Those who are waiting to TTC

euronorris

Sorry to hear about your OH being so flaky about this COMP. It's really unfair. HUGE ((HUGS)) for you! xxx

Needhelpsaving

Hi all,

It seems like its the month of funny AF's - mine took ages too - 7 weeks between them. I was gutted when the test was negative.

I am fed up of work now. I moved jobs about 9 months ago and wish I hadn't. I don't want to keep moving though, so will need to stick it out. Hopefully if we can keep ploughing away at the mortgage and CC, I might be able to persuade OH to bring the TTC date forward. It's not that I don't want to work, it's just that I am not really enjoying it. There are only 2 of us in our team and my boss has been off a lot recently with one thing and another. Any how,I will stop complaining!

RebekahR

For any of you that may be interested I am reporting back that after almost 6 months of leaving this thread I have just got my BFP! I will be watching you all for moving over and getting your bfp's also!!

LittleMoog

Congratulations Rebekah! :j

LittleMoog

morning all
My AF is messing with me this month, stopped overnight Thurs/Fri, only to start again Fri lunchtime. Nothing on Saturday, but heavy-ish spotting yesterday and today?! *confused*

DH and I have been discussing when to start TTC again, we're currently thinking March/April, for sensible money/work/life reasons, but really want to start asap was nice to get some reassurance from DH that he's as keen as me, even if he's not talking about it that much.

euronorris

RebekahR wrote: »

For any of you that may be interested I am reporting back that after almost 6 months of leaving this thread I have just got my BFP! I will be watching you all for moving over and getting your bfp's also!!

Congratulations Rebekah! I told you it'd happen for you! Wahoooo :j

morocha

hi, ya ladies, if you dont mind i will be joining in...
Here is my story, i have a 4 yo DD and i want to have my last child soon, the gap between them is already big- i think.
In Setember i came off te pill and it was all over the place, we only tried unprotected sex the dates after period, so no chance.
October, nothing, oh'snana had a stroke, so emotionally he was all over the place, this happens in my fertile wk too.. anyway she is doing ok.
November, i should Ov sunday, as other members in the TTC thread know, Oh and I had an argument last night, he is unsure bla bla bla... it is not happening then... He says if we find out i am pregnant he will be over the moon, but actually planning it.. it is a bit scary ( our DD was unplanned), dont know what he wants, MEN!... then he says he wants to do without protection.. i dont understand.. anyway.. i will not happen this month. I am still upset at the things he said.

clearing_out_my_pockets

Hi Morocha - I had seen you on the 'grown up' thread as I lurk on there.

Do you want adding to the front page?

morocha

hehhe, yes, i was there, everyone is so nice.

euronorris

Hi Morocha, and welcome to the thread!

Sorry to hear about your OH being so indecisive. Have you tried asking him to clarify exactly what he wants? And if he doesn't know, asking him to have a think about it and then discuss it again later?

It's so frustrating when they are all over the place like that, I don't think they understand how much confusion and upset it causes.

((HUGS)) for you.

How is everyone else?

COMP - how are you doing my dear?

Me - well, still waiting on the new family member. Sister is booked in for a sweep tomorrow if still no joy. I hope the little one arrives before my visit next weekend! Eek!

Also saw the doc yesterday and I have to have an op on both my wrists. Been avoiding it for the best part of 5 years, but there are no alternatives left now. Ho hum, at least things seem to move quickly here as my consultant appt is next Tuesday! So, that has kinda made me feel like 'OK, babies can wait until these ops are done and out of the way.' which has lifted the (self imposed) pressure in that area.

Soooo looking forward to my visits home too. Visiting family next weekend, and then friends in Bath the weekend after

xx