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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    shellsuit wrote: »
    Bloodyhell, bit of a witch hunt going on here!

    What's the point in going over and over what's already been said?

    Mostly because alot of us tried to help her, and took the time to post experiences and offer support, and now basically she has thrown it back in our faces and essentially (not directly before you get your knickers in a twist OP) called us liars. Annoyed.com
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    Na he works on sundays actually :) special occassions are only time he goes out drinking otherwise its a sat night in the living room with a dvd after LO has been tucked up in bed

    Sounding alot like the dream marriage you acknowledge you didn't have in real life....
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    Na he'd be with me if they ever visited (which they wont) :)

    And you know that because...........
    ah yes, your heady combination of worldly wide life experience and psychic powers :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Mostly because alot of us tried to help her, and took the time to post experiences and offer support, and now basically she has thrown it back in our faces and essentially (not directly before you get your knickers in a twist OP) called us liars. Annoyed.com

    Yep, I did too.

    She's changed her mind now that her and the OH are on speaking terms again, which she is perfectly entitled to do.

    If she'd posted that her OH was a gambler and has spent the rent money, I bet the replies wouldn't have been as harsh ;)

    That's why I never rant about my husband, because I know it'll all blow over in the end! :D
    Tank fly boss walk jam nitty gritty...
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    Oh il be first to admit I dont have the perfect relaionship but we work hard at it because we love eachother and wouldnt give up at the first sign of trouble. OH could have left when things got tough and I was suffering PND but he didnt, I could have finished with him for being a stupid drunken man last week but i didnt.
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    shellsuit wrote: »
    Yep, I did too.

    She's changed her mind now that her and the OH are on speaking terms again, which she is perfectly entitled to do.

    If she'd posted that her OH was a gambler and has spent the rent money, I bet the replies wouldn't have been as harsh ;)

    That's why I never rant about my husband, because I know it'll all blow over in the end! :D

    And thats the lesson I have learned... dont post when emotions are raw either because yes the arguement I did have with OH did all blow over in the end and were back in a great place
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
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    leos-mummy wrote: »
    I dont care :)


    then you are attention seeking and trolling.

    I'm out.
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • jolfc
    jolfc Posts: 446 Forumite
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    leos-mummy wrote: »
    Na he works on sundays actually :) special occassions are only time he goes out drinking otherwise its a sat night in the living room with a dvd after LO has been tucked up in bed


    Except when he was in bed all day last Sunday, recharging his batteries for the next couple of days drinking, ;)
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    Yeah happens once in a blue moon... even less.
  • rachbc
    rachbc Posts: 4,461 Forumite
    he takes sickies when he a hangover has a remember - she said that about 87 pages back....not that he ever has a hangover, cos he doesn't go on benders...or something
    People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson
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