Heartbroken!

Errata

You are either a very foolish woman, or a very stupid one. Your OH went on a 4 day bender and the HB funded it.

BillTrac

OP, you keep posting about how you were 'angry' when you first posted.

Yet you keep replying when others comment. How long are you going to be angry for? I can understand someone being initially angry and saying things they later regret. But you keep posting, changing your story every time.

You are either a troll, or a very sad individual who really hasn't got a clue about real life. You profess to care about your little boy, yet you seem hell-bent on defending a low-life scrounging !!!!-lodger. He contributes very little, yet you are so bloody insecure that you seem to think the sun shines out of his !!!!.

I will be shot down in flames but I don't care.......

I think the best thing to happen is that someone takes your little boy away from you, takes him somewhere where he is valued and leaves you to live your life of benefits and cheap cider. You are 22 but act like you are 12. You live in a dream world where all is well, where it doesn't matter that your OH has worked his way through several women already, and you think it will all work itself out in the end.

Based on your postings I really hope that your little boy ends up with someone who loves him, puts him first and lets him enjoy the life he deserves. Unfortunately, I expect he will end up with a very insecure !!!!-lodger loving poor excuse for a mother like you and will never ,ever enjoy happiness in a loving family..

Threads like this make me wonder why decent people bother...

leos-mummy

No money in the account was his wages actually... yes it should have went towards rent but i dont get HB every fortnight and buy alcohol its not like that at all

Bloomin_Freezing2

leos-mummy wrote: »

Not trying to start any fights but I have every right to defend myself when several people accuse me of child abuse, these people who have never met me and only know snippets of my life.

Well, we only know what you are telling us. It is you that is painting the picture of a useless OH.

Face it, you will most probably end up like the other poor cows who he got up the duff. He'll get sick of your winging and go and bed someone else, if he isn't already. I mean, what happily married man stays out thil 5.30am and carries on drinking 4 night/days on the trot if he has a loving family at home??

I'm amazed he manages to have time to see his other kids 'every weekend' (from the ethics and morals thread) or does he not as he 'ex blocks access' (from your post in another thread) make your mind up.

What decent father only works part time when he has 4 kids to provide for? Does he only work 18 hours so it doesn't reduce your [STRIKE]free ride[/STRIKE] benefits?

leos-mummy

Well Bill, luckily Im a good mother with nothing to hide. I am 100 percent sure that if SS ever did visit I would get a glowing report and no child of mine would ever be taken from me

moomoomama27

Bloomin_Freezing2 wrote: »

Well, we only know what you are telling us. It is you that is painting the picture of a useless OH.

Face it, you will most probably end up like the other poor cows who he got up the duff. He'll get sick of your winging and go and bed someone else, if he isn't already. I mean, what happily married man stays out thil 5.30am and carries on drinking 4 night/days on the trot if he has a loving family at home??

I'm amazed he manages to have time to see his other kids 'every weekend' (from the ethics and morals thread) or does he not as he 'ex blocks access' (from your post in another thread) make your mind up.

What decent father only works part time when he has 4 kids to provide for? Does he only work 18 hours so it doesn't reduce your [STRIKE]free ride[/STRIKE] benefits?

Well said!!

I think this poster is a pathalogical liar.

I will always feel sorry for the children that are bought up with people like that It's so unfair on them to have to come second best to a bottle of beer!

leos-mummy

Yes its always a tough choice between buying a can of beer or milk for our son... Wise up seriously and stop making accustions of things you know nothing about

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

He isnt very sensible, i deal with all the finances partly because he's facing bankruptcy, up to his eyeballs in debt and no longer has a bank account. Its pathetic and I know it is,

Wages or HB, you took money out of your account to give him to go out drinking. Big hopes here you really are the 12 year old troll I imagine you to be, sadly I think you are not.......

emsywoo123

leos-mummy wrote: »

I am 100 percent sure that if SS ever did visit I would get a glowing report and no child of mine would ever be taken from me

Just showing your pathetic naivety and generally immature view of life!

Op you are a fool.

moomoomama27

leos-mummy wrote: »

Yes its always a tough choice between buying a can of beer or milk for our son... Wise up seriously and stop making accustions of things you know nothing about

I'm replying purely to what you said on previous posts!

No one who was a loving caring parent would risk their roof for a 4 day booze bender! No one who was a good parent would contemplate taking money for luxuries until the basics were paid for!

You said it......................so wise up to your life, before SS do get involved with your family, and cause your son even more emotional distress than he already appears to be going through.