Trying for a Baby Part 7

mishkanorman

thanks !

Ive done some emerald green sparkly nails, i currently have jaw length auburn hair which looks quite witchy which helps !

I saw a scary cat thing in sainsburys the other day that rolled around so i may go see if there are any left and bag a broom while im there !

QQuaver

2ba3c, hope sudafed did its job, my sister swears by it:o
sexymouse, another option is to buy your MIL a ticket to a show or cinema, and have a nice BD session while she's out:p
Are there any Premier Inn £29 deals near you?
Gemma, new house, job and a new degree? You are having an exciting time!:j
:rotfl: at your DH dry humping you:D
Fingers crossed AF stays away:o
Also, I want to be a badger you saw on autumnwatch:o
Kittycat, I don't know about what you are describing, but perhaps this is real you:D Either that or you are oving.
mishka, your dress looks perfectly like a witch. Don't worry:)

morocha

Ohh i can see we are being honest here. I will share a bit with you all, i got married 5 yrs ago, both virgins too. My DH has a high sex drive, i dont, our compromise is every other day unless he is extremely tired, so i get away with it. I think i get tired of rutine ? If it feels is always the same, it can become boring. I have told him that. He is another one that wants me to orgasm every time or he feels bad. I have learnt what works for me, and i usually now orgasm before him, god knows how he has learnt to control it and it takes ages !! No good when i am tired and want a quick one. When i was on the pill, i had almost zero sex drive, the days i really want it is usually when i am ovulating..but these last two months havent been good times. So i am sure we will start properly trying for a bubba next month.

QQuaver

Thanks for sharing Morocha.

Aren't there anyone here with low sex drive DH/OHs?:(

mishkanorman

QQuaver wrote: »

Thanks for sharing Morocha.

Aren't there anyone here with low sex drive DH/OHs?:(

not me either, i call him Benny hill as he is always chasing after me :rotfl:

I honestly dont think i would mind if from this day to my last i never had sex again !

QQuaver

mishkanorman wrote: »

I honestly dont think i would mind if from this day to my last i never had sex again !

Me too:D
I just need one tiny baby:o

Secretdebts

:rotfl:Me three. The dreams are so much better than the reality!:rotfl:
I'm sure I was a couple of stone lighter in the dream. No inhibitions. No worries. No ttc - just jumping your cute boss!!

Runs off to sleep in the hope the dream comes back!

morocha

hahaha when i sleep, i am really not aware of anything, once he wanted to do it really badly, so apparently i said yes, but he had to do everything... he did, the next morning he asked me about it, i couldnt remember a thing... 8 weeks later and feeling sick, i found out i was 8 weeks pregnat... lol

GemmaE

Morning all!!

QQ- I agree about Sudafed, it is amazing, I always use it.
2b- How r u feeling now?

Its quite nice to know we all have our hang ups about s*x and I'm glad we have all shared.

Oh yes, QQ I will be a buzy bee, hoping it will distract me from being CD1 last night:mad:. Had just changed the bed sheets and was sitting on the bed putting pillow cases on, when I got up I had left my mark, so embarrassing and annoying, as the old bed sheet was already in wash and we only have 2 left that aren't packed and at MILs.

Think we may go and feed the ducks today, DH is busy down the house all day, last night he ripped out all of the old carpets and took them away, today the kitchen comes down, radiators come off and project garden starts. Bless him, he will be so knackered I will have a DH with no s*x drive, hopefully that will stop the dry humping!

Hope everyone is good this morning and has a lovely weekend xx

ikkle87

Hi guys, God I've rewritten this post about 5 times now

Me and my OH both really want a baby but I've been putting it off through fear of either struggling to conceive or if we did fall pregnant me miscarrying and so I've conveniently put off having my implanon implant removed. However my OH and me have spoken and I know that we can't keep putting it off forever, we both really want a baby and we won't get one if I have the implanon rod in so on Monday I am having it removed. Eek.

The reason why I am so scared/nervous etc is because in November 2004 I was admitted to hospital with a large ovarian cyst. On the 3rd December the cyst ruptured and the hospital had to operate and remove the cyst but they also had to take my right ovary and fallopian tube too. I then fell pregnant but had a miscarriage in August 2005 which pretty much destroyed me. My periods after that were pretty irregular although did seem to settle down eventually to being between 4-8 weeks cycles. Then I had the implanon rod put in in August 2010 and I've not had a period since.

I don't think we will bother with temping or charting to start with as I think I need to see how my cycles are after Implanon, then once we have established a cycle of some sort then we can be a bit more organised and planning.

So hopefully you will have me on this board? We aren't telling anyone in RL we are TTC although a couple of people have asked when we are going to start.