hi need to vent

emmaBZ

darlyd wrote: »

I just logged into his email account in the end, guessed his secret answers. And I too left him.

I totally agree with you.

OP hope your OK :A

see i know his passwords for email and facebook cuz hes not bothered bout me knowing which is why covering his tracks seems so sly and decietful,

balletshoes

My previous boss went through something similar OP. She found out her husband had been texting back and forth with a female colleague of his, frequently and not in work hours. Instead of confronting him, she got a free payg SIM card, popped it in her phone, and sent both her husband and the woman a text, basically saying she (unidentified colleague of both of them) knew about them, and if they didn't stop she would tell his wife.

It nipped in the bud - just the threat was enough. She also originally found out by the number and frequency of texts on his phone bill.

Darlyd

emmaBZ wrote: »

see i know his passwords for email and facebook cuz hes not bothered bout me knowing which is why covering his tracks seems so sly and decietful,

I knew all his passwords too, then when I confronted him, he told me he would stop, but just changed his email password and I guessed his answers to gain access and he lied to me, because they mails never stopped. I was heartbroken. I never did see any text messages, they were there but he obviously wiped them. Have you checked his fb messages?

dirtysexymonkey

darlyd wrote: »

I knew all his passwords too, then when I confronted him, he told me he would stop, but just changed his email password and I guessed his answers to gain access and he lied to me, because they mails never stopped. I was heartbroken. I never did see any text messages, they were there but he obviously wiped them. Have you checked his fb messages?

how is that helping the op? intercepting someones communication is illegal. dont encourage the op to do it!

shellsuit

dirtysexymonkey wrote: »

how is that helping the op? intercepting someones communication is illegal. dont encourage the op to do it!

Is it?

I should be doing time then.

scooby088

I think that having his passwords is ok, using them is another matter and would show a total lack of trust in my opinion, You OH deleting messages is normal too why does this warrant being suspicious for, I had a normal phone and would text my ex about 100 times a day and if one message can contain atleast 3 pages of text it could soon mount up. I am not saying what you OH has done doesn't sound dodgy but there could be other legitimate explanations just dont get making your mind up about things until you hear his side.

Darlyd

dirtysexymonkey wrote: »

how is that helping the op? intercepting someones communication is illegal. dont encourage the op to do it!

The OP does not need encouraging. She is trying to save her family.

dirtysexymonkey

darlyd wrote: »

The OP does not need encouraging. She is trying to save her family.

no shes not. she was venting. and you are using your bitterness to try and break up another relationship. misery likes company as your proving.

dirtysexymonkey

shellsuit wrote: »

Is it?

I should be doing time then.

yes it is. have you been under a rock for the past few months? phone hacking! ring a bell?

Darlyd

dirtysexymonkey wrote: »

no shes not. she was venting. and you are using your bitterness to try and break up another relationship. misery likes company as your proving.

My bitterness?

How the f am I trying to break up ANOTHER relationship? Please explain.

< scratches head >