Trying for a Baby Part 7

bigzippy

jellybean12 wrote: »

Hi :-)

I recently joined your mad crazy chit chat a while back but haven't really posted much...(at all in fact!!!) and just thought i would sneak amongst the many and quietly lurk.

I am currently off work for having a MAMMOTH cyst removed from my fallopian tube, thankfully they saved it (tube...not cyst,....that would be wrong!) and have been ttc for about 2-3 years,

I haven't been trying properly though as i don't fully understand it all in depth, but i have (sort of) been diagnosed with PCOS so i think next year is the year to really read up on how to ttc properly!! (if that makes sense!!)

Hope everyone is well!

Jellybean
:-)

:wave: welcome (back) Jellybean
How do you "sort of" get diagnosed? :rotfl::p
Sorry to hear about the cyst, but glad they caught and fixed it :T Do they think the cyst has been causing fertility problems? Is that how they found it in the first place..?

Derby2 wrote: »

Oh god. I'm so sorry, but I've no-one else to talk to. Had such a rotten few days. Oh's cousin is pregnant. Two of my ex colleagues are pregnant, and my sister came over tonight and told me she is pregnant. I don't think I can hold it together. all in few days.

Oh god.

Trying so hard to.keep it together.

So sorry. Oh please help. Sorry, think I've reached final straw. Feel like mind is going to explode.

Don't apologise Derby! This is a safe place to vent. Take a deep breath, and talk it through...? Is your sister older of younger? Did you know she was trying? If you were already pregnant would you be happy for her?

Secrets sounds like you'll still have a job, but you might well be feeling mortified for a while Sorry m'luv, I don't know how to help you...
Maybe you're feeling more than now...?

MrsHappy - the SA debacle did make me think about yours and QQs experiences and think something along the lines of "well no wonder the results weren't good with this faffery!"


AFM: I've got spots, the reoccurring eczema patch that flares around ov, and feel like I smell funny, so I think/hope (based on previous cycles) that ov will be sometime relatively soon, and I got a TLP on my OPK this evening too I had to look twice this arvo to see if there was a faint faint line too, so it seems like my body is at least gearing up at (nearly) the "right" time Maybe it will be Operation CC after all...?

bigzippy

mrshappy wrote: »

I'm 3DPO according to FF, temps look a bit crazy, but we have had mad weather here, very cold then very mild and I put on the big winter duvet, and I'm sometimes wearing jammies as well! :eek: I have done all I can to contribute to operation CC now!

Is CD 10 not a bit early for ov? I was a bit surprised when FF put my lines in, hmmmm, if anything I thought I would ov later this month as I have been under mega stress at work, at home and with uni stuff. Not been a good month for me, but getting better now.

Hmm, I'm wondering whether the extra jammies and big winter duvet is contributing to your higher temperature, rather than having ov'd yet? :think: I would either check with OPKs/CM/cervix position or keep bd'ing (maybe every couple of days for another few days), especially if you think it's unusual for you...? People can and do ov on CD10 (and before) perfectly naturally/normally, but if it's unusual for you, and you're going purely off temps - the circumstances around which have changed just recently - I would be wary of stopping BD too soon

ETA: It looks like you do normally ov around CD12 so it is possible you already have, and I see you've kept up BD in any case

Secretdebts

bigzippy wrote: »

Maybe you're feeling more than now...?

:oYup. That's about how I feel (plus varying degrees of panic)

Yeah for your possible ov!!:j

Good luck Flee for morning

I'm going to put myself in the corner now where I can't cause any trouble :o

bigzippy

Secretdebts wrote: »

:oYup. That's about how I feel (plus varying degrees of panic)

Yeah for your possible ov!!:j

Although I never take anything for granted with my stupid body It might take a week to actually release the egg :rotfl:

Good luck Flee for morning

I forgot to say this earlier! Good luck Flee

I'm going to put myself in the corner now where I can't cause any trouble :o

But where's the fun in that...??

And where's Kitten tonight? In fact, hasn't she been quiet all day? :think:

Secretdebts

Is her sister still over?

bigzippy

Can't actually remember Maaaybe...?? :huh:

Maybe she's just getting some of that rare thing called sleep that I hear people raving about?

Secretdebts

bigzippy wrote: »

Maybe she's just getting some of that rare thing called sleep that I hear people raving about?

Hmmmmm an interesting concept!!:rotfl: I indulge in it occasionally but its not looking likely tonight even though I'm knackered. - I've wound myself up to much:o what a plonker I am

bigzippy

Secretdebts wrote: »

Hmmmmm an interesting concept!!:rotfl: I indulge in it occasionally but its not looking likely tonight even though I'm knackered. - I've wound myself up to much:o what a plonker I am

I once sent a text intended for my bf at the time to my dad's number. I was morrrrrtified. In the end I realised I'd sent it to the house phone rather than his mobile, which THANKfully, at the time, didn't used to do the read out by the BT woman thing that happens now. I had that pukey, panicky, hot sweats, stomach in my mouth feeling that I'm guessing you've got now... I want to be able to fix it for you!

I should probably be sleeping too, but I can't even be bothered to try just yet...

Secretdebts

That's the feeling - had it for about 4 hours now!! I'm torn between ringing my boss & explaining everything or saying nothing on the slim chance that she doesn't know already - or won't find out shortly. Maybe it's better that she hears it from me than from one of her bosses asking if she knows about it - or from one of the other managers 'gossiping'. Or maybe I'm reading totally too much into all of it & the people receiving the emails may just delete them without reading.

bigzippy

Would it help if you pm/emailed me what you put? Maybe I could give you more input then..?