Trying for a Baby Part 7

tea_lover

Sorted things out with OH, then managed to have another blazing row:mad:. He's now gone out for the night and I'm stuck at home sulking.

What is the matter with me? Why can't I speak to him without it ending in an argument?:(

TeamLowe

Big hugs tea lover, dunno how to solve that one

In other news, my eldest sister is a self involved !!!!!. Already knew that but can't believe she's asked mum to go to where she lives on Sunday for lunch. It's a two hour drive. So me and middle sis get no time with her. Grr x x

cleofish

hi everyone,


sorry to hear about the argument with your dh tealover,

team lowe- thats really shi**y with your sister and your mum, especially as there are three of you, did you have anything planned for mothers day?

afm ive been getting cramps today, my af isnt due till tues and i think it makes me 10dpo today? but between ff, QQ and my list its all different though.

did a test this morning and yesterday and nothing:( i dont think they could be implantation cramps as its painful not hugely painful but i thought impantation pains were meant to be little cramps. Plus i had really bad heartburn last night, but thats probably because of some other tablets im taking so in general im falling apart and not feeling too optismistic for a bfp, i feel this is the time of the month that i have to start thinking and preparing for a bfn so when it does happen it doesnt hit me so hard. Pants..:(

Definitely_blonde

Thank you for those who gave opinions on my work situation.
Kavics17 – I too am usually sooo careful and risk adverse
Mogwai – we have saved up cash to help towards covering my maternity leave and DH has had a promotion since we started to save money for a baby (started about 2 years ago) so my redundancy would easily cover me taking a full year off. We can’t survive for ever on 1 salary and DH job will never be 100% secure
Abis21 – I have listed the pros and cons and give them a different weighting each day (in all honestly each hour!!) so keep changing my mind. Seems like you know me, the thoughts keep whizzing round and round and round and round..........
Tea lover – fingers crossed you get a BFP before you need to decide. I have one more chance to POAS before I need to make up my mind and even then I will only be CD25 so pushing it for a clear result. Oh how I wish I had a crystal ball.
Right back to the ttc subject (sorry for wandering off)

Definitely_blonde

Oh tinkwings, your eye looks sore

Hugs Aida

Sa-ra-ra-ra how exciting :j, is there much to do to the new house?

Dundeediva & Primmer – hugs for CD1

This week I have had 2 people at work ask me the awful question of “do you wants kids”? I answered with yes someday, oh how I just wish that someday was soon. Also since I told my Mum we are ttc if I mention “and if I am pregnant by then” in a conversation she automatically says “are you trying to tell me something”? Of course Mum if I was pregnant I would just drop it into a conversation and not actually tell you, arghhhhh:mad:

My OH used to work away a lot in his previous job and I absolutely hated it, used to feel so lonely and down. So glad he changed jobs, he works strange hours now but is at least home at night. I totally sympathise with those who are missing their OH.

On the earlier subject of pants I had a weird conversation with my OH in M&S tonight – I said I want new pants but don’t need them, I want them to match my new bra but I need a white bra to wear under work blouses but I don’t like white pants as they remind me of AF (all my AF pants were white when I was young and first started, not sure why) – my OH looked at me, gave me a pitty pat and said thank f@?k I’m a bloke!

((hugs)) to all that need / want them

2ba3c

I got the job

2ba3c

Today has been manic. DW's grandmothers funeral was today, and we couldn't be there, as it was in the US. We had an appointment at the home office, to sort our visas and were there ALL day as they made a mistake (grr), then we nearly had to cancel the donor, and lose the ££s we spent on our hotel, as we couldnt get there on time.

THANKFULLY, he is super fr-iggin lovely and waited for us an extra 1.5 hours, bless his heart.

I feel bad though as we only had a small wee-wee pot for him to you know whats-it in - and trust me, they need wide mouthed! It was a bit sticky when it got to me!

Oh the things we go through to try and make the babies!!
xx

Kitten_Pie

2b Congratulations on the job.

Sorry about DW grandmother. Hope she is doing ok.

tea_lover

2ba3c - sounds like a mixed-emotions day all round then. Hope the funeral went ok, massive congrats on the job, and fingers crossed that the lovely donor won't be needed anymore.

Primmer

2b - congrats on the job! Glad your donor waited for you too.