Heartbroken!

emsywoo123

KiKi wrote: »

It was who I meant, yes. I said 'seemingly' banned as I thought the member had been - but obviously not (apologies). She should have been!

KiKi

My angry face was that she had not been, not at your mistake, I totally agree with you

elisebutt65

Personally, I think the OP is the WORST kind of mother. Outwardly pretending everything is fine and telling herself she's a good mum, whilst letting her OP get away with drinking away the household's sole income.

I've also noticed it seems to be a lot of 'I can't' 'I don't feel I can' 'I want' What about the child? Never mind 'I' or 'me'! So little Leo's hungry? Well I can't kick OH out, because that would ruin my perfect family. Oh we're getting evicted. Never mind, at least we're still together.

What next? OH smacked/dropped/abused Leo, but I don't want to say anything in case I'm left on my own??

At least Chav mums who yell at and smack their kids in public, are honest about their abuse. You're just hiding it!

emsywoo123

elisebutt65 wrote: »

At least Chav mums who yell at and smack their kids in public, are honest about their abuse. You're just hiding it!

I have never really thought about this but it is quite a good point.... *pootles off to ponder.......*

leos-mummy

elisebutt65 wrote: »

Personally, I think the OP is the WORST kind of mother. Outwardly pretending everything is fine and telling herself she's a good mum, whilst letting her OP get away with drinking away the household's sole income.

I've also noticed it seems to be a lot of 'I can't' 'I don't feel I can' 'I want' What about the child? Never mind 'I' or 'me'! So little Leo's hungry? Well I can't kick OH out, because that would ruin my perfect family. Oh we're getting evicted. Never mind, at least we're still together.

What next? OH smacked/dropped/abused Leo, but I don't want to say anything in case I'm left on my own??

At least Chav mums who yell at and smack their kids in public, are honest about their abuse. You're just hiding it!

How dare you! My son is not abused and nor would I ever let anyone hurt him. You know nothing about my life. I won't be getting evicted either. Are you actually thick or something? Your no better than the joke that is SS sticking their noses in where its not wanted and ignoring the actual terrible abuse that does go on. I have nothing to prove to anyone and I would invite anyone to inspect my home and family life for their is noting sinister going on. Yes my OH !!!!ed me off last week and I was angry, let my emotions get the better of me but he is far from an alcoholic. Get a life seriously and stop thinking your better than everyone else. Ive moved on maybe people still posting here should move on too!

Kimberley82

leos-mummy wrote: »

How dare you! My son is not abused and nor would I ever let anyone hurt him. You know nothing about my life. I won't be getting evicted either. Are you actually thick or something? Your no better than the joke that is SS sticking their noses in where its not wanted and ignoring the actual terrible abuse that does go on. I have nothing to prove to anyone and I would invite anyone to inspect my home and family life for their is noting sinister going on. Yes my OH !!!!ed me off last week and I was angry, let my emotions get the better of me but he is far from an alcoholic. Get a life seriously and stop thinking your better than everyone else. Ive moved on maybe people still posting here should move on too!

OMG the irony, so its OK for you to think you are better than me? but when others do it to you its not OK?

moomoomama27

leos-mummy wrote: »

How dare you! My son is not abused and nor would I ever let anyone hurt him. You know nothing about my life. I won't be getting evicted either. Are you actually thick or something? Your no better than the joke that is SS sticking their noses in where its not wanted and ignoring the actual terrible abuse that does go on. I have nothing to prove to anyone and I would invite anyone to inspect my home and family life for their is noting sinister going on. Yes my OH !!!!ed me off last week and I was angry, let my emotions get the better of me but he is far from an alcoholic. Get a life seriously and stop thinking your better than everyone else. Ive moved on maybe people still posting here should move on too!

No you havn't, you're still bl00dy posting on this thread, trying to justify yourself. Own up love, your hubby needs help, and your son is not being cared for emotionally by either of you. Poor, poor little Leo!

LillythePink

Well, ask for this thread to be closed then!

And make a mental note to not post things on here when there is a good chance that you won't want to hear what's being said by anyone.

If you post on a public forum like this, then you will get all sorts of remarks and comments, you only have yourself to blame, so if you don't want to read what people have said, don't post in the first place.

gingin_2

moomoomama27 wrote: »

No you havn't, you're still bl00dy posting on this thread, trying to justify yourself. Own up love, your hubby needs help, and your son is not being cared for emotionally by either of you. Poor, poor little Leo!

Or, alternatively, own up and admit that he/she is on a wind up. I don't think I believe a word of it. Either that or she's totally deluded.

Honestly Leo's mum, either way, if you're genuine or a troll, your posts on here and other threads insulting to those who are genuinely going through a traumatic time. You've shown no compassion to others, no gratitude to those who have tried to help, no humility towards who were undoubtedly in the right.

I think you need help. Good luck.

leos-mummy

My OH does not need help. Apart from special occasions he doesnt set foot out the door, yes sometimes he's stupid and doesnt come home... looses track of time is out enjoying himself etc. He has made it up to me and I love him dearly. Apart from that he has a drink on a saturday night and is fit to get up with LO sunday morning while I have a lie in.
We devote our time to our son, he doesn't go without and is loved deeply by us and the entire family circle. He is fed, clothed, bathed etc. We comfort and take care of him when he's sick. He plays outside, has social interaction at nursery school and at Mums and Toddlers. We sing with him, read books, he loves to dance. He has reached all the milestones for his age and is a very happy, healthy, thriving little boy... Now if thats child abuse I guess there's a hell of a lot of families geting it wrong then!

Kimberley82

leos-mummy wrote: »

My OH does not need help. Apart from special occasions he doesnt set foot out the door, yes sometimes he's stupid and doesnt come home... looses track of time is out enjoying himself etc. He has made it up to me and I love him dearly. Apart from that he has a drink on a saturday night and is fit to get up with LO sunday morning while I have a lie in.
We devote our time to our son, he doesn't go without and is loved deeply by us and the entire family circle. He is fed, clothed, bathed etc. We comfort and take care of him when he's sick. He plays outside, has social interaction at nursery school and at Mums and Toddlers. We sing with him, read books, he loves to dance. He has reached all the milestones for his age and is a very happy, healthy, thriving little boy... Now if thats child abuse I guess there's a hell of a lot of families geting it wrong then!

Your planning not to answer my post then?