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  • jetta_wales
    jetta_wales Posts: 2,168 Forumite
    Any wrote: »
    Incredible thread!
    However IMO OP showed with their comment about not sharing bed not being normal that perhaps with attitude like this talking to neighbours would not help..with this attitude I would slap the door in their face!

    Getting just a little mixed up with who's who on the thread it seems.
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  • Any
    Any Posts: 7,959 Forumite
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    Getting just a little mixed up with who's who on the thread it seems.

    Well it has 8 pages!!
  • Any
    Any Posts: 7,959 Forumite
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    Appology to the OP, it seems it wasn't them with the attitude I mentioned..!!
    It stinks still though (no pun intended:-)))
  • onlyroz
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    shellsuit wrote: »
    So everyone who smokes is a dreg of society?
    I wouldn't quite go that far, but most smokers are in complete denial about how foul they smell and how stupid they look.

    In a similar vein to the thread about how wearing ear-rings can affect people's perceptions about you, I think smoking is the same. You don't usually see the CEO of a company lurking by the doors of the office block with a fag hanging out his gob...
  • anguk
    anguk Posts: 3,412 Forumite
    onlyroz wrote: »
    I wouldn't quite go that far, but most smokers are in complete denial about how foul they smell and how stupid they look.

    In a similar vein to the thread about how wearing ear-rings can affect people's perceptions about you, I think smoking is the same. You don't usually see the CEO of a company lurking by the doors of the office block with a fag hanging out his gob...
    You'd be surprised how many do. ;)
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  • harrys_nan
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    Well, having read though this all unfolding,I can only add thank God none of all you non smokers live next to me, Cannot belive your how you all react about someone smoking in their own garden, Im sure Ive got much more important matters to be concerned over. By the way I am an ex smoker and gave up only because of the cost, I enjoyed my disgusting habit, Live and let live I say.
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  • Harley80
    Harley80 Posts: 29 Forumite
    8 pages of this! Crazy. Surely the sensible thing to have done in most of the cases here would be to talk to the neighbours. Most people (not all, but most), I'm sure wouldnt mind if someone came up to them, explained the situation and it would be resolved. Making a point of closing the doors everytime someone has a cigarette, why dont you just talk to them? As for telling people they stink, I think if I did that to someone round here, I would get a punch in the mouth.
  • euronorris
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    onlyroz wrote: »
    I wouldn't quite go that far, but most smokers are in complete denial about how foul they smell and how stupid they look.

    In a similar vein to the thread about how wearing ear-rings can affect people's perceptions about you, I think smoking is the same. You don't usually see the CEO of a company lurking by the doors of the office block with a fag hanging out his gob...

    Are you sure about that? I've seen it fairly often.
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  • Kimberley82
    Kimberley82 Posts: 1,717 Forumite
    From the people I know it does seem the more successful the more they smoke, I guess its the stress of their jobs. My dad only gave up once he sold all his companies.
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  • spadoosh
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    Any wrote: »
    Incredible thread!
    However IMO OP showed with their comment about not sharing bed not being normal that perhaps with attitude like this talking to neighbours would not help..with this attitude I would slap the door in their face!


    I'd just slap their face :)
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