Are these what you would call red flags or warning signs?

Nimeth

Clearly this guy has more than a few ego issues and takes it out on everyone else because he can't possibly be the problem.

Listen to your instincts and get out of there! I think you'll be well shot of him and happier too.

pigpen

QuantumSuccess wrote: »

He hasn't mistreated me yet but I think in time it's possible he would. Yikes!

Erm.... and you are even in the same sreet as this guy.. WHY?!!!

If you think he has the potential to be abusive.. do you want to end up a statistic?

He sounds like a complete racist to me.. I'd be kicking him to the kerb..

He is pressuring you to have sex, he is 'making your skin crawl' .. in a few weeks you will be one of those 'girlfriends who were so bad and evil'... is this really what you want??????

Go find someone who likes you for being you.. not because they want a notch on the bedpost!!!!!

QuantumSuccess

SandC wrote: »

I'm not sure why you are even having to ask. Red flags, er yeah just a few.

Call me naive but I have found it helpful to ask and to receive your responses

FATBALLZ

It really depends whether his being a massive racist conflicts with your own personal code of ethics.

QuantumSuccess

Angelic wrote: »

Is this thread serious?

OP , if you have taken people's advice and opinion on board then why have you started a new thread asking about having sex with him?
If this is real then you know he is a bad egg and probably a sociopath (never trust someone who claims to be perfect and blames the other person in all of their break ups)!
It's not like you have children , a home together or years of good memories so run away now and don't look back!

Yes it is serious. I may not be as clued up as some of you when it comes to recognizing shady guys and warning signs which is why I have posed these questions.

peakoil_2

I reckon most people on this thread are white. many of them are women. all of them have said you should dump your black boyfriend. No wonder he thinks white people are racists and he hates women. you should all be ashamed of yourselves! ;-)

CH27

peakoil wrote: »

I reckon most people on this thread are white. many of them are women. all of them have said you should dump your black boyfriend. No wonder he thinks white people are racists and he hates women. you should all be ashamed of yourselves! ;-)

Bollo*ks!!!!!
Can you honestly advise the OP to continue with this relationship?

peakoil_2

did you miss the ;-) ?

oops, hang on. still getting used to this forum.

CH27

peakoil wrote: »

did you miss the ;-) ?

oops, hang on. still getting used to this forum.

:rotfl: :rotfl:

gonzo127

peakoil wrote: »

did you miss the ;-) ?

oops, hang on. still getting used to this forum.

someone really does need to invent a recognised sarcasm font.