Trying for a Baby Part 7

Kitten_Pie

Big hugs vesper, sorry to hear about your fil.

With practical head on at the moment just wanted to mention that if your FIL signs his house into your names and he dies within the next 7 years you guys would still be liable for inheritance tax.
Sure you know that but if not the boards here would be able to clarify things.

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 12th Mar - TeamLowe
Fri 23rd Mar - kavics

March graduates- Winners of Feb BFP predictions (9) kavics, Primmer, Birdie, Secretdebts, Twigglett35 & Scarly:T

CherryDrop (23) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 09/03/12:j
cmills16 TTC#1 since 11/11 BFP 08/03/12:j
dizsiebubba (24) TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 17/03/12:j


March BFP predictions

MrsHappy - 8
COMP - 9
Vesper - 9
Definitely Blonde - 9
Squ1rrel5 - 9
twigglett35 - 9
QQuaver - 10
Maire - 10
TeamLowe - 10
Birdie - 10
TTC40 - 10
Aida - 10
kavics -11
abis - 11
Primmer - 11
Scarly - 11
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 12
Secretdebts -12 (incl self)
MrsJ28 - 12 (incl self)

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD67 isla_red - 54DPO :cool:
CD53 Sammy_Girl - 40DPO :cool:
CD53 mssas - 38DPO :cool:
CD49 TeamLowe - 24DPO :cool:
CD34 skintchick - 21DPO :cool:
CD? dibdabb - 18DPO :cool:
CD36 Bigzippy* - 14DPO :cool:
CD59 GorkyPark - 13DPO :cool:
CD27 Gizmodo - 12DPO :cool:
CD30 kavics17 - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 time2deal - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 mrshappy - 11DPO :cool:
CD29 cleofish - 10DPO :cool:
CD21 lulu - 9DPO :cool:
CD30 Sa-ra-ra-ra - 8DPO :cool:
CD36 Abis - 7DPO :cool:
CD25 2ba3c - 2DPO :cool:
CD15 tinkwings - 0DPO :cool:
CD20 vesper - 0DPO :cool:

CD86 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD85 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD80 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD70 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD66 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD58 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD54 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD44 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD43 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD38 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD38 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD36 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD33 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov
CD33 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD32 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD30 COMP - Awaiting ov
CD25 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD24 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD24 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD22 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD21 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD21 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD21 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD21 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD19 mlbarret - Awaiting ov
CD17 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD17 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD17 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD14 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD14 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD12 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD12 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD11 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD10 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD10 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD10 mogwai - Awaiting ov
CD10 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD10 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD8 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD6 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD6 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD5 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD5 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD4 dundeediva - Awaiting ov
CD3 Aida - Awaiting ov
CD3 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD2 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

lemonmelon wrote: »

(((( hugs )))) for CD1

Thanks for the hugs, but we didn't BD or do IVF this cycle, so was expected:o

We planted some flowers for our baby today, some lovely white ones that are out now and and some more colourful ones that will bloom in a month or two. We bought a tiny white bird ornament and put it in with the flowers. It made me feel sad but peaceful at the same time, i think when the flowers come out it might inspire some hope in us.

Lovely (((hugs))).

bigzippy wrote: »

Yep, but sadly that's no longer an option either. The anaesthetist thinks the anaesthetic alone could kill her, never mind the high risk operation too.

Oh no:(

but I don't think I can cope with another bfn on Mothers' Day

Fingers crossed:o

TeamLowe wrote: »

Big hugs to all for tomorrow, especially those of us who aren't mothers just yet/have lost in the last year x x

What a lovely thought, thanks:o

2ba3c wrote: »

Thanks for the lovely congrats re the job. Just trying to finalise child care etc to make sure we can actually make it work.

Good luck:)

Can I ask a bit of advice/a question....

According to my chart, I think I ovulated yesterday as my temp has rised today, HOWEVER, I seem to only have EWCM today - which is weird, right?

Are you sure it's ewcm? Not the remains of the insemination?

vesper wrote: »

It's getting more and more obvious that he can no longer look after himself. He can't cook himself meals, hasn't been upstairs for weeks. Oh is beside himself, but FIL still won't accept help. I just don't know what to do.

Some people are proud, and value independence, and doesn't want anyone's help (((hugs))).

dizsiebubba

Hi Ladies.

It is hardwork keeping up with this thread, so much going on!

Congrats to the ladies who have had their BFP and sorry to those who had AF visit

Dont give up just because you bleed though, always take a test. I was due on Tuesday but started bleeding Last Sunday so though AF just came early as I have recently lost my nan so not 100% myself and thought my cycle was disrupted.

Anyway, it was light for two days and then stopped and nothin since Monday...so yesterday I tested in the AM on an IC and got a very FLP...to be sure I tested n another 3 ICs and then convinced myself to go bet a clear blue test which says 2-3 weeks! Last proper period makes me around 5 weeks on Tuesday.

I don't know what the bleeding was, perhaps some kind of implantation bleed? But never just assume it is AF!

Hugs to all xxxx

lemonmelon_2

Congratulations dizsiebubba! That's fantastic news, wishing you all the happiness in the world and have a lovely lovely mothers day

2ba3c

Qq am reasonably sure it was ewcm.. as noted distinct lack of it when we insemmed.

zcrat41

Yay ditziebubba that is fantastic. Congratulations!

2b - soft furnishing shopping went better than expected. Partly because we found a wallpaper with chickens on (we are chicken farmers!) that dh saw and went, oh, ok, thats it, job done! Have a few samples to choose from at home now.

So, we DTD for the first time in the month last night, i thought safe in the knowledge that CBFM was still on low. So this morning I was quite surprised to find it had jumped to Peak - missing out the high! Is this something to be concerned about - am I missing some Oestrogen or something this month?

Have warned OH that we need to try today, tomorrow and tues if we can manage it. I was hoping for an extra one this morning but he was "too tired" from last night (i.e. he was too involved in the Catherine Cookson on the telly - I'm married to such a closet saddo its untrue, his mates think he's a tough farmer type but I know the truth!!)

I'm off to church this morning with MiL as it's her first Mothers day without her mum then lunch with my mum. Will be praying quite hard that next year I might be a mum!

Hope everyone has a nice day today - whatever your needs are.

AllyS

Hope everyone is ok today xx

A little advice if that is ok?

Last month I was a week late and AF arrived 1/3. Yesterday I am pretty sure I OV. We did a quicky BD yesterday morn. This morn just been to toilet and had lots of white/yellow discharge but also it was streaky red bleeding - confused! I am 10 days early if comparing to 28 day cycle but only 3 day early if I disregard the week late last month, but like I said I am pretty sure it was OV yesterday!

Any ideas? Xx

kavics17

dizsiebubba wrote: »

Hi Ladies.

It is hardwork keeping up with this thread, so much going on!

Congrats to the ladies who have had their BFP and sorry to those who had AF visit

Dont give up just because you bleed though, always take a test. I was due on Tuesday but started bleeding Last Sunday so though AF just came early as I have recently lost my nan so not 100% myself and thought my cycle was disrupted.

Anyway, it was light for two days and then stopped and nothin since Monday...so yesterday I tested in the AM on an IC and got a very FLP...to be sure I tested n another 3 ICs and then convinced myself to go bet a clear blue test which says 2-3 weeks! Last proper period makes me around 5 weeks on Tuesday.

I don't know what the bleeding was, perhaps some kind of implantation bleed? But never just assume it is AF!

Hugs to all xxxx

Congratulations!!!