Trying for a Baby Part 7

mishkanorman

My first response to you was purely because I didnt want LMG to feel she had upset EVERYONE feeling a loss, being one of them who 'may' have been effected I felt my opinion would balance out yours and perhaps make her feel a little more at ease. Having had the same fears as LMG I could relate to her post and would have worded things the same way.

I ignored the subsequent dig you made at me as I could see that you were upset. That was personal and did offend me greatly so you will find my response today unpleasant, you too are now going on the ignore list, I have no interest in reading digs at me by someone who thinks its ok to do so as they have suffered a loss.

GemmaE

Yay Emsbet, hope you can truly start to feel better now.

Hugs Mishka, I hope you feel better soon. Whilst I have never gone through what you and everyone else going througha miscarriage you have my full sympathy and support

Here things are looking marginally more positive, we have someone who wants t come for a second look tomorrow at our house, so hopefully I can get rid of my current buyer and finally sell the house. May take a few more weeks but I am not being held to ransom by unreasonable demands from someone that has already been messing us about.

Woke up at 4am after very fitful sleep last night so shattered, my snooze on the sofa for a bit

Nicki

Good luck Gemma. Exactly this happened when we last moved. Our buyer tried to drop the price by 10k just as we were due to exchange, and we were lucky enough within a few days to find someone who liked the house enough to offer above the asking price to secure it. So we ended up selling for 25k more than we would have done, even if first buyer had gone through at the originally agreed figure. The thing is that even if you did agree to discount it for your first buyer, you would still be delayed by a few weeks (as I found out then) because if the selling price changes, even downwards, the buyer has to apply for a new mortgage offer and sometimes this means a revaluation of the house. I actually think I found moving house more stressful than ttc though at times it was a very close run thing. My DS1 who was 6 when we moved at the time went through a phase of telling people "do you know that x (our local estate agent) is a liar and a cheat?" so no prizes for guessing what kind of conversations he was overhearing at home.

10dpo today for me and I have still resisted testing. Feel I probably haven't caught this month sadly, but shall put off seeing the BFN staring at me for as long as I can. The weather is unseasonably hot with us at the moment but I am waiting in for a delivery man which is a bit pants. I have DS2, who is 2, and DD, who is 10 but has severe learning difficulties so with the interests and attention span of a 3 year old, at home with me as DD has broken up for half term already and I can tell they are dying to go out to the park. So far today we have made, and ate, chocolate chip cookies, and watched far too much cbeebies so I hope the delivery comes soon so we can get out and do something in the fresh air.

GemmaE

I think I can safely say this is the most stressful move/ thing I have ever done. The people coming round are first time buyers with a mortgage in place too so hopefully all will be well soon enough. Luckily DD is too young to pick up on things just yet, although I;m sure it won't be long!

Tried and failed for stone roses tickets this morning, but going to have a cuddle with a 7 day old baby in a bit, which will cheer me up!

Nicki

GemmaE wrote: »

but going to have a cuddle with a 7 day old baby in a bit, which will cheer me up!

Lovely! Just the thing to relieve your stress levels (when you can hand them back when they start crying that is!)

I tried and failed for tickets for a cookery class on Monday. Booking lines opened at 9.00 and my friend and I both tried solidly until 11.00 when I finally got through and they were sold out. Who would have thought a cookery lesson would be so sought after! Bet the chef thought that he was one of the Stone Roses...

emsbet

Can't stop as we are in the middle of putting up these blooming bookcases (and trying to get them to fit :eek:)

((hugs)) Mishka - I had similar a couple of days ago when the epilepsy nurse called to arrange an appointment to make sure I'm not at risk during my pregnancy
I hope today gets better for you but remember it's ok to be upset. It's only been three weeks and there's no time limit on grief.

xx

Secretdebts

:wave: at everybody. Nothing useful to say, but still lurking!

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 10th Oct - Secretdebts
Fri 14th Oct - LittleMissGiggle
Mon 17th Oct - Sa-ra-ra-ra
Wed 19th Oct - Flee
Wed 26th Oct - Nicki

October graduates- Winners of Sept BFP predictions (8) BB1984, RebekahR, QQuaver, sexymouse, twigglet35

jovichick123 (30) TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 03/10/11:j
Plans_all_plans TTC since 08/11 BFP 04/10/11:j
Kaemi (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 BFP 07/10/11:j
BB1984 (27) TTC#1 since 01/11　BFP 11/10/11:j
LittleMissGiggle (27) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 14/10/11:j
Triangle (27) TTC#1 since 09/11 BFP 15/10/11:j
Moneysaver12 TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 18/10/11:j

October BFP predictions

Lazarou-true - 6
QQuaver - 7
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7
b_girl - 7
Sexymouse - 8
MrsHappy - 8
Whattoonow - 8
Triangle - 8
Secretdebts - 9
Rebekah - 9
Flee - 9
Countrybum - 9 (incl self)
BB1984 - 10
MrsRobertson - 10
Tinkwings - 10
robyn297 - 11
Kaemi - 12
2ba3c - 13

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD58 Secretdebts - 32DPO :cool:
CD35 scarly* - 11DPO :cool:
CD21 nicki - 9/10DPO :cool:
CD27 Dovetail - 8DPO :cool:
CD22 Elelyn - 7DPO :cool:
CD21 mrs_dave - 4DPO :cool:
CD20 divorcingjack - 3DPO :cool:
CD16 sexymouse - 2DPO? :cool:
CD12 Primmer* - 0DPO? :cool:
CD18 TTC40 - High CBFM :cool:
CD21 2ba3c - High CBFM :cool:

CD95 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD92 MrsRogers - Awaiting ov
CD89 Praline - Awaiting ov
CD85 ilovecusions - Awaiting ov:o
CD64 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov
CD64 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov
CD58 robyn297 - Awaiting ov
CD51 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD49 Jen151* - Awaiting ov
CD43 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD36 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD31 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD29 GemmaE - Awaiting ov
CD29 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov
CD27 i luv freebies - Awaiting ov
CD27 MrsBryan - Awaiting ov
CD26 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD26 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov
CD22 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD19 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD16 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD15 Tryingforathird - Awaiting ov
CD15 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD13 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD12 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD12 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD11 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD10 Jules68 - Awaiting ov
CD9 pot8o - Awaiting ov
CD8 esio trot - Awaiting ov
CD7 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD7 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD6 robyn297 - Awaiting ov
CD6 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov
CD5 Europa - Awaiting ov
CD5 RebekahR - Awaiting ov
CD4 mrsrobertson - Awaiting ov
CD4 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD3 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD3 colli - Awaiting ov
CD3 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD2 Whattodonow - Awaiting ov
CD2 mrshappy - Awaiting ov
CD1 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD1 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD1 emsbet - Awaiting ov
CD1 Flee - Awaiting ov

QQuaver

Good afternoon ladies, nearly the weekend:wave:

Big hugs to mssas, whattodonow, MrsHappy & Claire for AF:(

2ba3c, one can gear up to ov, but don't. So it may have been that:o
Your temp has dipped, hope it is an ov dip:)
GemmaE, (((hugs))) for the house sale. Hope the new viewers will be the one:)
Lily, sorry to see you leave:(, did someone recognise you? Would you like to come back with a different username?
emsbet, (((Hugs))) for the end of mc. Good luck with NTNP:)
That blue cheese pizza sounds very interesting, I love blue cheese:happyhear
Tinkwings, glad your dad doesn't have the big C or tumour:j
Primmer, :jon Peak CBFM, hope this is your month, it's about time:p
Flee, hope AF won't arrive, and your OH's placement would be nearer:)
Mishka, massive (((((Hugs)))))).
Secretdebts, how are you over there:wave: