Heartbroken!

rachbc

leos-mummy wrote: »

Thats true but its a bit of a shameful thing to have SS at your home if your completely innocent. Mud sticks and people talk unforunately so even if there is nothing going on in a particular family Im sure plenty of the neighbours would gossip

You sound like you'd know? Anyway how would neighbours know - social care don't turn up in a marked car!

leos-mummy

Nowher did i write my OH drinks himself stupid every night of the week, our child has nothing and no-one cares for him. OP was about a particular incident that upset me. I didnt post PLEASE HELP ME OH DRINKS ALL THE TIME AND ABUSES ME AND OUR SON

emsywoo123

As I am sure I said before, OP are you 12 or something? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Kimberley, I do not know how you can stay so polite to this "poster" after the malarky from before.

Still ti is a bit of entertainment on a Sunday evening........spect OP will by back, likely under a new username when her OH does this again. Shame on you for making a mockery of others problems.

And well done for making yourself think this is all our issue.....you were the one who told him to leave. apparently :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

leos-mummy

rachbc wrote: »

You sound like you'd know? Anyway how would neighbours know - social care don't turn up in a marked car!

I havent a clue how the SS operate, never had any dealings with them. Yet we all know of certain people in our communties who have dealings with the SS... and probably the majority of that is through gossip (im assuming)

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

i asked him to read some of the comments on here he said no he didnt care what strangers thought etc. I told him that im just as much to blame because i let it happen, that we are bad parents etc. He didnt say much he never opens up, was angry i called him a bad father but i know im a joke of a mother too its just hard to listen to. i waste money too so im not innocent, im struggling with debt and im trying my best

Says it all really.

Errata

What you did write was:
Yes, he has a drink problem
You sometimes hit him
You buy value meat as you can't afford better
The HB is spent on alcohol
You spend money you don't have

All the above mean that your son lives in an abusive household. His needs come second place to those of the adults.

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

Not really we've had problems with him not coming home before, switching his phone off and leaving me in distress. Nearly finished us... he's made many promises not to do it again but always breaks them. When asked how he would feel if i done it to him his reply is- 'I wouldnt be with you'
Its double standards... he does it because he knows he'll get away with it, that I'm too insecure to throw him out and actually mean it

Oh no maybe this one says more.....

leos-mummy

Ok so Im the only person guilty of spending money I dont have and having some debt? I dont think so. OH does not have a drinking problem if he did he'd be drinking now but hes not hes working. HB is not spent on alcohol... Nowher did i write HB in the bank and we go to offy and fill a trolley!
My son comes first, has done from the moment I knew I was expecting!

moomoomama27

Anyone who drinks their HB away, is a bad parent. It is selfish, and shows one doesn't have their priorities and responsibilities in the correct order.

moomoomama27

leos-mummy wrote: »

Ok so Im the only person guilty of spending money I dont have and having some debt? I dont think so. OH does not have a drinking problem if he did he'd be drinking now but hes not hes working. HB is not spent on alcohol... Nowher did i write HB in the bank and we go to offy and fill a trolley!
My son comes first, has done from the moment I knew I was expecting!

You love, need to go and re read what you wrote. What a joke!