Heartbroken!

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

I guess its time for me to bow out now.

I actually thought that about you a while ago............ooooh about the time you were on the abortion thread.................

kathy206

You have totally gone back on EVERYTHING you posted previously. I haven't the time nor the patience to quote all your posts but EVERYTHING in your last post shows you up as a complete and utter liar and fantasist. I doubt you had any credibility anyway judging by your bigoted ill informed posts on abortion on another thread, so I suggest you grow up, come back into the real world and stop being such a drama queen. It's obvious you wanted some "there, there never mind" internet hugs, however the majority of us are far more savvy than you give credit for and can see straight through it.
I wish you luck because lady, you'll need it.

eta- we all posted what we did out of concern for your child and your situation, after reading YOUR posts - YOU posted that your OH drank too much, went out for days and slept all day the following day. Don't start moaning when you don't get the answers you want. I doubt you'll bow out you need the attention.:mad:

RacyRed

leos-mummy wrote: »

im a good mother.

Every little girl playing happy families with her dolls thinks she is a wonderful mother. But children do not understand the importance of emotional care any more than you do.

Please OP, grow up before your child does.

leos-mummy

Havent gone back on anything. This is my decision to make. I was never going to leave my OH on the basis of what posters told me on a forum and I mean that in the nicest way possible. We can only go by whats posted on here, I would never expect anyone to follow any advice on here down to a T because no-one knows them better than they do themselves. We never have full background history, we don't know both sides of a story etc.
Of course I wanted sympathy, I'l be the first to admit it... I know its sad but I seek reassurance from people. I've never suggested Im perfect to anyone and always admit my flaws

MrsAtobe

For crying out loud, girl, if you didn't want advice (and very good advice it has been, too), then why did you invite it by posting here? I would suggest that you take a long hard look at yourself and your actions, and then go and get yourself some help.

the_cat

leos-mummy wrote: »

Of course I wanted sympathy, /QUOTE]


Well job done then!

There appear to be a great many of us who feel sorry for you, albeit not for the reasons you might have hoped:D:rotfl:

Dawning

leos-mummy wrote: »

Oh he wont surface till around 3pm (quite normal for him after a night out) Not really anyone that can look after LO without them asking questions

You just said - in post #313 - he always gets up with the baby on a sunday morning because that's how it's always been. But on Sunday you wrote what I quoted above.
This is one very tiny example of why many of us think you're a troll at best, a fantasist at worst. Your tale is full of inconsistencies like this and you've gone back and forward and all over the place when the original issue was that he'd sexted someone.

as someone else said....dramalama

peachyprice

leos-mummy wrote: »

I would never expect anyone to follow any advice on here down to a T because no-one knows them better than they do themselves.

In that case I suggest you go back and read the nasty vindictive posts you made on the abortion thread because there you seem to know exactly what was best for the lady concerned

I have never encountered such a hypocrite in my entire life.

You know, you either made the whole story up about your delinquent OH for some bizarre need for attention or you are a totally stupid little girl who can't see that she is destroying her sons life because she's head is so far in the sand. Not sure which to be honest, but you can bet your bottom dollar that you'll be at the top of alot of people's ignore list.

peachyprice

leos-mummy wrote: »

Yes he drinks more than me but he always gets up on the sunday morning with our son because thats how its always been.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Priceless. He wasn't up with him last sunday was he.
You can't even remember what you've posted earlier, silly little girl.

suki1964

leos-mummy wrote: »

Havent gone back on anything. This is my decision to make. I was never going to leave my OH on the basis of what posters told me on a forum and I mean that in the nicest way possible. We can only go by whats posted on here, I would never expect anyone to follow any advice on here down to a T because no-one knows them better than they do themselves. We never have full background history, we don't know both sides of a story etc.
Of course I wanted sympathy, I'l be the first to admit it... I know its sad but I seek reassurance from people. I've never suggested Im perfect to anyone and always admit my flaws

You have gone back on every word you typed here

"OH is on a four day bender - its regular"
"when OH starts to drink he cant stop"
"OH says hes not drinking now till his birthday - but I know he wont be able to resist going out the weekends"
"if i dont give the OH the rent money he borrows it so I have to pay them back from the rent money to save him a kicking"
"OH has three other kids by different women who he dont get on with now"
"I cant drink along with the OH cos when we do we both get rat !!!!!d and fight"
"I cant afford good food for myself or my child"
"I have no control over my fianaces and also like to spend benefits on other things other then what my child needs"
"OH plans his drinking so he can take leave and if he cant take leave he throws a sickie"


Does any of that sound to you like good parents?

Admit that if you heard that story on JK you would be booing and hissing like the rest of them

Now thats the story you played out here. Thats the picture you painted - and now you wonder why we are saying you are either a rotton mother or a flipping fantasist troll??

Suggest that if you dont want advice and you dont want to look like a chav - you think about what you are posting and why you are posting.

Sympathy - you can go get that from your "real friends" - over a few bevvies in the pub on Saturday night whilst you are out getting your own back till 5am in the morning ( pi$$ing up benefits at that)