Heartbroken!

globetraveller

They are off renewing their vows today.

izzybusy23

globetraveller wrote: »

They are off renewing their vows today.

:T:T:T :rotfl:

The_Rizler

I read most of the posts on this thread and after skimming through some of it, I think that everyone shouldn't bother until the OP has her 'light bulb moment' as they quite often say on the Debt Free board. All she has to do is read the 14 pages worth to know that she's not going to get different advice but more of the same.
Please do yourself a favour and read the whole thread, then read it to your son (that is if you aren't a troll).
Good luck and when you have your lightbulb moment seek advice as that'll be when you'll hear the advice you need.

Errata

Please do yourself a favour and read the whole thread, then read it to your son

Why? He's only two years old.

leos-mummy

I dont think its fair being called a bad mother, no-one is perfect. My OH has admitted his problem and I am going to support him. When things between us are good their great. Obviously Ive been angry the past few days and things have been pretty one-sided but he is a good person taking care of me and our son, taking care of me when i had PND etc. Thanks for all your advice and will probably look it again in the future whether that be for something completely different or not, things are nowhere near perfect between us but not willing to give up at the first sign of trouble. If there wasnt love in my heart i wouldnt be with him

balletshoes

leos-mummy wrote: »

I dont think its fair being called a bad mother, no-one is perfect. My OH has admitted his problem and I am going to support him. When things between us are good their great. Obviously Ive been angry the past few days and things have been pretty one-sided but he is a good person taking care of me and our son, taking care of me when i had PND etc. Thanks for all your advice and will probably look it again in the future whether that be for something completely different or not, things are nowhere near perfect between us but not willing to give up at the first sign of trouble. If there wasnt love in my heart i wouldnt be with him

Where is that head-banging smiley when you need it :(.
I'm out.

thatgirlsam

leos-mummy wrote: »

I dont think its fair being called a bad mother, no-one is perfect. My OH has admitted his problem and I am going to support him. When things between us are good their great. Obviously Ive been angry the past few days and things have been pretty one-sided but he is a good person taking care of me and our son, taking care of me when i had PND etc. Thanks for all your advice and will probably look it again in the future whether that be for something completely different or not, things are nowhere near perfect between us but not willing to give up at the first sign of trouble. If there wasnt love in my heart i wouldnt be with him

Well obviously thats up to you.. even though you are being made a complete fool of

No mother is perfect.. but you are failing to protect your son and thats basic I'm afraid

Errata

You're a bad mother because the rent money is spent on drink. He's a bad father because the rent money is spent on drink.
End of.

leos-mummy

My rent is always paid were not on the streets. My son is loved and cared for. Trust me, im far from a bad mother

Errata

leos-mummy wrote: »

Yep i dread to look in the account... rent due to be paid a week ago and no hope of gettin it gathered up til another week

You obviously forgot you'd posted this.
I don't think you would know what good parenting is if it put you across its knee and smacked your bottom.