Heartbroken!

moomoomama27

emsywoo123 wrote: »

TBH Leos-Mummy, I think you have got a damn cheek to have preached about how "all life is important" and "children are precious and they have rights" etc etc blah blah blah on the abortion thread when you seem utterly incapable of prioritising and giving your son the right to a safe and protected childhood. That is your job. You are his mummy. If you don't do it, who will.

Stop flapping about on your high horse about other people's pregnancy's and get a grip of your own situation.

And before you give us the old "I care for my son he is safe" he isn't. You are risking his home and safety by staying with this man.

Harsh but so true.

Brilliantly said! You are not making your son your first priority, you are making him third priority, and as a mother I ofnd that shocking, the pair of you should feel ashamed of yourselves, clearly not responsible enough to have a child.

emsywoo123

moomoomama27 wrote: »

Brilliantly said!

Aw thanks I so rarely manage to convey what I mean on here :rotfl: :rotfl:

leos-mummy

OH has admitted he drinks too much, says he will leave tomorow.

Dawning

leos-mummy wrote: »

OH has admitted he drinks too much, says he will leave tomorow.

I'm trying to envisage the scene in your house. Are you sitting with your laptop, reading these posts and talking to OH all at the same time?
20 mins ago you were going on about how you shouldn't have to leave, now all of a sudden hes moving out in the morning? If that's the case, tell him to go now..he won't leave in the morning, he's just buying time.

sazzybum

leos-mummy wrote: »

OH has admitted he drinks too much, says he will leave tomorow.

You didn't type much there.. I take it you're upset?

I don't think he will, he'll talk you round..and everyone will be back here agin in a couple of months time..:(

pozalina

Dawning wrote: »

I'm trying to envisage the scene in your house. Are you sitting with your laptop, reading these posts and talking to OH all at the same time?
20 mins ago you were going on about how you shouldn't have to leave, now all of a sudden hes moving out in the morning?

I know, I'm thinking, give it a few mins and a few more posts and it'll be 'we'll never split up'.....

sazzybum

Dawning wrote: »

I'm trying to envisage the scene in your house. Are you sitting with your laptop, reading these posts and talking to OH all at the same time?
20 mins ago you were going on about how you shouldn't have to leave, now all of a sudden hes moving out in the morning? If that's the case, tell him to go now..he won't leave in the morning, he's just buying time.

Want to thank this post more than once

CH27

leos-mummy wrote: »

OH has admitted he drinks too much, says he will leave tomorow.

So you are in the middle of a life changing conversation & posting here at the same time?
Words fail.

leos-mummy

i asked him to read some of the comments on here he said no he didnt care what strangers thought etc. I told him that im just as much to blame because i let it happen, that we are bad parents etc. He didnt say much he never opens up, was angry i called him a bad father but i know im a joke of a mother too its just hard to listen to. i waste money too so im not innocent, im struggling with debt and im trying my best

Part of me not wanting him to leave is because i love him and worry were he will end up but he says thats not my problem... his ex partners are certainly thriving now there not with him. I was very quick to believe his side of the story regarding the break ups but I now can see in some part how he is to blame aswell

sazzybum

*Gets bored and wanders off*

Sorry-this is getting too far fetched now. People, including myself have problems of our own-which we are trying to work through.

Fact- he is a pi**head
Fact- You are in denial
Fact- Your son is at risk
Fact- you're a dramalama

Sorry folks who've tried to help, but this is a circle which is going tro keep happening. I'm not playing anymore