Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD66 isla_red - 53DPO :cool:
CD52 Sammy_Girl - 39DPO :cool:
CD52 mssas - 37DPO :cool:
CD48 TeamLowe - 23DPO :cool:
CD33 skintchick - 20DPO :cool:
CD? dibdabb - 17DPO :cool:
CD35 Bigzippy* - 13DPO :cool:
CD58 GorkyPark - 12DPO :cool:
CD26 Gizmodo - 11DPO :cool:
CD29 kavics17 - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 time2deal - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 mrshappy - 10DPO :cool:
CD28 cleofish - 9DPO :cool:
CD20 lulu - 8DPO :cool:
CD29 Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7DPO :cool:
CD35 Abis - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 2ba3c - 1DPO :cool:
CD14 tinkwings - +OPK :cool:

CD85 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD84 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD79 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD69 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD65 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD57 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD53 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD43 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD42 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD37 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD37 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD35 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD32 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov
CD32 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD31 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD29 COMP - Awaiting ov
CD24 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD23 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD23 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD21 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD20 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD20 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD20 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD20 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD19 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD18 mlbarret - Awaiting ov
CD16 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD16 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD16 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD13 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD11 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD11 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD10 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD10 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD9 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD9 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD9 mogwai - Awaiting ov
CD9 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD9 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD7 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD7 dizsiebubba - Awaiting ov
CD5 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD5 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD4 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD4 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD3 Aida - Awaiting ov
CD3 dundeediva - Awaiting ov
CD2 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD1 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

Huge hugs to dundeediva, Primmer, Scarly and Maire for AF:(


Tinkwings, your eye looks so painful:(, and (((hugs))) for your boss being nasty.
Aida, how are you? One is supposed to be super fertile after mcs...
2ba3c, :jCongratulations for your new job!:j
(((hugs))) re fertility clinic, but your chart looks good, I think you timed it very well this cycle:cool:
Secretdebts, (((hugs))), how is your pneumonia?
skintchick, welcome back, and (((hugs))).
zcrat, hope you'll get pg before April:D
dundeediva, glad you have a very understanding boss:o (((hugs))).
codemonkey, (((hugs))) for useless doctor. There's so many of those around at the moment:mad:
Littlezee, amputate?:shocked:
Candlewax, I use my ov strip with FMU as well as afternoon and night:cool:
Nicki, :rotfl:re slack vaginal walls:rotfl:
Sa-ra-ra-ra, congrats on your house:T
Tea Lover, (((hugs))) re your interview, Lent group & washing up.
Abis, no SSing at 4DPO When you are very hungry, one can get nauseous without being pg:D
vesper, (((hugs))). Hope your FIL will accepts some help from you, you are very kind:)
Time2Deal, you are only 10DPO, no early testing
roses, good tip re CBFM, I don't start testing until I start getting changes in cm:)

time2deal

QQuaver wrote: »

Time2Deal, you are only 10DPO, no early testing

Only 10 DPO? I thought it was 11 or 12. That makes me feel slightly more hopeful. This is why I needed you back QQ - it seems I can't even count days without help!

Welcome back. :j

zcrat41

Welcome back QQ - I really don't know how you manage to stay on top of all of this! Hope things with MiL are ok x

lemonmelon_2

Hello ladies,

Hope you are all having nice Saturdays? Fingers crossed time2deal, I had a negative test at 13dpo a day or two before my bfp, thought that was me out!

QQ - glad MIL decided to go ahead with the operation, you are a very kind daughter in law to her. (((( hugs )))) for CD1

Massive congrats 2B on the job - delighted for you fingers crossed it turned out to be a lucky day with the conception as well!

We planted some flowers for our baby today, some lovely white ones that are out now and and some more colourful ones that will bloom in a month or two. We bought a tiny white bird ornament and put it in with the flowers. It made me feel sad but peaceful at the same time, i think when the flowers come out it might inspire some hope in us.

tinkwings

lemonmelon wrote: »

We planted some flowers for our baby today, some lovely white ones that are out now and and some more colourful ones that will bloom in a month or two. We bought a tiny white bird ornament and put it in with the flowers. It made me feel sad but peaceful at the same time, i think when the flowers come out it might inspire some hope in us.

How lovely. We planted a plant for our lost been and a tree it helps to have a memory xxx

bigzippy

*delurks*

Littlezee, amputate? :shocked:

Yep, but sadly that's no longer an option either. The anaesthetist thinks the anaesthetic alone could kill her, never mind the high risk operation too. She wants to go home and "put her affairs in order", but I don't think that's possible either, unless she's going to pay for 2 nurses to be there round the clock, which just isn't affordable

Welcome back, btw, and nice work with your mil. I know how hard it can be to have those conversations where you understood the situation better and end up having to retell the same upsetting news :cool: don't feel guilty about it, there's no point, she needed to know, and she obviously trusts you, so you were probably the best person to tell her anyway.

If I'm right about being 13dpo then these cramps are right on time... :cool: I may test tomorrow, if only to manage my expectations before af arrives, but I don't think I can cope with another bfn on Mothers' Day

:wave: to all

*relurks*

TeamLowe

Big hugs to all for tomorrow, especially those of us who aren't mothers just yet/have lost in the last year x x

Had tea with just mum and dad which was nice and going round in the morning with her presents, hope sh likes them, she's been a rock for me this past year x x

2ba3c

Hello all

Thanks for the lovely congrats re the job. Just trying to finalise child care etc to make sure we can actually make it work.

LM, that sounds really lovely - I would have loved to have done something similar. I hope it brought you some peace. x

BZ - hoping and praying for you that this is your time.

QQ - so sorry you are having to deal with this xx

zcrat - how did the soft furnishing buying go, are you and DH still speaking?!

time2deal ((hugs for feeling down)) - the cbfm for me was a geeky thing to look forward to, I was super excited to get to play with it!

TeamLowe - he is completely doing it out of the goodness of his heart... he wont even be having any involvement. Seriously, I am in awe of the wonderous thing he is doing. I dont even know how to thank him for the time and effort he has given us so far. Thank you for your kind words too xx

Vesper ((more hugs for bad day)) - Vent away, I find this place so cathartic, just writing it down can sort my head sometimes. Hope it works for you too.

((hugs for everyone else who needs or wants them, and a pat on the shoulder, or pinch on the bum for those who don't!!))

Can I ask a bit of advice/a question....

According to my chart, I think I ovulated yesterday as my temp has rised today, HOWEVER, I seem to only have EWCM today - which is weird, right?

Love,
2b - who has a belly full of curry. Nom.

vesper

Well I can't say that today has got better at all. Have managed to get so tied up in my head, forgot to do the cbfm over the last couple of days so don't know whether I'm ov or not, but I suspect I'm close, but just can't think about dtd at the moment. How on earth am I meant to choose between trying for a baby and my fil. Despite him being a grumpy sod I still love him like a father.
Oh confessed earlier that it seems like fil is giving up on life and wants OH to come to the solicitors later next week to get his affairs in order and sign the house into our names. I just can't understand why he is giving up. OH has been there again tonight, and it seems like he hasn't had a proper meal in weeks nor sleep. The infection is getting worse,and I think we are going to have to take him to hospital tomorrow. It's getting more and more obvious that he can no longer look after himself. He can't cook himself meals, hasn't been upstairs for weeks. Oh is beside himself, but FIL still won't accept help. I just don't know what to do.