Seriously need help...please :)

tomitma

Sweetie_Jo wrote: »

What is wrong with you people? I have been paying into the system since I was 16 years old!!

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SO HAVE MANY OTHERS OF US, MAYBE IF YOU HAD STAYED IN SCHOOL A BIT LONGER YOU MIGHT HAVE LEARNT SOME MANNERS.

YOU ASKED A QUESTION AND HAVE BEEN GIVEN THE ANSWER, Why should you be paid to breed, and stay at home?

Sweetie_Jo

I was given the answer by people who understand my situation!

Not by people like your self who are automatically sterotyping me!

kimmy112

well if you really feel the need to give up work then do so! just dont expect us all to pay for your child. this is 2011 very few people can live of a single wage. its the way things are. deal with it.

baza52

Sweetie_Jo wrote: »

My partner is on a low wage of £17,000.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

So you have 17k a year coming in plus CB and tax credits.
That should be more than enogh to survive on.
If you were on benefits you would be expected to live on a lot less.

Sweetie_Jo

Your saying dont expect us all to pay for my child! Well ok, dont expect me to pay for your medical treatment when you next need it! I am still paying into the system and if you read my original post, I was ONLY considering this option!!!

Sweetie_Jo

IF i was to give up work, I would be doing so to look after my child!

I can't stop my tax being used to help drunks and drug addicts on the nhs but it still is!

kimmy112

im not asking to pay for my medical treatment my husband pays £300 a month in tax! im pretty sure he's the one paying for it.

its quite funny really... people managed fine before tax credit etc where even around. they did what they needed to so they could look after there families. i guess people these days are just too lazy.

Sweetie_Jo

It's not that people are too lazy!

The cost of living has gone up since those days!

Bunii_Hugz

Sweetie_Jo wrote: »

I was given the answer by people who understand my situation!

Not by people like your self who are automatically sterotyping me!

You dont know peoples situations who have responded to your question so I think this is a bit unfair ... none of us have control of where our tax money goes !

kimmy112

they also earn't a lot less!