Trying for a Baby Part 7

fluffnutter

TeamLowe wrote: »

Glad i went, she was lovely. I said I'm probably imagining the symptoms and she said no, you know your body best. And she was genuinely sympathetic when i kentioned the miscarriage. So I no have two favourite doctors at the surgery x x

It's great to hear a GP being sympathetic like this. Because miscarriages are so common and usually of no medical significance, the medical profession can be a little blase about them. They forget the heartbreakingly human side of everything and overlook how much psychological impact they have.

I went to see my GP when I was first pregnant because I was getting panic attacks. When she asked what was wrong my first response was 'Well, I'm pregnant...' and before I could even continue she just said 'And?'.

Great bedside manner! GPs just aren't interested in pregnancy!

kavics17

Claire, I would suggest you start using the Panoxyl 5% and if it doesn't get better, than go on the 10%. TBH 2.5% wouldn't have changed anything on my skin, I struggled with the 5% as well. And it takes a long time to clear it up and will dry your skin really badly but once the skin is cleared, it will go back to normal.

sexymouse

Morning all!

Congratulations to claire on the new job! It's good that you'll be better off financially, and hopefully by postponing the ttc for a couple of months will mean that you'll have worked their long enough when you get your BFP to be entitled to maternity pay. Another positive, is you won't have the biggest baby bump over the summer when it's hot and sticky, so you'll hopefully be a bit more comfortable.

QQ I hope all goes well with the eggies today.

zippy I still feel like I've got a marble down my throat at the moment, although the tonsils aren't so sore today, which is a bonus. I declined work today, as I decided it was best to give my voice a rest - plus Moon is off work today, so I can spend some time with him. I'm babysitting tonight again (babysat last night when the parents went to parents' evening - not good reports from the teachers, so think the daughter was in for a stern talking to after I left last night). I was quite impressed with myself though, as I helped the daughter with her homework - geometry, and it's been a LONG time since I did questions like that at school, so I'll see tonight whether we got them right or whether I need to do some more revision of my skills.

twigglet35

Mornin all,

well im waiting for AF, as no hope of a BFP this month as no jiji jiji this month for me

AH not been in the mood :mad:
Wish he would just put it in a pot and let me get on with it :rotfl:

What a bumper month we have had loving all the BFP hope everyone has got their forever babys xx

Hugs to all that need them xx

Flee_2

Hugs to those who need them.

Good luck QQ

Claire, the pill can mess up cycles completely, so if I was you I would just use other protection.

claire16c

kavics17 wrote: »

Claire, I would suggest you start using the Panoxyl 5% and if it doesn't get better, than go on the 10%. TBH 2.5% wouldn't have changed anything on my skin, I struggled with the 5% as well. And it takes a long time to clear it up and will dry your skin really badly but once the skin is cleared, it will go back to normal.

Just ordered the 5% online for about £5.50 inc postage! My skin is so greasy when I wake up I feel like Ive been sleeping in a chippy :rotfl:

sexymouse wrote: »

Morning all!

Congratulations to claire on the new job! It's good that you'll be better off financially, and hopefully by postponing the ttc for a couple of months will mean that you'll have worked their long enough when you get your BFP to be entitled to maternity pay. Another positive, is you won't have the biggest baby bump over the summer when it's hot and sticky, so you'll hopefully be a bit more comfortable.

I'm babysitting tonight again (babysat last night when the parents went to parents' evening - not good reports from the teachers, so think the daughter was in for a stern talking to after I left last night). I was quite impressed with myself though, as I helped the daughter with her homework - geometry, and it's been a LONG time since I did questions like that at school, so I'll see tonight whether we got them right or whether I need to do some more revision of my skills.

good point sexymouse! I love sitting outside when its hot too, so probably wouldnt be good to do that with a bump!

Im babysitting tonight too. I will be thinking of you hehe! Yes I have to help the kids I look after with homework too, at the moment I have a wide knowledge of Romans, times tables, and 3 word spellings :rotfl:

Flee wrote: »

Hugs to those who need them.

Good luck QQ

Claire, the pill can mess up cycles completely, so if I was you I would just use other protection.

Yeah think its going to be the way to go.

zcrat41

Hello people,

Five days away and 43 pages to catch up one! Only done the last few and will catch up properly over the weekend. congrats on the job Claire - that sounds amazing. Hopefully it won't be long before you can ttc again.

Well, this is month one of me using the CBFM. We had a few days away in a posh hotel this week that I thought would coincide with ov according to FF etc. Well, day 6 of my cycle I started showing high fertility but by yesterday (day 13 of cycle) I still hadn't shown "peak". Cue a grumpy me about the last 4 nights being a waste (4 being a superhuman effort on mine and oh part!) and that I wasn't going to "peak" and maybe didn't have an eggs in the first place (ridiculous I know but would be ironic as married to an Egg producer - of the chicken not human kind). OH was very good with me and we had a good chat and a lovely close time.

So this morning, day 1 back at work and I show "peak" - I'm now overexcited about the weekend but I think OH is scared he's going to have to perform again! Woo hoo!!

Looking forwards to catching up with everyone's news

ZC

QQuaver

Testing list

Tue 10th Jan - cmills16
Thu 12th Jan - Sirish1979
Thu 26th Jan - TeamLowe
Sat 28th Jan - Flee
Mon 30th Jan - Time2deal
Mon 20th Jan - vesper

January graduates- Winner of Dec BFP predictions (10) Squirrels:T

The Next Verse (28) TTC#2 since 06/11 BFP 03/01/12:j
Elelyn (33) TTC#1 since 08/11 BFP 06/01/12:j
emsbet (31) TTC#1 since 04/11 (2mcs) BFP 07/01/12:j
kittycat1977 (34) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 09/01/12:j
Kitten_pie TTC#1 since 12/11 (mc 10/11) BFP 10/01/12:j
mishkanorman (31) TTC#3 since 05/11 BFP 13/01/12:j
BargainPrincess TTC#2 since 01/12 BFP 17/01/12:j
sexymouse* (28) TTC#1 since 04/11 BFP 19/01/12:j
Nephthys (36) TTC#2 since 09/11 (1mc) BFP 23/01/12:j
borokat TTC#1 since 12/11 BFP 24/01/12:j
candycane (32) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 25/01/12:j



January BFP predictions

Snowy - 7
Sexymouse - 8
QQuaver - 8
Squ1rrels - 8
TTC40 - 9
Maire - 9
GorkyPark - 9
Birdie - 9
Vesper - 10
DefinitelyBlonde - 11 (ideally incl self)
Kavics - 11
Secretdebts - 12
MrsJ28 - 12
MrsHappy - 14
AbFab - all

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD? Tigerlilly - 82DPO :cool:
CD37 Scottishchick27 - 22DPO :cool:
CD100 mlbarrett - 20DPO :cool:
CD40 TeamLowe - 18DPO :cool:
CD31 Bezzyk - 16DPO :cool:
CD31 Flee - 15DPO :cool:
CD23 mrshappy - 14DPO :cool:
CD34 vesper - 11DPO :cool:
CD31 ikkle87 - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 time2deal - 9 or 10DPO :cool:
CD19 Secretdebts - 5DPO :cool:
CD20 tinkwings - 4DPO? :cool:
CD16 isla_red - 3DPO :cool:
CD34 Birdie85* - 2DPO? :cool:
CD21 mrsj28 - 2DPO :cool:
CD20 LittleMoog - 2DPO :cool:
CD16 skintchick - 2DPO :cool:
CD17 Snowy - 1DPO :cool:
CD17 QQuaver* - 0DPO no egg
CD14 zcrat - Peak CBFM :cool:
CD8 kavics17 - High CBFM :cool:

CD91 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD82 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD78 Picklepick - Awaiting ov
CD77 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD66 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD65 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov
CD65 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD62 alamaya - Awaiting ov
CD42 cmills - Awaiting ov
CD36 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD35 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD35 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD34 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD30 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD29 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD23 moneypuddle - Awaiting ov
CD22 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD21 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD21 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD19 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD17 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD17 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD16 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD15 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD15 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD15 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov
CD14 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD14 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD13 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD11 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD11 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD9 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD8 cleofish - Awaiting ov
CD8 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD8 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD7 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD7 dundeediva - Awaiting ov
CD6 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD6 mlbarret - Awaiting ov
CD5 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD3 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD3 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

QQuaver

Haven't read back, will do later:wave:

The egg collection (IVF) didn't go well, only got 4 immature eggs:o They couldn't get the egg from the lead egg sac, either it was never there, or it got missing:p

Anyway, I have to have a break next cycle as I have work, and the cycle after that as I have to be with MIL for her op, but am planning on returning very soon:cool: