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Trying for a Baby Part 7
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Oh no! What did you post?
I have been posting on the Facebook page for a while using an anonymous name & I fairly drunkenly posted last week something that I wouldn't want anyone irl to know about (not quite what the earlier forum comments were about, but something similar). This was relaively ok & I continued using this false name to post on other comments/discussions on the work page but I replied to one today straight from my email program without thinking & my iPhone added my 'signature' onto it ie 'kind regards ... My name...'
I realised as soon as I'd pressed send what I'd done & deleted it straight off Facebook - however the 59 people that had previously commented on the thread will have been emailed my comment & my real name. Now one of these people works under me, and another is my ex-manger. Out of the rest there is at least 24 people with false names like mine that I have no idea whether I know them or not & rumors that 4 of these are area managers
Sorry for the epic post with no relevance to ttc - but you ladies are my best friends at the moment and there's no one else I can tellProv1 £3392 - Aqua £1136 Vanquis £1500, HM £21, Barclays £680 Payday Loans - £1000 Mother - £770
Total debt exc mortgage - [STRIKE]£11857[/STRIKE]] £10092.37 . :wall: Savings Pot - £22.50.0 -
Was it something derogatory about the company or anyone in it?Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170
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No. I've always made sure that I've never said anything insulting or confidential about the company - in fact I'm usually the one sticking up for it so I'm not worried on that score. Its just something that was private to me & I can't bear the thought that people at work know about it.Prov1 £3392 - Aqua £1136 Vanquis £1500, HM £21, Barclays £680 Payday Loans - £1000 Mother - £770
Total debt exc mortgage - [STRIKE]£11857[/STRIKE]] £10092.37 . :wall: Savings Pot - £22.50.0 -
I'm not on facebook so don't know if this is possible, but is it possible to delete all of your previous thread comments so that you can't be identified?Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170
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I think it'd be closing the stable door after the horse has bolted to be honest. The personal comment has been up there for a week which I was fine with as I think it was a helpful post - just not that it was me that made that comment - I can only liken it to us talking about our cm or sperm analysises etc on here then your boss & work colleagues finding out your user name & reading your posts - if that makes any sense.Prov1 £3392 - Aqua £1136 Vanquis £1500, HM £21, Barclays £680 Payday Loans - £1000 Mother - £770
Total debt exc mortgage - [STRIKE]£11857[/STRIKE]] £10092.37 . :wall: Savings Pot - £22.50.0 -
Secretdebts wrote: »I think it'd be closing the stable door after the horse has bolted to be honest. The personal comment has been up there for a week which I was fine with as I think it was a helpful post - just not that it was me that made that comment - I can only liken it to us talking about our cm or sperm analysises etc on here then your boss & work colleagues finding out your user name & reading your posts - if that makes any sense.
Oh my goodness, you poor thing. Maybe most won't read it!:starmod:I'm a SAHM to a smiley snuggly adventurous cheeky bundle of b:male:y b.Oct10. :j
We're a vegan family. We do cloth nappies/wipes, dabble with ECing, use toiletries without parabens/SLS etc, co-sleep, baby-wear, BF, BLW, eco-ball laundry, and we plan to home educate (ideally not at home too much - we want to travel the globe).:starmod:0 -
Sending big hugs your way. Hopefully they'll be sensitive to your feelings and won't mention anything. I'm sure it won't be anything that they can hold against you in a professional capacity. I'm sure they did find it helpful, and will admire your courage to post.Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170
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Congratulations WPB, wishing you all the best x
Good luck in the morning flee
secretdebts, I hope you are getting/can get all the support you need. I also think you are very brave x
QQ, hope you're doing okay x
BZ, hope you are feeling better x your posts about SA made me smile-in a totally sympathetic I feel your pain type of wayNot a nice thing to have to do
Fannyanna, sorry your doctors appointment was rubbish, hope you're okayand others who are having a hard time with doctors as well
My brain has gone to mush and I can't remember who else I had stuff to say to! So hello and hugs for everyone
I'm 3DPO according to FF, temps look a bit crazy, but we have had mad weather here, very cold then very mild and I put on the big winter duvet, and I'm sometimes wearing jammies as well! :eek: I have done all I can to contribute to operation CC now!
Is CD 10 not a bit early for ov? I was a bit surprised when FF put my lines in, hmmmm, if anything I thought I would ov later this month as I have been under mega stress at work, at home and with uni stuff. Not been a good month for me, but getting better now.
Good luck to everyone on Operation CC x0 -
There's a discount running on FF's facebook page at the moment should anyone want to take advantage.
xx:A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove
:kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:
Patience is a virtue I lack!0 -
People can ov on CD10 and looking at your chart it looks like you ov'd three days ago.
xx:A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove
:kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:
Patience is a virtue I lack!0
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