Heartbroken!

Errata

I'm sitting on my hands.

kathy206

leos-mummy wrote: »

Reading all this in tears... I shouldnt care but I do... Im a good mother and I know that. Its really soul destroying to be called a horrible mother and that SS should be called. I devote every minute to my son... Im done trying to prove myself on here

Good then maybe you'll get back in the real world where you are allowing yourself and your son to be walked all over by a waste of space OH who has evidently done exactly the same to 3 other mothers.
You are young and naive but you have contradicted yourself at every turn on this thread, you started the thread and then added more and more to it as the days have gone by then are sobbing because you don't like the responses you get.
I would echo what others have said, re-read the thread, see what information YOU have given voluntarily and then when you have been given some home truths by people who see straight through your and your OH's behaviour have then backtracked spectacularly, making yourself look foolish.
Not one person has said "oh dear, poor you" and that's what bothering you the most- we are all concerned for your child and the effect your OH's behaviour and drinking could be having on him, not least the fact you are handing over the rent money (according to you unwillingly)for him to wazz up the wall-in effect making yourself vulnerable to being made homeless.
I suggest you take a long hard look at your relationship. Not one of us has claimed to be perfect, we all have our problems, the difference is the majority of us keep it within our four walls rather than tipping and moaning about them on the internet, then tipping and moaning when we aren't told what we want to hear.

kathy206

Errata wrote: »

I'm sitting on my hands.

I really really tried but my temper got the better of me:o

jaibaby

I read the first post and actually felt sorry for you. I've been there, not knowing when he's coming home / what state he'll be in when he does.

But then I came across the post where someone said you coudln't afford decent (was it?) food for you and your child. I don't care about you, your child should come first. Before anything and anyone.

No matter what my OH did in the past, I made sure my children were ok. Didn't care about myself, just them. As long as they were ok, I was ok.

Not going to say anymore on the subject except I hope your son gets his priorities right when he's older

emsywoo123

Errata wrote: »

I'm sitting on my hands.

That was one of my first posts on this thread some 826545 pages back.... didn't go so well for me

kezzygirl

lol @this thread

jolfc

Have some posts disappeared, it seems shorter than when I looked back through it yesterday,

sazzybum

Phew-finally got through the abortion thread (thanks for the linky)

All I can say is.....:eek:

Yeah-wonderful situation OP- you're a paragon of motherhood and happy family life-NOT.

However, did anyone else notice something a bit odd? Some of the posts by LM were dreadful spelling, text speak, no punctuation-but some were articulate (even if they were balderdash), well spelt, used longer words than 'cuz i sed so'? It was as if it was two different people posting at times..

Maybe not just one troll..think we may have a herd here. Then again, it's maybe just my nasty, cynical, suspicious mind at work-and there really are people so stupid in the world..:)

globetraveller

sazzybum wrote: »

Phew-finally got through the abortion thread (thanks for the linky)

All I can say is.....:eek:

Yeah-wonderful situation OP- you're a paragon of motherhood and happy family life-NOT.

However, did anyone else notice something a bit odd? Some of the posts by LM were dreadful spelling, text speak, no punctuation-but some were articulate (even if they were balderdash), well spelt, used longer words than 'cuz i sed so'? It was as if it was two different people posting at times..

Maybe not just one troll..think we may have a herd here. Then again, it's maybe just my nasty, cynical, suspicious mind at work-and there really are people so stupid in the world..:)

I actually deleted an earlier post of mine. On another forum a member who was banned had the same pattern( looking like 2 different people posting). I am now fairly sure this is a troll.
I hope no-one is pming him/her.

gingin_2

I didn't respond to this thread because after the abortion thread I was pretty sure it was a troll. I also noticed the change in writing style on the other thread but wondered if Leo's mum was also on the bottle like the supposed OH as it seemed to happen only in the evenings.

This forum has gone mad of late :-( It's good in a Jeremy Kyle popcorn kind of way but a bit sad that worthwhile threads are being bumped off the main page due to timewasting numpties.