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Uni's going to try and change her life for the better.....
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unixgirluk wrote: »I am so tired this morning. OH called me at 3am this morning, long story but I am not happy with him.
At 3am, only Mills and Boone heroines are happy...unixgirluk wrote: »Had to go get him, he's stressing me out completely (might feel better once I've had a cuppa and some breakfast, had nothing so far) and he just will not listen. Was mega late for work this morning and it got noticed. Went back to bed after bringing him home and when I finally got back to sleep I slept it. I'm so angry, he's full of advice for other people (suck it up and get on with it was the advice he gave me when I was in the same situation) but won't take any himself.
It's easy to give hard advice that isn't advice at all. Not so easy to take it.unixgirluk wrote: »Told him if he doesn't sort this out I'm not going back to him sitting about the house and all the rows.
:grouphug:unixgirluk wrote: »I think he needs a boot up the backside Keiss, told him as much. Went to take money out if HIS account to buy his cigarettes and he's overdrawn. I put £120 in there last week, I've used it twice £11 in supermarket and £20 cash machine. I told him he better sort it out, there's money coming out of his account somehow and since I've had the card I know he's not been spending.
Oh yeah? That's suspicious...Lemon_Tree wrote: »i slept through the first half hour of my alarm this morning as well, but most of that's cos Mr LT was chatting in bed last night til about half twelve, he didn't get the hint with me barely answering. trouble is we seem to do most of our 'deep' chatting in bed after 18mths of living a part and chatting every night once we'd got to bed.
You could try going to bed earlier, so the chat starts earlier?
In bed may be the only time when you both aren't messing with something else, or watching flickering lights from the box in the corner of the room."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
very true Z!
we tried to get to bed earlier last night but it didn't really work. roll on my holibob then it won't matter so much and i can catch up on my lost sleep0 -
The lack of money in OH's account turned out to be a direct debit. Even though he told me there were none due! I seem to know his accounts better than he does. I still have his card and he gets paid tomorrow. I'll be withdrawing the money he owes me for cigarettes.CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J0
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good girl make sure he pays you back before he does anything.0
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Thanks LT, went and got the money this morning. Thats the Nappy cake I was doing delivered (white and blue), I really hope she likes it. Was trying to balance my laptop bag, handbag, car keys, security pass and the nappy cake coming in this morning.CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J0
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Not happy, OH quit his job. Post more tomorrow.CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J0
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Oh !!!!!! is he 4 or something? I KNOW that his job has been stressing him out, but getting back into debt was something he should have thought about too. AND THE EFFECT THAT HIS SELFISHNESS will have on you. You should always have a job to go to especially at the moment. Walking is not an option when you have responsibilities. And guess what I bet the SS walks too, now that he has been given the idea.....
Sorry if I have reacted badly to this, but I just feel so sad for you
chevI want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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unixgirluk wrote: »Not happy, OH quit his job. Post more tomorrow.
Get his size and buy him some satin shorts. He's working the docks tomorrow..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
Sat here in tears, sorry not more talkative. He's taking the F'** P.CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J0
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unixgirluk wrote: »Sat here in tears, sorry not more talkative. He's taking the F'** P.
He is.
He now has to prove himself and pronto."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0
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