Trying for a Baby Part 7

ikkle87

sexymouse wrote: »

ikkle your kittens are gorgeous! Me wants one!

sexymouse xx

which one do you want lol they are a pair of naughty little kittens sometimes, one of them jumped in the bath with me last night lol frightened me half to death lol xx

QQuaver

Worst Halloween ever:mad:

What I do usually is be away or stay in and do nothing (I have some choccies just in case anyone comes). No-one comes trick or treating around here. They are all told to call people they know only, and I don't know any kids.

Someone threw the wheelie bin to our door, knocked the handle knob off:mad: Which is nothing compared to what happened to our neighbours car. There's police and forensic people out there all night. Why do people do this? The owner of the car seems to be out:(

Student Mrs, you can count the withdrawal bleeding as CD1 for now:)
Which CD would that make today?
2ba3c, glad you had a great day at your new job!:j
emsbet, (((hugs))) for your colleagues getting pg:(
mishka, (((hugs))) for painful AF:( Hope it will ease off really soon.

vesper

ikkle87 wrote: »

Hugs hun, I know it's hard, 3 of my friends are pregnant at the moment, all around the 25 weeks stage and it's bloody hard to be happy for them knowing full well that none of them were planned or wanted and that one of the girls even considered an abortion, all 3 of them are single now too and i just think its sucky.

I know how you feel, I seem to be having a right jelious streak at the moment. Firstly I was one of four of my friends that all got married at the same time and they have all had wonderful honeymoons abroad, and huge weddings. We had a small budget wedding and haven't had a honeymoon as we are saving our money towards a house and hopefully a future child. It does console me that they will be paying for their wedding for years to come and have no savings at all. I'm evil!
Plus all of my friends seem to be having babies at the moment. I just keep wondering when its going to my turn. I feel really down at the moment as it should have been my baby's 6th birthday yesterday.
Got home to a pleasent surprise tonight, my OH has ordered me a Clearblue Fertility Monitor. Are they any good? He had done the research all by himself. So proud of him.

TTC40

I used CBFM last month. Has he bought the sticks and batteries too ?

I didn't show a peak at all although I have since been told this can happen in the beginning. We BD'd every day from one day after first high - expecting the peak. I have a fairly regular cycle so ( assuming I do ov) I think I know when it happens.

Anything is worth a go in my mind.

Hope all goes well.

vesper

Yeh he has got batteries for it and loads of sticks with it. He thought it was worth a go, mind you anything is worth ago. If someone turned around and said that if I stood in the middle of the village green in one welly, hopping and singing "I'd like to teach the world to sing" ( and I really can't sing) it would help us conceive, then I would do it (wish it was that easy).

bigzippy

vesper wrote: »

Hello all, I don't think anyone will remember me on here but I was on here for a while about 7 months ago. We decided to take a break from trying as we have been trying for 2 years now without success and the last time I posted I thought that my OH was about to pop the question of marriage. Well he did and we are now married (there certainly wasn't any hanging around).
Well we have just made the desicion to start actively trying again (think it may have something to do with the fact that my friend has just had a little boy and while shopping earlier the OH started getting all broody and looking at prams!!!).
I hope you don't mind me joining again.

Welcome back :wave:

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Not sure if anyone remembers me, I joined earlier this year and was fortunate to not be here long.

Unfortunately 2 weeks ago (19th November) our twins were born sleeping at 31 weeks.

Not quite ready to start trying again as much as I think I want to but will have to let my body recover from the labour first before we can consider it (so will probably just lurk for a while). We were so close to having our family that I am not ready to give up on the dream.

:wave: Welcome back I'm so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Take your time, do what feels right, and I hope the counselling helps

emsbet wrote: »

Meh! Meh! Meh! Meh!
Just found out another couple in our group are going to have a baby. I know I can't avoid pregnant women or babies but still .... meh! Both times we've lost our babies someone in our group has announced their pg and it feels a bit like the universe is mocking me

xx

I can imagine how awful that must be for you.

(Not in the same league, but I feel like someone announces their news every AF/set back we have too )

emsbet

ikkle87 wrote: »

Hugs hun, I know it's hard, 3 of my friends are pregnant at the moment, all around the 25 weeks stage and it's bloody hard to be happy for them knowing full well that none of them were planned or wanted and that one of the girls even considered an abortion, all 3 of them are single now too and i just think its sucky.

What group do you go to?

Sorry I wasn't very clear. I mean group if friends, except I don't really like them much (which makes it harder because I can't be happy for them ) they are just part of our circle.

Sorry I know I'm being really moany it's just the timing's really bad and it makes me feel like we get all the bad news in our group and everyone else gets the good.

I just want it to stop hurting now

((hugs)) Mishka for a cr*ppy AF.

((hugs)) QQ for idiots spoiling Halloween.

xx

bigzippy

emsbet wrote: »

Sorry I wasn't very clear. I mean group if friends, except I don't really like them much (which makes it harder because I can't be happy for them ) they are just part of our circle.

Sorry I know I'm being really moany it's just the timing's really bad and it makes me feel like we get all the bad news in our group and everyone else gets the good.

I just want it to stop hurting now

You aren't being moany!

Mishka, hope you're not feeling too terrible I've had that squelchy dread before though, it's not pleasant, and that's without the associated memories :(



AFM, No AF yet, still feel like it's on the way...might do a IC tomorrow... :think:

emsbet

Good luck with the testing today zippy

xx

2522laura

Good luck Zippy xx