Trying for a Baby Part 7

Aida_2

mrsj28 wrote: »

Hi Aida - thanks for popping in Hope all is well with you??

Am hoping it's an implantation dip, but trying hard not to ss or get too excited...

Everything is fine here, just a little bit :eek:. It's worst than 2ww because is 8 weeks wait . Time doesn't want to pass at all.

QQ you should be pleased as I have no SS:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:. I did have some cramps the week after the BFP but nothing too painful.

When are you planning to test?

vesper

Sorry for being a grumpy pants earlier. I don't want to be jelious or begrudge any of my friends or hubbies family being pregnant but as each month goes by it just gets harder and harder, I really don't get how some people cope.

I don't think I could ever tell my parents if I got to the ivf stage. But we aren't particulary close, and they don't know anything about my private life. My mum doesn't even know that I had a miscarriage, my Dad does but only because he opened some private post that went to my old address by accident, which contained the information of my scan date. He lost it with me for being so stupid to get pregnant, so I had to tell him the truth that I had lost the baby that week. I won't tell you his proper response, but it was along the idea of good. It broke my heart that he could be so happy that my child was dead.

FIL would probably be told, but only because he's hubbies only close family and seems to be one of the few members of our family that want us to have children (except my auntie).

Sorry I'm moaning again. Just feeling sorry for myself again, shall have to go and cheer myself up with some salted popcorn.

QQuaver

Testing list

Saturday 21st April - Mrs Toast
Tuesday 24th April - Skintchick
Sunday 6th May - MrsJ28
Sunday 6th May - vesper

May graduates


May BFP predictions

lilymay - 5
vesper - 7
QQuaver - 8
mrsj28 - 9
Birdie85 - 10
zcrat - 10

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD46 skintchick - 33DPO :cool:
CD46 Mrs Toast - 25DPO :cool:
CD33 Leopardlady - 17DPO :cool:
CD29 Nicki - 14DPO :cool:
CD27 TTC40 - 13DPO :cool:
CD34 2ba3c - 13DPO :cool:
CD30 Sequeena - 13DPO :cool:
CD26 mogwai - 12DPO :cool:
CD26 Loulou123 - 11DPO :cool:
CD29 Flee - 11DPO :cool:
CD22 Primmer* - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 COMP - 10DPO :cool:
CD33 vesper - 9DPO :cool:
CD32 mrsj28 - 9DPO :cool:
CD19 Maire1 - 5DPO :cool:
CD20 i love holidays - 5DPO :cool:
CD20 Metranil Vavin - 4DPO :cool:
CD22 scarly* - 4DPO :cool:
CD14 time2deal - 2DPO :cool:
CD35 Birdie85* - 2DPO :cool:

CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov
CD98 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD97 Sammy_Girl - Awaiting ov
CD87 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD82 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD80 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD68 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD65 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD65 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD61 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD61 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD54 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD44 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD34 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD34 welshgirl - Awaiting ov
CD33 apple*pie - Awaiting ov
CD32 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD31 ChocolateIsLife - Awaiting ov
CD31 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD29 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD27 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD27 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD24 babymonster2 - Awaiting ov
CD23 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD22 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD18 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD15 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD15 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD15 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD14 good vibes - Awaiting ov
CD14 lilymay - Awaiting ov
CD14 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov
CD13 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD13 lulu75 - Awaiting ov
CD12 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD10 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD10 olliesmummy - Awaiting ov
CD9 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD8 tattoo - Awaiting ov
CD6 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD6 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD5 becca0417 - Awaiting ov
CD4 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD3 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD3 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

Good morning:wave:

MrsHappy, IVFs are expensive, but I think it's worth it if you get a baby in the end:) Don't get too stressed over money, money can be replaced later. Just feel rich:D

You should start eating well from 3 months before IVF, as eggs start developing from then. Same goes for your DH:cool:
chocolate, well done for not SSing:T
TTC40, there's always a chance that lap will be all you need to get pg, but I know what you mean, earlier you do IVF, more chance of being pg (due to better eggs).
Hard one:think:

If I had all the money in the world, then I might do IVF first and hope for the best. If it fails, then free NHS lap, and few months later (you have to leave few months between IVFs), another IVF?

It was easier for us in that DH's sperm will never reach the egg (bar miracle) so ICSI all the way. I had bad experience with my first full blown IVF (got serious side effect called OHSS), so I'm onto mild IVFs now:o

I only my mum about IUIs, and didn't tell her about HSG or the 1st IVF. I did tell her everything in the end though. Me and my big mouth:o
loulou123, awww.... poor DH:( Pity about BDing too:o
Hope you caught it this cycle:cool:
Aida, good point. Will stop the mask from tonight, and sleep with the light on now:cool:
How are you?:wave: Well done for not SSing, but I think it's OK to SS now:rotfl:
vesper, (((hugs))).
Like most men, your dad probably only thought of your mc baby as bunch of cells, and not a person. He was probably only thinking of you:(
Still, inexcusable:mad:

Birdie85

That's sad Vesper, I hope that your baby when it arrives gives you the close family unit you need Stick your cousin on ignore too! I know what you mean about people complaining constantly about being PG, it's very annoying! It actually upsets OH more than me and he's recently had a FB cull and defriended everyone who goes on about their babies and bumps because he can't stand it!

Urgh, I've just realised that if AF turns up it'll be on the day we fly to Spain We're only going for 4 nights so it's not like I can look forward to a couple of days without it at the end of the holiday, it's going to be for the whole trip. Fingers crossed it doesn't arrive!

I think we're due a much better BFP rate this month, I'd like to guess 10 please QQ

becca0417

Ohhh ((vesper)) - hope you enjoyed your popcorn!

I'm new to all this charting business - could someone show me what it's supposed to look like? Sorry for all these questions

TeamLowe

let's see if i can get this right...
www.fertilityfriend.com/home/36a4ca

oh, and not for you becca, just for adding to the list! if you go on the front page of the thread, the names in blue are links to their charts x x

mrsj28

Aida wrote: »

Everything is fine here, just a little bit :eek:. It's worst than 2ww because is 8 weeks wait . Time doesn't want to pass at all.

QQ you should be pleased as I have no SS:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:. I did have some cramps the week after the BFP but nothing too painful.

When are you planning to test?

Planning to test on Sunday (14dpo). I think I can hold out until then, because I find negative tests so depressing! Glad all is ok with you

vesper wrote: »

Sorry for being a grumpy pants earlier. I don't want to be jelious or begrudge any of my friends or hubbies family being pregnant but as each month goes by it just gets harder and harder, I really don't get how some people cope.

I don't think I could ever tell my parents if I got to the ivf stage. But we aren't particulary close, and they don't know anything about my private life. My mum doesn't even know that I had a miscarriage, my Dad does but only because he opened some private post that went to my old address by accident, which contained the information of my scan date. He lost it with me for being so stupid to get pregnant, so I had to tell him the truth that I had lost the baby that week. I won't tell you his proper response, but it was along the idea of good. It broke my heart that he could be so happy that my child was dead.

FIL would probably be told, but only because he's hubbies only close family and seems to be one of the few members of our family that want us to have children (except my auntie).

Sorry I'm moaning again. Just feeling sorry for myself again, shall have to go and cheer myself up with some salted popcorn.

Big ((hugs)) vesper. That's so sad Really hope you will get your BFP and forever baby soon, and have a lovely little family of your own

Tealover - good luck for FS appointment today!

QQ - could you put me down for 9 BFPs this month. Hope there'll be lots more than that of course!

zcrat41

Hugs Vesper. You sound like one pretty strong lady and I hope that you get a massive BFP and your own little family very very soon.

Birdie - hear hear. We def need more BFP's this month. I'm going for 10 as there seems to be loads of us on here at the moment.

CD4 for me and AF seems to be on her way out. Has been particularly short and light this month.

Plan of action for me this month:

1) Drink hot water and lemon every morning (I read it the acidity helps the little swimmers)
2) Drink decaf coffee
3) Follow ww therefore I'll be eating healthily
4) Do an hours activity a day
5) Let myself get excited but also plan nice things for if this month isn't our month.
6) Try and keep a lid on stress levels.

It's pouring with rain here today. Just has not stopped. Although us farmers have spent the last 2 years complaining how dry it is so we can't complain now it's raining!