Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrshappy

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

I understand that feeling...... 6 of my friends are currently pregnant, 2 have had babies in the last month - oh, and i work in a childrens centre with under 5's running various baby groups, doing baby massage and yoga and i do family support with various families, all of whom have a handful of kids they cant currently cope with but still decide to get pregnant and have another one! :(:(:(

I feel like that too I know it's not nice and I should be a nicer person, but it is so hard. It took me all day Saturday to feel brave enough to text a friend who had texted on Saturday morning that she was expecting. I also work with children and families bigmomma and it is really frustrating when you see people falling pregnant by accident time and time again when they can't cope with the ones they have, the kids are on child protection orders, they are picking 'unsuitable' (for want of a better word) partners, continue with substance misuse when pregnant etc etc etc. It is very difficult to remain calm and professional sometimes.

bigmomma051204

mrshappy wrote: »

I feel like that too I know it's not nice and I should be a nicer person, but it is so hard. It took me all day Saturday to feel brave enough to text a friend who had texted on Saturday morning that she was expecting. I also work with children and families bigmomma and it is really frustrating when you see people falling pregnant by accident time and time again when they can't cope with the ones they have, the kids are on child protection orders, they are picking 'unsuitable' (for want of a better word) partners, continue with substance misuse when pregnant etc etc etc. It is very difficult to remain calm and professional sometimes.

Thank God it isnt just me who finds their professional life hard because of TTC

I envy, am jealous and although it isnt nice, i am NOT going to beat myself up about it... because it IS hard :A

skintchick

WElcome back CAndlewax and welcome to Butterfly.

AF still not here, having some weird browny CM which I never get, only after Af but never before, I always just start full flow immediately (and usually overnight). No idea what's going on. Boobs sore, which again I never get before AF, only when PG. I am also not stroppy. *sigh* Guess my body just isn;t back to normal after 2 miscarriages in 9 months.

Primmer

MrsHappy - hope you get on ok at fs and will keep fingers crossed that your dh's SA has improved. Do let us know how you get on.

Butterfly - welcome to the thread, I am 38 and my DH is 47, we have been ttc for over 2 yrs with no luck as yet but not giving up hope. I hope your stay here is short and you get your BFP soon.

Good luck to those testing today and hugs to those with af or who are having a hard time.

I am 11dpo today and managed not to test this morning, I convinced myself that it was too early and didn't want to ruin today by seeing bfn so going to try and hold out until Friday. DH surprised me this morning with some red roses, heart shaped balloon and some chocolate hearts which was really nice.

mrsj28

Morning all :wave:

Any Valentine's BFPs out there??

Still BFN here. Tested this morning as I thought a +ve test would be fun to put in OH's card! Not going to test until Friday now, if AF doesn't arrive soon!

Big ((hugs)) to all those needing them xx

dizsiebubba

AF crept in at night so back to CD1 for me I guess!

Happy Valentines to those of you who celebrate it... me and the OH don't so he can carry on being a moody git for today like the rest of the year then....

tea_lover

BFN

CD40

No AF

No PMA

Sorry

2ba3c

Happy valentines ladies! Ff moved my ovulation date! I'm only 3dpo now.

Hope at least one of us gets a valeting bfp, that would be awesome!

Xx

TeamLowe

2ba3c wrote: »

Happy valentines ladies! Ff moved my ovulation date! I'm only 3dpo now.

Hope at least one of us gets a valeting bfp, that would be awesome!

Xx

Is it a better date for you now for when you saw the donor?

Happy Valentines day to you all, hope next year has no romance for any of us as we'll be too tired from looking after our babies x x

Birdie85

Welcome back Candlewax, sorry about your losses Hopefully you'll get your forever baby soon!

Welcome to Butterfly too! :wave:

Happy Valentines Day everyone! :lovethoug:happyhear:happyhear:love: After laughing yesterday about OH asking me to make my own card he surprised me with a real shop bought card ('To my Wife' :blushing:)and £20 voucher for a beauty salon! Feel bad that I just gave him a card now, and I only remembered to write it at 10pm last night! Bless him, he can be a sweetheart sometimes

Hugs for AF Dizsiebubba

Hugs for the BFNs Tealover and mrsj28

AF is on the way out for me, now it's just the boring wait until OV.