick this AM and still have a so does that mean we have not missed out yet??? and that I need to pin DH down and extract his swimmers by any means neccessary :eek::D:o;):eek:

Think I may need to do the same tonight, any tips gratefuly recieved!

emsbet

Thanks everyone,

I really appreciate your support. It means a great deal to me.

I can't write much more at the moment as I'm at work and I'm in danger of crying

xx

colli

Nicki wrote: »

Another don't go! If you don't mind me saying, I don't find the thread is all about you, there is lots of news from others as well . And when it is about you, we want to hear and if we can, support you when you need it. Also there are a few of us going through the same thing at the same time, so even if we aren't all posting the same stuff as you, it helps to know that we aren't alone, and when people post things to help you, it sometimes helps the rest of us too. Very selfish reason for wanting you to stay I know.

And finally, I like you. I like reading your posts. I like hearing when you've had a better day, and I want to start seeing the shift when the good days start to outweigh the bad days. And as we started off on less than 12 weeks not too far apart, and left it for the same sad reason not too far apart, I'd like to see us rejoin it soon together again, and this time progress through all of the related threads and come out the other end.

Beautifully put...

Nicki

tinkwings wrote: »

OK so just looked at my OV stick this AM and still have a so does that mean we have not missed out yet??? and that I need to pin DH down and extract his swimmers by any means neccessary :eek::D:o;):eek:

Lots of ways to do that tinks but some more effective for your purposes than others :D

Sounds like today is the day when eggie goes on its big journey though. Don't know what your OH does for a living, but maybe getting a sexy message to him at work might rev him up for this evening? A hand delivered letter, or a floral delivery with a saucy card perhaps? Something a bit different to just a text or phone call which will have him thinking about you all day, just because it was out of the ordinary.

colli

Good luck for testing today BZ, fingers crossed for you.:)

Hello Euro! Cake sounds lovely!

euronorris

colli wrote: »

Now just need to figure out how to get him to do one more tonight, any ideas??!

Cook dinner naked, or in just your undies. All that visual stimulation should make him keen! ;)