Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

nickyhutch

Errata wrote: »

It's quite strange that you rarely think about her, given the significant role she's played in your life for almost three years.

I don't think so. I didn't think about OH's wife very much either. She played no part in my life - I made sure of that.

deb68_2

Im sure a lot of you think im on a high horse that be good make me taller lol
or that i think im better than anyone else Im no Better an no Worse than any one
I just would never do this to anyone,maybe its because im too soft,
i no longer wear rose tinted glasses where as before i always believed the best in people i learnt the hard way people are not always what they seem,or truthfull in what they say/promise
I hav"nt had an easy life in fact alot of it was horendous but i never not once hurt another person ive always coped with it as hard as it has been at times,
Yes im married to someone i totally adore a man i love totally,
again no rose tinted glasses on not any more
i no people do things spur of the moment without thinking of the pain they could/will cause other people

maybe its just me my thinking but i cant understand how people can an do just go get there leg over,with what ever they happen to pick up that night,or have a relationship when all ready in one

I no 100% i could never do this to anyone
I had the most horrific thing happen to me not long ago---no Oh didnt have an affair
maybe because of what happened to me makes me realise more nobody has the right to hurt anyone else
im not preeching at anyone,i do not understand how people that do these things to thier partners can be so callous,hurtfull,Spitefull,devious
an think nothing of it or if they do it seems to be like water of a ducks back

Ptn
i wish you would just see what most on here see this bloke your with is hurting his family and you or you wouldnt be on here asking can an affair have a happy ending,YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER someone thats is yours 100% wants an loves you dont settle for 2nd best

im not preeching would be crap at that,im standing on the outside looking in i see you deserve better
deb

whitewing

ptn, you never answered my question previously about how you would feel if his wife read the email that you had sent her husband.

purpletoenails

whitewing wrote: »

ptn, you never answered my question previously about how you would feel if his wife read the email that you had sent her husband.

Sorry! I would rather she didn't find out that way.

deb68_2

you deserve better

nickyhutch

Maybe she does - maybe she doesn't want better? Maybe she wants this man, whatever his faults?

MarilynMonroe_2

211 pages of pure vanity

Person_one

They sound like they deserve each other, if you ask me.

His wife may well deserve better.

Nicky, you can't always have what you want. I quite like my SIL's dining table, but its hers so I can't take it. I quite like the look of Brad Pitt but I think he's taken too.

purpletoenails

MarilynMonroe wrote: »

211 pages of pure vanity

Have you even read them all? I'm not entirely sure where you got that preposterous idea from.

neverdespairgirl

I only have 106 pages - I've been robbed!