Trying for a Baby Part 7

Lily_The_Legend

tea_lover wrote: »

I feel overwhelmed by everything. TTC, work, family, health - it's all just too much at the moment.

I hate that I've become so whiny and miserable, I feel like I'm being crushed.

Have some more hugs tea lover

A woman at work has just brought her kids into the office including her newborn baby. She has three boys and didn't hide her disappointment when she found out while pregnant with the last two that they were boys. I find that really sad, and am not going to make the effort to go and speak to her. She is also one of those people who is always desperate to get back to work after having the baby too.

Candlewax

Rumfeeble thank you so much, those words were inspiring and so moving. I just started crying reading them.......but in a good way.

Tea lover I'm so sorry you are feeling rubbish. I felt carp yesterday due to feeling overwhelmed. Couldn't concentrate or get motivated about anything. I hope those feelings pass for you soon. hugs x

colli

lemonmelon wrote: »

Hello Ladies - Happy Valentines day!

I was hoping I could come back and join you again for a bit, I really missed you all and the support and good wishes on this thread while I was away.

We are not meant to be trying again until April but my doctor was pretty clear that I only have a year to 18 months to get pregnant before I will need a hysterectomy so I'm just praying that my lovely lonely ovary will do its job before then (and I didn't want to waste two months)

So Hi :wave: to the new ladies that have joined and congratulations :T to all the BFPs and ((((hugs)))) to anyone is still here.

QQ - can you put me down as CD 20 & 6DPO

Hello! I was wondering how you were the other day. . I'm guessing you've got the all clear for now? I'm back ttc again after mc number 2 but not on here much any more as I'm trying not to overthink it and get too obsessive about it again. I am a MASSIVE lurker though and like to keep an eye on you all :D.

Hope you get your BFP super quickly! xxx

Lily_The_Legend

Hi colli, hope you're ok!

lemonmelon_2

Hi Colli - good to see you again, I'm so sorry for the m/cs - I hope you're managing okay and that your forever baby is waiting just around the corner for you.

Yeah - I got an all clear for now (although with cancer they never actually say its gone away- just that I don't have any at the moment)

Tea Lover - maybe try and take a few moments to yourself, have a deep breath or two and remind yourself what makes you you and what makes you happy. You are stronger than you think, it can feel so overwhelming and scary and like too much is happening but just have a second to breathe and be you. (((((hugs))))

kavics17

Hi to all the Newbies, sorry, can't remember names as I read back on the phone but on laptop now:hello:.

And hugs for everyone who feels so down, really hope that things will change and you will all have the reason to be happy. I have to say, I'm ok in general, not down by the ttc business though I am getting more and more inpatient. It's been 11 months now that we started... I have dark moments though, for example yesterday after watching the documentary on BBC2 about the lady who lost her second child because of drugs. The update really upset me, how come that she had 2 children in her mum's care and expecting already a third one? How can some people be irresponsible? I know she tried so hard to change things but still:(:(.

I had my Valentine's day BD already, thanks god for that, I will be far too knackered tonight to do anything:rotfl:. All I want is to go home, have dinner and go to sleep .

Anyone tested today? I wanted to (though I know it's way too early) but left the pregnancy test in my drawer and I was too lazy to walk back to the bedroom and get it .

And Martin's picture???:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Lily_The_Legend

I saw that programme too The woman last week had had several babies taken away from her. They just seem to pop them out not thinking of the consequences. And the woman this week who'd moved in with a sex offender?! :eek::mad:

Primmer

Tealover - huge hugs honey it's horrible when you feel that everyone is going wrong. Can you go out at lunchtime and get some fresh air, I know it wont cure anything but I do find a short walk outside and some deep breathes helps calm me a bit and is what I am going to do today to help me through the afternoon.

QQuaver

Testing list

Tue 7th Feb - MrsJ28
Tue 14th Feb - Tea Lover
Tue 14th Feb - Scottishchick
Mon 20th Feb - Kavics
Thu 23rd Feb - Sammy_Girl
Tue 28th Feb - Flee
Tue 28th Feb - MERFE
Thu 1st Mar - Natterjack88


February graduates- Winners of Jan BFP predictions (12) Secretdebts & MrsJ28:T

20somethinghousewife (26) TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 01/02/12:j
Moneypuddle TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 02/02/12:j
Welshgirl78 (33) TTC#1 since 12/11 BFP 03/02/12:j
Snowyz81 (31) TTC#2 since 12/11 (mc) BFP 10/02/12:j
Walby1993 (25) TTC#1 since 11/11 BFP 11/02/12:j


February BFP predictions

zcrat - 7
TTC40 - 8
Tea Lover - 8
Aida - 8
Cleofish - 8
kavics - 9
Primmer - 9
Birdie - 9
Secretdebts - 9
Twigglett35 - 9 (incl self)
Scarly - 9
MrsJ28 - 10
Maire - 10
Snowy - 10
QQuaver - 10
TeamLowe - 10
Flee - 10
Wleshgirl - 11
LittleMoog - 11
Dundeediva - 11
MrsHappy - 12
Vesper - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD34 isla_red - 21DPO :cool:
CD39 mrsj28 - 21DPO :cool:
CD31 Mintedby30 - 16DPO :cool:
CD24 Primmer* - 11DPO :cool:
CD26 Scottishchick27 - 10DPO :cool:
CD26 kavics17 - 9DPO :cool:
CD20 lemonmelon - 6DPO :cool:
CD26 Gizmodo - 5DPO :cool:
CD15 mrshappy - 4DPO :cool:
CD27 2ba3c - 3DPO :cool:
CD16 vesper - High CBFM :cool:

CD96 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD95 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD84 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD83 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov
CD80 alamaya - Awaiting ov
CD60 cmills - Awaiting ov
CD53 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD52 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD47 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD40 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD37 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD35 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD33 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD33 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD32 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD27 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD26 cleofish - Awaiting ov
CD26 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD25 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD24 dundeediva - Awaiting ov
CD24 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD24 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD24 mlbarret - Awaiting ov
CD23 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD21 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD21 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD21 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD21 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD19 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD18 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD16 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD14 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD14 Aida - Awaiting ov
CD13 butterfly40 - Awaiting ov
CD11 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD11 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD10 LittleMoog - Awaiting ov
CD9 Cherrydrop - Awaiting ov
CD9 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD9 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD8 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov
CD7 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD6 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD5 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD5 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD5 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD5 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD5 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD5 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD5 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD4 Abis - Awaiting ov
CD4 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD4 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov
CD3 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD1 dizsiebubba - Awaiting ov
CD1 skintchick - Awaiting ov
CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)