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  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    Yes on one occasion not every weekend. Once in a blue moon, infact never as it wont happen again. SS will never take my son, simple as. They have no grounds to go on... be a different story if i was out with OH those 4 days and son wasnt being cared for. That didnt happen
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    Once in a blue moon, infact never as it wont happen again.

    Best. Line. Ever! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :T
  • Look not being funny but i don't think the OP is a troll, i do however believe she is in someway "tapped". Few things i am struggling to understand is...1. why can't the OP re-read what she put previously, such as often happens etc, yet now its just special events? (maybe a lot of weddings in the family, who knows?) 2. Why this thread hasn't been deleted? Surely the OP wants this all gone and in the past? Afterall she was only speaking ill of her partner because she was fuming, and it was all false, and a one off?? 3. some of you replying are taking it a little too far, get over it, the OP is loving the drama hence the action still going on in here. And finally 4. at first it was better than Jezza, especially on a night and over the weekend when the real legend isn't on, but now its the same drivvle over and over again, frankly boring. (i will however keep popping in for a look, as i suppose its better than watching bike cops...for now anyway!)
    If it ain't reduced, i don't buy it! :j
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    shellsuit wrote: »
    Oi, knock it off, that's bang out of order!!

    how many women stay with blokes who drink?

    how many women stay with blokes who take drugs?

    how many women stay with blokes who beat them up??

    She's not the first one to be with a bloke who likes a drink and is a selfish git once in a while, and she certainly won't be the last!


    Why do you want her child taken from her?

    Because she won't do as she's told and leave the guy?

    Yes, because it's that simple isn't it! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Not all the time and he cares about me and LO. Is just stupid sometimes and he knows it. I wouldnt be with him if he abused us, was a junkie etc. He certainly shouldnt be labelled as the same for !!!!ing up on the odd occassion as we all do
  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    OP says "wise up" lol think you answered my question there about whether you from NI :)
    Debt Free Wannabe by 1 January 2016 :o


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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Look not being funny but i don't think the OP is a troll, i do however believe she is in someway "tapped". Few things i am struggling to understand is...1. why can't the OP re-read what she put previously, such as often happens etc, yet now its just special events? (maybe a lot of weddings in the family, who knows?) 2. Why this thread hasn't been deleted? Surely the OP wants this all gone and in the past? Afterall she was only speaking ill of her partner because she was fuming, and it was all false, and a one off?? 3. some of you replying are taking it a little too far, get over it, the OP is loving the drama hence the action still going on in here. And finally 4. at first it was better than Jezza, especially on a night and over the weekend when the real legend isn't on, but now its the same drivvle over and over again, frankly boring. (i will however keep popping in for a look, as i suppose its better than watching bike cops...for now anyway!)

    1. Who knows why she is not reading back? Perhaps she is hoping people won't? :o
    2. Threads do not just get "deleted" although I think it'll probably get locked soon
    3. she has riled alot of people in her short stay at MSE :D
    4. Now you see you totally contradicted yourself there ;)
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    OP says "wise up" lol think you answered my question there about whether you from NI :)

    Lol yeah never got back to you. from NI yes
  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    thought so :P i really was just curious as from there originally myself. i think attitudes over there to alot of things are different but especially drinking/pub/going on a bender, not getting into the debate or trying to reopen any arguments people, but hearing OH was out until 5am might not be as strange/foreign an occurance over there as it might seem here if you know what i mean. Any NI will know what I mean anyone else will think I'm mad as for some reason I'm having trouble articulating myself -it's been a long weekend (one night bender for the record!)

    OP if I was you as hard as it is and as much as I am doing the opposite of my own advice, I would forget this thread and start a nice shiny new one somewhere else about something lighthearted x
    Debt Free Wannabe by 1 January 2016 :o


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  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    Lol yeah its getting a bit out of hand especially that t!t who told me to stop breathing or something daft... now that really would destroy my sons life
  • Chudders
    Chudders Posts: 26 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    WOW.

    I can't believe this threads STILL going on! I read the first few pages a few days ago, log back on tonight and it's still here 450 posts later.

    The OP has said she loves her partner, and he's the father of her child. She's not going to break up with him because a bunch of strangers on the internet tell her thats what she should do just like she's not going to march down to social services and hand her son over.

    She's a young mum who came on here sounding off because her OH had annoyed her and people have spent the last week telling her what a terrible mother she is when in reality we know nothing about her.

    Not to say I am on the OP's side by any means, TBH her OH does sound like a total waster, but really, what are people hoping to achieve by continuing this thread?
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