Daughter is pregnant - at 15!

POPPYOSCAR

poppyfield19 wrote: »

Thanks for your suggestions

Poppyoscar - no she hasn't told anybody at all.

Then I think that she must have great trust in you for you to be the only one that knows and that she will open up to you at some point.

I get nowhere asking my daughter direct questions but find out an awful lot from her in just conversation when she tends to open up her feelings to me quite unexpectedly sometimes.

System

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

If you object to people's posts you should report them to Abuse, although I don't think these comments really warrant it. MSE is an unmoderated forum, you know.

They're not abusive per say but they are going against the MSE forum etiquette of be nice to moneysavers and be sensitive

pelirocco

tom9980 wrote: »

Suggestion - Dave and Vax's posts i am now hitting the "spam" button on if enough users do this the post will go for good. Sure this is not how the system was meant to be used but the abuse team are too slow to deal with moderating the forum correctly.

I am also a bit disappointed people continued to debate the wrongs and rights when we have very little information to go on, lots of judgements being made here about a girl we know little about.

Posters hitting the Spam button because they didnt like a post were warned recently , that they would be banned

Person_one

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

If you object to people's posts you should report them to Abuse, although I don't think these comments really warrant it. MSE is an unmoderated forum, you know.

I think some of them are bordering on spam actually! Coming back to repeatedly post the same misinformation without actually participating in the discussion? Whether its "Earn money from home" or "You're a bad parent, blah blah rape" the MO is the same!

POPPYOSCAR

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

If you object to people's posts you should report them to Abuse, although I don't think these comments really warrant it. MSE is an unmoderated forum, you know.

I agree. I don't think they are actually abusive as such but are very unhelpful to say the least.

I think the best way to go is to simply ignore them and not rise to the bait.

mrsgreentoad

yeah i went on and had 4 more babys was always going to be a mum! she does not talk to any of them . but at times ive needed her she has never been there.so if i can say anything to you at all it is to be strong for her and you and talk i always try and laugh my daughter is 14 ive just had the talk with her!!. if she was to get pregnant the first thing i would do is say to her i here no matter what xx

Missterious

I have just spent the best part of an hour and a half reading this Thread! You sound like a beautiful mother and your daughter is so lucky. I can totally understand all your anxieties but rest assured i think you have done all you have been able to for your daughter.

All the preachers and haters can go whistle. You know what you have done is the best for the situation.

Carry on doing what you're doing x

pelirocco

Tent wrote: »

Being rogered senseless is my bet :rotfl:

Something worrying about a poster who thinks about young girls in that way ....dont you think?

anderson8

that post by tent has got to be one of the most inappropriate comments i have ever seen on MSE. were talking about an underage girl here!
ive reported.

poppyfield19

Missterious wrote: »

I have just spent the best part of an hour and a half reading this Thread! You sound like a beautiful mother and your daughter is so lucky. I can totally understand all your anxieties but rest assured i think you have done all you have been able to for your daughter.

All the preachers and haters can go whistle. You know what you have done is the best for the situation.

Carry on doing what you're doing x

It's a long thread isn't it!

Thanks for your reply, appreciated.