Uni's going to try and change her life for the better.....

chevalier

Oh uni I am so sorry that he is doing this to you. He should be ashamed of himself that he has made you cry with his thoughtlessness. So has he gone to sign on today? Got the local paper for jobs? Looked online for jobs in your area? Signed on with all the temp agencies in your area? NO? Then !!!!!! what DOES HE THINK HE IS GOING TO LIVE ON?
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Uniscots97

Told him to go to doctor this morning for sick line (to cover him until his leave date at end of month so he doesn't have to pay any money back!), ask doctor about his depression, pick up my prescription (he's now realised effect he's having on me as I'm back on my stomach medication) and his and phone agencies.

He called once he's been to doctor's and he's also registered for stop smoking too so they've given him patches etc and said not to buy him any cigarettes. He asked me if I wanted him to leave, I said no unless he goes back to the way it was before in which case yes. Told him SS's dig money is getting up'd from tonight and tough cookie if he doesn't like it. OH got chance of some work tonight and expected me to drive him in and go get him, told it wasn't feasible petrol wise and he could get the train, SS can take him to train station and I'll pick him up. I feel sick I really do, I know he was getting picked on at work but the bosses are powerless to do something unless the guy is caught and OH said he just couldn't stand it anymore.

On a positive note I have another hamper order, and paid £100 to Doi and £100 to C1. This probably just covers what I have spent on them this month but better clearing that than not. Also Ebay sales made £14, so that is transferring to my account at the moment.

Lemon_Tree

so sorry Uni, sending you hugs, what does your OH really think he's doing, i've been bullied at work before but i would never leave one job without having another one to go to, especially in this economic climate and the job market the way it is.

Uniscots97

I know LT, I feel the same way. He just won't listen. He is at least working tonight, and did get the train (where as before he would have insisted he be dropped off at his destination and picked up!). He knows I'm angry. He did keep his appointment with the no smoking clinic. Phoned my Mum tonight and told her, she's angry too. SS completely doing my head in he will just not listen to what is in black and white (i.e. regarding his holiday and the booking paper work he won't believe me it says that you need the emailed e-ticket and he's going on holiday with his aunt, uncle and cousins and they are already there..... for a month!!!!!). I just wanted to see my dog tonight (she's over at my Mum's and the drive isn't feasible), just to cuddle up. Is that sad?

I downloaded a load of the Campbell's voucher from the freebies board and stocked up on a few of my favourites. I had been good all day until earlier I fancied some of the Campbell's pasta so made some, yes it takes my calories upto 2000 for today and I know it's comfort food but I think it was needed. Need to go to shops tomorrow and get the rest of the stuff for the nappy hamper.

Uniscots97

Well its day 2 for OH as a non-smoker and he's still not had a cigarette. I found some jobs last night when on the net and sent them over to him asked him to look today but not sure if he's looked or gone back to bed (as he's not answered my last text). It was a late night last night, he didn't make the earlier train by time he finished. So that meant picking him up just after midnight. Trying to get up this morning was a nightmare, just didn't want to get up.

I got another hamper order this morning, a gift hamper this time.

Keiss_21

Oh dear, lots of (((((((((hugs))))))))) heading your way Unix.

Sounds like you really need them and that your OH and SS both needs kicks up their behinds!!! The two of them really need to get their acts together, they make me so :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Take care of yourself first and formost gal xx

Uniscots97

Thanks Keiss, OH told SS his dig money is going up from this week. SS went into a complete huff saying it wasn't fair etc, but I'm not going back on it.

ZTD

unixgirluk wrote: »

Thanks Keiss, OH told SS his dig money is going up from this week. SS went into a complete huff saying it wasn't fair etc, but I'm not going back on it.

Accomodation is a competative business. He's free to go to other providers and see if he can leech off them instead.

chevalier

like i have said before SS needs to be sat down and SHOWN the cost of renting in even a shared house. Then he will KNOW without a doubt what a cushy life he has with you. But I wouldn't even bother I would say well if that is too much money for you, you have 4 weeks to find somewhere else, and stick to it!!!! He is a git and you don't need the stress
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Lemon_Tree

Z that is so funny!
hope today has been an improvement Uni