Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrshappy

Good morning,
So sorry for your loss kitten pie x
Hugs to CD1 and 2's
Hope everyone is okay, I've been a little bit grumpy the last couple of days and keeping quiet, online and at home!

sexymouse

Hugs to QQ for the ruined halloween. *Flings heroes in your direction*

Hugs for emsbet for hurting.

Hugs for those with AF.

Hugs to anyone else who would like them.


No news here - still slightly spotting.

ikkle87

emsbet wrote: »

Sorry I wasn't very clear. I mean group if friends, except I don't really like them much (which makes it harder because I can't be happy for them ) they are just part of our circle.

Sorry I know I'm being really moany it's just the timing's really bad and it makes me feel like we get all the bad news in our group and everyone else gets the good.

xx

Ahh i just wondered if it was something like slimming world or a craft/hobby thing lol just the way you said group and said about the ladies reminds me of how i used to be at slimming world lol. I don't really have friends where we live now, if i'm not at work I'm with the oh. The friends i do have are back home and we aren't very close anymore, especially not with the girl who i was best friends with, can't cope with her moaning that she can't go out on the lash cos she's pregnant i just want to shout at her and tell her she's selfish and should be so grateful for what she has but she's always been a bit selfish i guess it just wasn't always so close to home so i could brush it off.

Oh and your not moany hun your just saying it how it is, it's a lot better to say how you feel to people who understand and probably feel the same than it is to keep it all locked up inside untill you burst/breakdown.

big squish xxx

ikkle87

good luck today zippy and anyone else who might be testing. xx

tinkwings

:mad: Rant Alert :mad::mad:

I could kill DH last night I tried everything and he wouldn't BD :mad::mad::mad::mad: OMG does he want a baby or what :mad: makes me MAD that there are so few days a cycle when you can get PG and so when they come around and he won't BD there is no hope of us ever getting PG is there :mad::mad::mad::mad:

Sorry rant over :o:o:o

emsbet

Thanks ladies.

I'm just not coping very well at the minute and I don't know how to make it all better.

I should probably not post for a while as I'm bringing the whole PMA of the thread down and making it all about me and I'm not the only one on here who's suffering.

xx

esio_trot

tinkwings wrote: »

:mad: Rant Alert :mad::mad:

I could kill DH last night I tried everything and he wouldn't BD :mad::mad::mad::mad: OMG does he want a baby or what :mad: makes me MAD that there are so few days a cycle when you can get PG and so when they come around and he won't BD there is no hope of us ever getting PG is there :mad::mad::mad::mad:

Sorry rant over :o:o:o

No advice, just empathy - I could write that frequently. I'm aware he's tired and works really hard for our family but I'm not even asking him to stay awake that long, just long enough! And only on 2/3 days out of a month!

And that's MY rant over!

sexymouse

Don't go emsbet - we know why you're upset, and we're here to help you. You're not making the thread all about you. I felt I was doing that the other night by making my BD confessions. In any friendship group, there will be times when some people need supporting more than others, and you've done a fair bit of supporting over the time you've been here too - even though you are going through a tough time yourself.

tinkwings

emsbet wrote: »

Thanks ladies.

I'm just not coping very well at the minute and I don't know how to make it all better.

I should probably not post for a while as I'm bringing the whole PMA of the thread down and making it all about me and I'm not the only one on here who's suffering.

xx

Emsbet Don't you DARE leave us. You stay RIGHT HERE. We are all here for you NO MATTER WHAT honey :A:A:A:A:A

Nicki

emsbet wrote: »

Thanks ladies.

I'm just not coping very well at the minute and I don't know how to make it all better.

I should probably not post for a while as I'm bringing the whole PMA of the thread down and making it all about me and I'm not the only one on here who's suffering.

xx

Another don't go! If you don't mind me saying, I don't find the thread is all about you, there is lots of news from others as well . And when it is about you, we want to hear and if we can, support you when you need it. Also there are a few of us going through the same thing at the same time, so even if we aren't all posting the same stuff as you, it helps to know that we aren't alone, and when people post things to help you, it sometimes helps the rest of us too. Very selfish reason for wanting you to stay I know.

And finally, I like you. I like reading your posts. I like hearing when you've had a better day, and I want to start seeing the shift when the good days start to outweigh the bad days. And as we started off on less than 12 weeks not too far apart, and left it for the same sad reason not too far apart, I'd like to see us rejoin it soon together again, and this time progress through all of the related threads and come out the other end.