Heartbroken!

leos-mummy

Like I said before, im anti abortion (not getting into a debate again) but dont really care what you or others do, I dont know you well enough to loose sleep over it and that is honestly not meant to be nasty. I have my own family to care for and all I know in my head that it would never be an option for me. Do as you please

Kimberley82

leos-mummy wrote: »

Like I said before, im anti abortion (not getting into a debate again) but dont really care what you or others do, I dont know you well enough to loose sleep over it and that is honestly not meant to be nasty. I have my own family to care for and all I know in my head that it would never be an option for me. Do as you please

thats a bit of a change from what you said before. You were judging very strongly before

leos-mummy

No I had a strong opinion then I recall apologising for causing offence and at how i came across on the thread (the morals and ethics discussion)

Emmzi

OP, you have ruined your credibility and you aren't going to convince anyone.

Why are you still posting?

Why do you care what anyone thinks if you are so confident and secure in your life?

Why are you trying to start fights and attention seeking?

leos-mummy

Not trying to start any fights but I have every right to defend myself when several people accuse me of child abuse, these people who have never met me and only know snippets of my life.

jolfc

leos-mummy wrote: »

How dare you! My son is not abused and nor would I ever let anyone hurt him. You know nothing about my life. I won't be getting evicted either. Are you actually thick or something? Your no better than the joke that is SS sticking their noses in where its not wanted and ignoring the actual terrible abuse that does go on. I have nothing to prove to anyone and I would invite anyone to inspect my home and family life for their is noting sinister going on. Yes my OH !!!!ed me off last week and I was angry, let my emotions get the better of me but he is far from an alcoholic. Get a life seriously and stop thinking your better than everyone else. Ive moved on maybe people still posting here should move on too!

Why are social sevices a joke, surely it is better they check anything out than ignore it and yes they do sometimes get it wrong, but better to be safe than sorry. They do miss real abuse too, but if people have nothing to hide whats the problem?

Emmzi

leos-mummy wrote: »

Not trying to start any fights but I have every right to defend myself when several people accuse me of child abuse, these people who have never met me and only know snippets of my life.

well either you tell them the whole story or you stop posting and digging yourself a deeper hole.

I know which one I'd do.

NO ONE KNOWS YOU IN REAL LIFE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARE.

leos-mummy

Thats true but its a bit of a shameful thing to have SS at your home if your completely innocent. Mud sticks and people talk unforunately so even if there is nothing going on in a particular family Im sure plenty of the neighbours would gossip

leos-mummy

Emmzi wrote: »

well either you tell them the whole story or you stop posting and digging yourself a deeper hole.

I know which one I'd do.

NO ONE KNOWS YOU IN REAL LIFE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARE.

I dont care

moomoomama27

leos-mummy wrote: »

My OH does not need help. Apart from special occasions he doesnt set foot out the door, yes sometimes he's stupid and doesnt come home... looses track of time is out enjoying himself etc. He has made it up to me and I love him dearly. Apart from that he has a drink on a saturday night and is fit to get up with LO sunday morning while I have a lie in.
We devote our time to our son, he doesn't go without and is loved deeply by us and the entire family circle. He is fed, clothed, bathed etc. We comfort and take care of him when he's sick. He plays outside, has social interaction at nursery school and at Mums and Toddlers. We sing with him, read books, he loves to dance. He has reached all the milestones for his age and is a very happy, healthy, thriving little boy... Now if thats child abuse I guess there's a hell of a lot of families geting it wrong then!

Then you have proved yourself to be a liar! Based on what you wrote about your OH in YOUR previous posts!

You have to be a joke, because if not I fear for people like yous children!