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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • LittleMoog
    LittleMoog Posts: 2,392 Forumite
    Morning ladies :)

    another -ve opk yesterday, and high temp this morning, so I definitely think I've OV'd over the weekend. FF didn't though, until I discarded all the higher temps taken on days when I was dozing/restless before temping, which made it put the cover line in :o hopefully as time goes on I'll be better at waking up to take my temperature properly so it won't be a problem.

    Re: drinking/exercising etc in the 2ww, I plan to carry on as normal until 6/7dpo, and then act as I would if I was pg, as that's when implantation occurs. We're going to watch the rugby in the pub on Saturday when I'll be 7dpo though :o. Not sure how I'm going to get away with not drinking very much, when we planned it I was expecting to OV much later, as this is the earliest it's ever happened. Think i'll stick to halves of beer, and intersperse them with soft drinks. I normally do this anyway, so will just have to add more soft drinks and hope I can get away with it. My friend we're going with knows we're trying though, so she'll be watching me like a hawk :rotfl:

    Exercise wise, I'm sticking to pilates and swimming anyway at the moment, both things I plan to continue when PG. As soon as I get a bfp i'll let my pilates instructor know, but I know she's fine with PG ladies as there are 2 in our class atm! There was also a pg lady in the step aerobics class I used to go to :eek: I can't coordinate my movements enough now, no idea how i'd do it with a bump!
    Little monkey born November 2012:j
    Froglet due March 2016 :D
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    On the subject of whether to continue with normal life in the 2ww perhaps it's worth considering what fertility clinics advise following an embryo transfer. After all, you do actually have an embryo inside your tum, waiting to implant!

    Exercise, travelling, food, etc. is all 'business as usual'. Obviously alcohol should be reduced (but you'd expect that anyway if you're TTC) - I was told no more than six units a week was advisable (two to three large glasses of wine). The only other advice you're given is to try not to overheat, as this can affect implantation. I was told not to have superhot baths, and not to do 'strenuous' exercise, e.g. run a marathon (fat chance). Oh, and don't take ibuprofen.

    During my successful 2ww I got on a plane, ran for a bus, had a few glasses of wine, went swimming most days. Don't sweat it too much; if the embryo's strong it will implant, pretty much regardless of what its mummy's doing :)
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • TTC40
    TTC40 Posts: 1,056 Forumite
    Morning all.

    Back at work after my 4 hour round trip. As has been said, nice to see OH & he was pleased to see me.

    Unfortunately he didn't manage to 'complete' this morning (although did last night).

    Still no positive on OPK so may not have been the best timed for conception anyway.

    I'll see what happens over the next couple of days. I suppose if I don't get a positive until Thursday it may be worth calling the hospital to see if we can put SA back a few days (although OH is away most of next week so it could get tricky).

    If I get the positive tomorrow morning then it's probably not worth changing the SA as we won't be able to BD until Friday night.

    Oh so complicated.

    I was laughing at myself last night though as I did the journey - then thought about Q's hubby who crossed the Atlantic just for a test. Realised my journey was minor (and cheaper) in comparision.
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Morning ladies. 2 ww is a pain in the bum with hormones. Got 7 days until I test as well.

    On the issue of exercise, when I was pregnant with DS I carried on exercising for about 6 months into my pregnancy and this helped me stay trim. You should carry on as normal unless you participate in dangerous sports like rugby or sky diving.
    I know people who are professional runners and they ran all the way up to the last month of pregnancy and were back running a month after giving birth.
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  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Fingers crossed that your timings work out, whenever ovulation comes along TTC40.

    I'm now in the same boat. CD13 today and no sign of a positive OPK or a peak on CBFM. Usually I actually ovulate on CD12 or CD13. DH is now away until Thursday night, and worked late last night until 4 am, so wasn't keen to dtd this morning. So the last time we BD'd was Sunday night so I am hoping that I don't get a positive OPK today or a peak tomorrow. On the other hand, as I don't seem to have ovulated last month, I would rather ovulate this month and miss the egg, than have two consecutive months where I don't which might suggest that time has run out for me :(

    My CBFM sticks are really weird this month though. It is a new box, and the lines on them have been super faint all month (both LH and oestrogen). Not sure if I have a faulty box or whether for some reasons my hormone levels are just really low for some reason. Clearly the monitor can read them as it has been giving me a high from CD6 but they are very hard to see with the naked eye. Has anyone else had this with CBFM?
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Morning Lady Bugs

    Stuck in the 2ww and annoyed as I know there is no chance we are pg this cycle and just want af to arrive so I can move on.

    Have my next reflex session next week and massage booked in on saturday.

    Trying to keep my pms up but some days are easier than others.

    Another friend announced with her scan piccie at the weekend on FB I lost the plot a bit and turned into a green eyed monster :o

    I just feel that time is running out and that I am never going to get number 3 forever baby. :o

    What is everyone giving up for Lent?????

    I am giving up bread & choccies :)
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • zcrat41
    zcrat41 Posts: 1,799 Forumite
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    Hello people,

    I've not been posting for a few days as I've been really busy at work and boy there's some catching up to do. From a brief read it looks like there's a bit of pma going round at the mo which is great. I like the idea of looking at ttc as a 6 month window rather than a monthly thing. That would work for me as I have a good window till July this year, then I won't be able to try for 2 months as OH and I go super mad at work but they Sept - Xmas could be my second window.

    Anyways, CD12 for me and had my first high on CBFM. Last cycle I had highs from day 6 and got my peak around day 14. Wondering if I won't have so many highs this time as it's my second cycle of using it. Operation BD shall commence tonight!

    Re exercise in the 2WW, this time I'm off skiing for a week which I am soooo excited about. And there's free wine in the evening as part of our deal so lord knows how I'm going to restrict myself to 2/3 large glasses. Have to say I'm a lot more relaxed this cycle and not so bothered if it doesn't happen as I know I'm probably not going to be giving my body the best chance.

    Also, I would say it's really important to keep exercising whilst pregnant to keep healthy. Yes, stay away from the skydiving but surely lots of walking/swimming/gentle jogging is only going to do you and the baby good as long as its done within medical guidelines and you were reasnobly fit and healthy in the first place.
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list

    Tue 7th Feb - MrsJ28
    Tue 14th Feb - Tea Lover
    Wed 22nd Feb - 2ba3c
    Thu 23rd Feb - Sammy_Girl
    Tue 28th Feb - Flee
    Tue 28th Feb - MERFE
    Wed 29th Feb - Squ1rrels
    Wed 29th Feb - mlbarrett
    Wed 29th - Time 2 deal
    Wed 29th - Natterjack
    Thu 1st Mar - Natterjack88
    Thu 1st Mar - LittleMoog


    February graduates- Winners of Jan BFP predictions (12) Secretdebts & MrsJ28:T

    20somethinghousewife (26) TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 01/02/12:j
    Moneypuddle TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 02/02/12:j
    Welshgirl78 (33) TTC#1 since 12/11 BFP 03/02/12:j
    Snowyz81 (31) TTC#2 since 12/11 (mc) BFP 10/02/12:j
    Walby1993 (25) TTC#1 since 11/11 BFP 11/02/12:j
    Scottishchick27 (34) TTC#2 since 11/11 BFP 16/02/12:j


    February BFP predictions

    zcrat - 7
    TTC40 - 8
    Tea Lover - 8
    Aida - 8
    Cleofish - 8
    kavics - 9
    Primmer - 9
    Birdie - 9
    Secretdebts - 9
    Twigglett35 - 9 (incl self)
    Scarly - 9
    MrsJ28 - 10
    Maire - 10
    Snowy - 10
    QQuaver - 10
    TeamLowe - 10
    Flee - 10
    Wleshgirl - 11
    LittleMoog - 11
    Dundeediva - 11
    MrsHappy - 12
    Vesper - 12
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Team Sticky!

    CD41 isla_red - 28DPO :cool:
    CD46 mrsj28 - 28DPO :cool:
    CD27 Sammy_Girl - 14DPO :cool:
    CD27 lemonmelon - 13DPO :cool:
    CD27 mssas - 12DPO :cool:
    CD33 Gizmodo - 12DPO :cool:
    CD22 mrshappy - 11DPO :cool:
    CD34 2ba3c - 10DPO :cool:
    CD21 time2deal - 7DPO :cool:
    CD30 Squ1rrel5 - 7DPO :cool:
    CD16 tinkwings - 5DPO :cool:
    CD23 vesper - 5DPO :cool:
    CD21 Aida - 4DPO :cool:
    CD25 Flee - 4DPO :cool:
    CD17 LittleMoog - 3DPO :cool:
    CD12 zcrat - High CBFM :cool:

    CD91 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD90 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD87 alamaya - Awaiting ov :o
    CD67 cmills - Awaiting ov :o
    CD60 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD59 Nephthys - Awaiting ov :o
    CD54 Athina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD47 Tea lover - Awaiting ov :o
    CD44 trixietoes - Awaiting ov :o
    CD42 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD40 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov :o
    CD40 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov :o
    CD39 claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD34 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD33 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov :o
    CD32 AbFab - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 mlbarret - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 MERFE - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Candlewax - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 bigmomma - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 butterfly40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Cherrydrop - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Derby2 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Nicki - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Maire1 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Abis - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 dizsiebubba - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 dundeediva - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 kavics17 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 Primmer* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 COMP - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 cleofish - Awaiting ov :o
    CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov :o


    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Good morning:wave:

    CD11, and have not temped at all this cycle:shocked:
    I've temped since my mc back in Aug 2009, so it feels a bit odd, but strangely liberating:cool: No OPKs etc too. No DH as well, but never mind that:D

    ilovecushions, any news?
    COMP!, glad to finally see you here:wave:
    Would you like your age added to the list on the 1st page?
    Littlezee, (((hugs))).
    My MIL is in hospital again, but this time I have work, so BIL is taking care of her for a change. Wish I was there, but it can't be helped:(
    Abis, you will get there very soon, just hang in there (((hugs))).
    TeamLowe, (((hugs))).
    Try to have some activity planned throughout 2ww, like getting some treats, going to the cinema etc to take your mind off:o Not MSE, but if it lifts your mood, it must be doing good to the baby:cool:
    colli, I know, FF VIP should be banned:naughty::D
    I like the way you see TTC in 6 months blocks:)
    mrsj28, (((hugs))) for the flu:o Do you know if you ov'd?
    Aida, I'd keep exercising if you are used to it, but would not start something new during 2ww.
    Definitely Blonde, have you ov'd?
    TTC40, well done for doing the drive, even without +OPK:D
    Any sign of ov?
    As for DH, it was that stupid doctor's fault, he said DH needs to come before CD10 in case I ov early, but like I ever ov early:mad:
    Fannyanna, hope your dream comes true, I love those didn't know I was pregnant stories:happyhear
    Abis, yay for the cat!:j
    Pancakes, hmm... maybe I should get some:cool:
    Birdie, good luck for your pancake run:D
    LittleMoog, yay for ov line:cool: Now the 2www:D
    Nicki, no I never had that with CBFM. How odd:huh:
    Tinkwings, I gave up temping this cycle, so I'll keep that for lent:D
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