Those who are waiting to TTC

daisiegg

browneyedbazzi wrote: »

dasiegg - if you're sure that you're both on the same page about things and the pressure thing isn't a possible explanation then I go back to my starting point - men are sometimes as irrational/illogical etc as they claim we are!

I know this was a couple of weeks ago but I have been on holiday......during which we discussed babies loads, talked about how next summer will be our last child free holiday (hopefully), etc...lots of it initiated by him. So it seems he is back on the same page, thank god!

browneyedbazzi

dasiegg - welcome back! I hope you enjoyed your holiday and I'm really glad to hear that you and your OH talked and are back on the same page again

lilymay - I haven't been TTC at all yet! lol Like I said, I may change my mind when the time comes but I really want to stay as relaxed as possible throughout. I know things don't always work out to plan but they do for some so until I have reason to believe otherwise I choose to believe things will work out for me.

lilymay1

browneyedbazzi wrote: »

until I have reason to believe otherwise I choose to believe things will work out for me.

And so you should! As long as people are aware of the issues that may arise with TTC and indeed during pregnancy, there is point getting all miserable about something that may never happen to you! Good luck! :j

amus

browneyedbazzi wrote: »

As for me, I heard today that I've got an interview for the job I applied for last week. I need to go try on my suits and hope one of them fits and looks good still! Fingers crossed!

Good luck!!

Ellie83

amus wrote: »

Good luck!!

I second that

Ellie83

Would it be really rude to ask you all ladies how old you are and whether or not your already have children?

I'm just worried I'm getting to old as I have no one to compare with!

So I'm 29 and I am childless

optimistic-mummy

browneyedbazzi wrote: »

I'm not sure if I'll join over there. I feel quite comfortable on this thread and it keeps me sane, but I think when I go from waiting to actually trying I'll want to be as relaxed as possible about it (for as long as possible). I'm not really keen on all the POAS, counting down to testing and analysing ever symptom etc because I think it would drive me a little crazy lol. I may change my mind when the time comes but I think I'll stay away for a few months at least.

im the same hun, we've decided when the time comes for TTC we're just going to not use anything and go with the flow and see what happens (my we i mean me and my partner) IYSWIM xx

sammy_wheeler

Ellie83 wrote: »

Would it be really rude to ask you all ladies how old you are and whether or not your already have children?

I'm just worried I'm getting to old as I have no one to compare with!

So I'm 29 and I am childless

im 26 (27 in november) and no i dont have any children yet

browneyedbazzi

Thank you Ellie and amus!

Ellie - I'm 33 and don't have any children.

Yargo1

I'm 38 and have no children . Will start t t c in December