Trying for a Baby Part 7

claire16c

Flee wrote: »

No CD 1 for me yet. Stupid period will not start. Had a little bleed yesterday and then it is dark blood now. Thought it was starting after yesterday but nothing yet...

Same as me. So weird I never used to spot. then last cycle and this cycle I have. But then again its only my 4th period since coming off the pill and was on that for about 9 years. So maybe thats whats normal for me now.

emsbet

2ba3c wrote: »

When I go, I want DW and I to go together, in the most peaceful way as possible. I wish I'd met her when we were 18.

My DH says this too; both the going together (which I don't like because I don't like thinking about dying ) and the wishing we'd met at 18. Although in always tell him if we had we might not have ended up together as I at least was a very different person then.

Lily_The_Legend wrote: »

Evening peeps,

QQ can you take my name off the front page and the next daily posts you do please?

Have decided not to post here any more. It is not about anyone else, just not the right place for me to talk about this sort of stuff.

Good luck for your BFPs ladies.

Awww! Sorry to see you leave lily, you will be missed but you have to do what's right for you. Good luck with your journey and like Nicki said, be sure to let us know when you get your BFP.


I hope you have all had a good day. I've felt more positive today and started doing some painting in what will eventually be a nursery Been painting some nasty black shelves a nice cream colour
We've also been to ikea this evening to buy some nice tall bookcases for our millions of books

Because we were late getting back we decided to get a pizza hut take away and had our new favourite pizza. It's called the portabello blue and if any of you are lovers of blue cheese I would definitely recommend it

xx

emsbet

Sorry you're having a tough time with the house sale Gemma. I know it can be a stressful time. My BIL and his wife have had a lot of hassle from the people who have put in an offer on their house so I know what a pain in the *ss some people can be!

I hope you get it sorted soon.

xx

mrshappy

Lily_The_Legend wrote: »

Evening peeps,

QQ can you take my name off the front page and the next daily posts you do please?

Have decided not to post here any more. It is not about anyone else, just not the right place for me to talk about this sort of stuff.

Good luck for your BFPs ladies.

Sorry to see you go Lily I hope you are ok and I wish you all the best for your TTC journey xxx

emsbet wrote: »

My DH says this too; both the going together (which I don't like because I don't like thinking about dying ) and the wishing we'd met at 18. Although in always tell him if we had we might not have ended up together as I at least was a very different person then.

I hope you have all had a good day. I've felt more positive today

We quite often talk about if we had met when we were younger, it turns out we both went to the same pubs and clubs around the same time, but he is 9 years older than me-so would have been totally off my radar then! We are also very different people to who we were then and even if we had got together when we were younger I don't think we would have the same relationship as we do now-meeting him when we were both older and wiser and done all the mad stuff has been the best thing that ever happened to me
I'm not usually all gushy about him, but can't help myself tonight

I'm so pleased you are feeling a bit better today emsbet, you have had such a sad time x

claire16c

emsbet wrote: »

My DH says this too; both the going together (which I don't like because I don't like thinking about dying ) and the wishing we'd met at 18. Although in always tell him if we had we might not have ended up together as I at least was a very different person then.

xx

That could be very true.

I was 18 (but under a month off being 19!) when I met my DH. Looking back now it seems ridiculous we managed to stay together and are now married. Now when I think of an 18 year old I think of a 'child'! I have a picture of us when we first met and we do look really young in it. Kinda scary and makes me feel very old :rotfl:

We also had a long distance relationship because he was in the military which meant we were living in different countries after 5 months together, I doubt many people would have guessed wed still be together now. And what else is funny is that I introduced my friend to his friend in the army, and they got married last year!!

But when I look back, all of us were kind of different back then, and its just been lucky we all grew together and not apart.

So perhaps you met each other later for a very good reason

bigzippy

L1987 wrote: »

Someone tell me I am being silly.

Have you recently come off BC? I thought you'd done tests?

Besides, I think you just had a wonky dodgy cycle, with hormones all over the place making your body (and mind!) crazy Try not to worry about it too much dude, there's nowt you can do about the past

tinkwings wrote: »

Thanks Honey . Yes DH is coming with me fingers crossed it will all be ok.:o

Finally got hold of my dad and it's good news no sign of the Big C or a tumor so that is a huge relief.

Glad your dad's got the all clear Glad you've got DH with you too

squ1rrel5 wrote: »

(I think most of the weight is in my boobs!!) :eek:

Every time I gain weight it goes to the boobs, then I lose weight and the boobs don't go down! What's that about?!!

bigzippy

GemmaE wrote: »

Meh, PMA has gone for a Burton, looks like the move is falling through, still grumpy still bloated and feeling very sorry for myself.

Ugh, I hate house selling! Good luck with it, you have my sympathies!

Lily_The_Legend wrote: »

Evening peeps,

QQ can you take my name off the front page and the next daily posts you do please?

Have decided not to post here any more. It is not about anyone else, just not the right place for me to talk about this sort of stuff.

Good luck for your BFPs ladies.

Are you ok Lily? Are you still TTC or was there a problem with your Dad or..? Good luck, whatever the case.

mssas

QQuaver can u add me to the list as cd2 please

Will catch up with the thread tomoz when I'm on lap top as on my phone an its playing up will b a lot of reading as this thread moves quick

Hugs to all who need them x

emsbet

((hugs)) for AF mssas

xx

Primmer

Lily - sorry you have decided to leave us, I will miss your posts. Hope everything is ok with you and that you get your BFP real soon.

Tinks - good luck at hospital today hope everything goes ok.

Emsbet - glad you are keeping busy and doing something positive.

Hugs to all those having a hard time and those on cd1. When you start this journey you never know how difficult it can be but at least in this thread we can share our feelings and understand each other.

I had no idea when I started ttc in October 2009 that i would still be here now waiting not so patiently for my time to come but I have to keep hoping each cycle that this will be the month for me and remain positive!

Had peak yesterday and today on cbfm and so bd last night and need to bd again today but parents are coming down tonight and staying the weekend so will have to persuade DH to bd when we get home from work before they arrive!