Trying for a Baby Part 7

Secretdebts

Firing up the netbook then pm will be on the way

AbFab

Secretdebts wrote: »

That's the feeling - had it for about 4 hours now!! I'm torn between ringing my boss & explaining everything or saying nothing on the slim chance that she doesn't know already - or won't find out shortly. Maybe it's better that she hears it from me than from one of her bosses asking if she knows about it - or from one of the other managers 'gossiping'. Or maybe I'm reading totally too much into all of it & the people receiving the emails may just delete them without reading.

I'm signed up to a few groups, forums, mailing lists, etc; I hardly ever read any of the emails!
I sent an email to my old manager once telling him that the consultant we'd been lumbered with was useless. Only I sent it to the consultant himself instead. Oops! Luckily my manager couldn't stand him, so it actually worked out ok there. Just not for the consultant!

AbFab

Derby2 wrote: »

Oh god. I'm so sorry, but I've no-one else to talk to. Had such a rotten few days. Oh's cousin is pregnant. Two of my ex colleagues are pregnant, and my sister came over tonight and told me she is pregnant. I don't think I can hold it together. all in few days.

Oh god.

Trying so hard to.keep it together.

So sorry. Oh please help. Sorry, think I've reached final straw. Feel like mind is going to explode.

Don't be sorry, here is a safe place for you to say how you feel. It is really really tough. Some people get pg so easily, others not, and it feels so harsh and unfair. Your turn will come. I feel surrounded by new mums and pregnant people too. They are all over the place. I know I am blessed to already have DS, of course, and I am so grateful, but I still feel a bit envious when others are having more babies.

AbFab

QQ, I will try to get round to doing a photo of my new ornaments, but my main time to be online is when DS is asleep in my arms, so I don't get much done!
Could you also please change my testing date to 01 Jan. DH and I have decided 25th isn't much past late for AF, if I haven't come on by then, and we'd rather bide our time, as I was six days late with my last cycle, so I don't want to test and it be negative. I only picked Christmas Day to test as I thought it was a nice date for a gift of a bfp! New Year's Day is also good - new year, new baby! Thank you!

Secretdebts

Thanks AbFab. They were more notifications than spam emails & I know I read mine when they come through in case somebody's responding to one of my comments but here's hoping that the rest of them aren't as email obsessed as me!!

AbFab

Secretdebts wrote: »

Thanks AbFab. They were more notifications than spam emails & I know I read mine when they come through in case somebody's responding to one of my comments but here's hoping that the rest of them aren't as email obsessed as me!!

I don't even get notifications to my email account from Fb anymore, I think you have to specifically opt in now. So maybe it's not as bad as you think, and hardly anyone, if any, saw it. Plus it's Christmas and people are extra busy, extra drunk, extra inboxed by companies etc.

Secretdebts

Hopefully :o

Kitten_Pie

Hi guys,

OH has been on the laptop this evening while I have been x-stitching, but will get some sleep soon.

Secret Debts take a deep breath and put it to the back of your mind until after Christmas.

I once sent an email to my mother which was intended for a close friend which went into quite intimate detail (even more mortifying it was a girl I was involved with which my mother didn't know about ) It does happen and you probably are thinking more of it than any one else does. (My notifications go to an email address I don't even have any more so people may not even receive the emails especially if there have been a large number of updates on the thread then it will more than likely be deleted without being read.)

Sorry I didn't comment on your previous posts, I didn't know what to say but hope you get the support you need. Not sure I can offer anything but here if you need it.

Welcome to the newbies and the BFP (s). :wave:

AFM:

SMEP is still under way however missed a day we should have bd'd hoping that OV hasn't occurred (no +OPK yet) so that we haven't ruined it. Sister stayed over and it felt wrong while she was here.

Got paid full salary today, however I should be on maternity pay as of this month so got about £1000 more than expected :mad: Have put it in my savings account until it gets sorted or confirmed. Would be nice to have but don't want to have to pay it back or owe the company anything.

Haven't had a chance to read fully back as sister didn't leave until late this evening but hope to catch up with what is happening soon.

Big hugs to all those who are having a hard time with announcements, i completely understand the mixed feelings involved.

bigzippy

Hope you find a solution Secrets

Hope you enjoyed seeing your sister, Kitten

I think I'm off to bed now, if only to change position and see if it helps Sleep well all

TeamLowe

Grr typed out long thing then it crashed!
So short and sweet, hugs where needed and congrats ditto
Merry Christmas to all, may it be our last without brightly coloured plastic, noise and mess x x